What does sexual variety mean?

My boyfriend and I have regular & anal sex. I give him a lot of blowjobs (he says these are the best he has ever had and I am the first who made him come from it as before me he did not enjoy them). We have a vibrator, sex game, cock ring. We play that he is my boss or I am a police woman. We have sex ca 5 times per week.

I said I love the variety in our sex life. He said we do not have that much variety. What does it mean? What is variety in sex?

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  • It sounds like you're doing your part (good on you!); if there's more he'd like, then from what you've said here, you'd be willing to at least hear him out. It's not exactly fair of him to make you GUESS and then get annoyed with you not knowing, though. Why not ask him what he'd like?

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  • I'm not sure he knows what variety means lol.

    On the other hand, if you do all the same things with all the same stuff in roughly the same order, then perhaps it's becoming all the same for him.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Maybe try bondage? Me and my boyfriend do light bondage where he ties my hands behind my back and it drives him crazy

  • You guy's are having a great sex lif as far as I can tell

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  • He’s using you for sex.

    • why do you think so?

    • Because your relationship is purely sexual and that’s all either of you seem to care about

  • i guess he have fantasy he want to explore

  • I have try to do anal and i could not get it in the the hole just like her pussy I am too think to try it or so what should I do about that

  • some more dicks and pussies... threesome, foursome, group sex, gangbang etc.

    • he told me he doesn’t want that. i am bi. so i am wondering how to have even more variety?

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  • It seems to me like you already have plenty of variety. Lots of oral, vaginal and anal sex works for us.

    My girlfriend also likes toys and has a nice collection. She has a vibrating butt plug she loves to have in her when I'm in her pussy.

    She has another vibrator that is shaped like a giant sperm with a tail on it that she puts in her vagina while I'm doing her in the ass. It feels good for me too.

    I feel like we have plenty of variety.

  • It's hard to answer that question for someone else because everyone has different preferences and definitions of sexual variety. I think for most people, the way you describe your current sex is pretty great. My wife and I also have vaginal and anal sex regularly and use toys a lot, and it's very satisfying for both of us. We have toyed with the idea of trying some BDSM stuff but haven't yet. Neither of us have any interest in threesomes or swinging though. It's all very personal.