What does it mean when he cums quick?

Question

So I met up with a guy. We hanged out and things let to more. So we made out and right when we actually start having sex. He did like 2-3 strokes and he ejaculated. (There was a lot of cum). But I really didn’t get to enjoy it. I felt like it was over so quick and I felt like we only had sex for like 1 or 2 minutes.
But what are some reasons he finished so quick? I’m sure he knows why he finished quick. But I didn’t want to embarrass him by asking.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Cuz he was too excited and he probably hasn’t got laid in awhile , so don’t assume the worst case scenario just yet , I know it sucks that he didn’t get you off but don’t throw in the towel on him just yet, Girls don’t realize how amazing her pussy feels to our penises , it’s very sensitive especially if we haven’t got laid in awhile , so my word of advice is if you really like this guy keep giving him more sex and it’s ok for you to ask him if he can try to last longer , so you can get pleased as well , if he keeps failing you , then you can reconsider that relationship cuz it could mean he is only caring about himself and not caring about you , which is wrong in many ways , and could lead you into getting fucked by someone else that can please you. when. a guy really likes a girl he wants to make sure she is pleased before he finishes , if he keeps failing her then that just means he only cares about himself , but also look at the frequency of sex between you both , if you give him sex once and then don’t give him sex again say for a week your chances of making him last longer in bed is slim , why it’s best for any new relationship to have sex like 3 or 4 times in the same night plan a weekend where you both are having sex all weekend long he will eventually get to a point where he is going to make you cum and last longer , why sex is important in a relationship , when sex fades so does the relationship

Paul_in_Indy · Accepted Answer

It’s absolutely normal- even enjoyable- That he exploded instantly. What I don’t understand is why he stopped. Yes, he should have made sure you enjoyed yourself. …but HE should have wanted to enjoy himself! Even if I realized I was making a mistake, I would have made sure you had a good time once we started. And if I wanted you (which I assume he did) I would have kept at it until we were both fully satisfied. I would have squeezed ALL the juice from that orange!

If he went through all the trouble to meet a girl, and hang out and get that fire lit…then stopped before it really got started…I assume he does not “get” sex, and he, probably never will. I would say he isn’t worth your time. I would not pay him any mind.

The one possibility that might redeem him: Maybe he was just embarrassed and didn’t care that stopping would ruin the sex (and his chances)?

katiesmuff · Accepted Answer

Aren't you a bit more excited in a weird way the very first time you open your legs for a new guy and especially when he gets to sticking it in you? Well guys are just like that, except they cum so easy in the first place all the extra new girl, new pussy excites them to the point of no return, thusly a quick release of the of the milky goo we call cum!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

They always cum fast the first time just have him do it a second time.

Guy13 · Answer

You’re hot. He is really turned on by you. Talk to him GENTLY if you need him to go longer….

spartan55 · Answer

Tell him to break one off before next time.

stratford · Answer

Do you only orgasm from PIV? He should / could be making sure you climax before he does.

Dargil · Answer

You may have prepped him too far with foreplay.

Shedzij567 · Answer

Inexperience

Luffy1990 · Answer

Maybe too much foreplay for him

Redhawkedancing · Answer

That happened to me a lot in my youth. He may just be super sensitive, or not familiar with certain pelvic exercises to strengthen his endurance.

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

Being nervous and over excited.

Stevefiveo · Answer

He is inexperienced and over excited by you. Just wait a little bit and get him hard again and he should last longer. You might have to hint that you didn't get to cum and that he didn't do his job.

Danisgivingit · Answer

Just felt too good. He didn’t lead to control the pleasure. He may be new to the sex scene. You really riled him up. Next time, let him know you need to attention and maybe have him take care of you. He likely won’t mind, since he can cum quickly right after you

Brando10222 · Answer

He was really horny that he couldn't control it

LavLavLuv · Answer

U got that gorilla kingkong grip type of pussy

peterrezeeek · Answer

because he is probably virgin, but he's 100/100 didn't cum for more than 2 days to be able to cum a lot and this quick... he finds u super attractive, but its not under his control