For me, sex feels like an uncontrollable pleasure mixed with a hint of pain. The few times I have had sex, I learned that there is something in the vagina that makes sex feel really good; however, because I am getting stretched, there's a bit of pain there. I heard something about a nerve in there called "g-spot", I'm not sure it's a myth or not but there's definitely something in there that makes intercourse not terrible. The penis in the vagina feels a little cold at first but I guess it warms up after being in there.
I would suggest maybe watching a little porn just to get a look of the vagina and other female parts (maybe)
Hint of Pain? 😰 you make sex sound like a terrible experience and really not good at all. I'm afraid to ever have sex because I'm afraid of hurting her. I always her girls have pain during sex and they only do it because the guy wants it.
I'm not sure about other women but personally, I am always nervous to have sex so naturally I tense up until I become more comfortable during the act.
Still. I wouldn't want to hurt the girl. Why do people have sex if it feels painful. 😰
kinda hard to describe. It's just something you have to experience in appropriate time.
There are various chemicals that go off in our bodies and it changes, a concoction to reward us to mate and stay together... oxytocin is the best. you can get that from hugs and other affection, you feel it there.
it's warm, wet, somewhat gross, its hard to believe it seems like a good idea when you think about it. It's a natural drug hit.
unfortunately, that hit does not last... and reality sets in...
aren't drugs bad? And her gross? I'm afraid to get close in a relationship, especially after my last one.
drugs are nature! Our glands produce all the chemicals we need, the drugs... thats how so many synthetics were found and made... they modeled them after our own bodies. If we do something that is fulfilling and joyful, we will feel that emotion and drugs released. Give a genuine hug of support, get oxytocin. Continually message people online... get a dopamaine hit (not good). etc.. Sex is just another set of emotional circuitry and chemicals... as our brain takes over for that function. The erection itself is some kind of miracle! When you are in the intimacy situation, it feels amazing and warm and intimate, and knowing you are bringing her pleasure, it's really good. The male brain starts to focus more and more as she becomes an object... kinda mirrors the very start of life I think. The after orgasm part is a major lift I'm sure you are aware of to some degree and then an energy crash followed by some kind of relaxation for us... the girls keep going... or could keep going forever. When you are out of all that and reading your newspaper and thinking about her when she's gonna be 80yeras old, you wonder what the heck you were thinking...:) But, it's where we come from, and whence we want to return to start the cycle again.
We all get hurt sadly, some of us for decades, multiple marraiges until we work out our emotional junk. My advice for you is to work out your emotional junk but it may not be possible without a catalyst of change, a female. As such, you'll have to pick your path.. face your fears, go out and talk to girls and journal your feelings, and experience (Im not saying sex, I'm saying how you feel, emotion, fears, etc..) and grow. Maybe you'll find a new girlfriend and the process starts over. This is refining you as you grow into an adult that can manage a family. Your neediness is your emotional challenge I think. I'd work an extra job for $, go to a counselor and figure stuff out... sooner the better. Sitting around in fear, eventhough your body is propelling you towards females, is not helpful. it is ok to take time to recover though, I getcha... in your timing, when you are ready to face those challenges. I'd rather you win one of these girls over than someone who is going to use and abuse her and break her heart. There's always a risk in love...
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