What does this shitty behavior mean?

[DollAlone]

My man is obsessed with porn and it has become a huge issue. He sneaks off to watch it whenever he has a chance. People have told me not to worry, its just a "fantasy" thing for guys. In the meantime im being called "disgusting " "fat" , "pig" and being told i need to lose weight. How is someone supposed to be okay with their partner being infatuated with these "fantasies" but treating me like im nothing? Its ruining my self esteem and causing irreversible insecurities. Is that normal for men to do that to somone they love?

[holdem4884]

No, it's become all too common but it's not normal. Porn actually rewires the circuitry of the brain related to sexual pleasure. Men become addicted to it like crack, no joke. The more time he spends with porn the more difficult it will be for him to enjoy and get off during actual sex.

It's a serious problem for society, certainly for your relationship, and most importantly your self esteem.

Don't let anyone tell you otherwise and don't put up with it. You deserve better. He could get past it if he decides to but it will require professional help as it is a serious addiction that he will return to without intervention.

[avaisfree]

This sounds like two problems. If a guy is always insulting you instead of accepting you then he's destructive and you need him out of your life. The porn though, I don't know, if you let yourself get mad at guys for looking at porn then you're going to spend all of your life being mad at guys. Better to just let go of the anger and try to find a guy who likes porn of girls who look similar to you.

[MacMan156]

First of all, people who judge you for your appearance are totally wrong, they shouldn't do it because it's wrong there's no doubt about it.
As for porn, I watch it too but I'm trying to stop because my girlfriend don't like it too. Many times I do it secretly and it made me feel bad, so I guess I know it's not right. I guess in the girls point of view, we shouldn't do it right?

[Reece12345]

This guy doesn't love you or he wouldn't treat you this way.

The question I have is after all the shitty things he's said and done, why do you think this guy loves you?

He obviously does not. If you stick around with this guy you're only going to get more pain.

Dump him at once and never think of him again.

[Twalli]

It's not normal for him to insult you and favor porn over you.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think he finds you sexually attractive if he says those things and would rather watch porn than have sex.

leave him, why are you there if he feels that way but didn’t leave you he’s probably just keeping you for convenience.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Dump this loser. The porn thing is bad enough, but the insults, that is too much.