What does "top 5" mean sexually?

[Anonymous]

I accidentally saw my boyfriend's messages to his friends. (He left his computer open on the bed. I was doing laundry.) He is in a group chat with his friends and they were talking about sex. My boyfriend was talking about me and he said, "Yeah, her pussy is in the top 5 of all the girls I've slept with." Is this a compliment? Don't shame me please, I know that this comment was pretty tasteless of him to say but I'm not gonna get mad or confront him.

[Grovermint]

It's a compliment and to any of those ladies that are mentioning how insulting it is, I've overheard plenty of ladies talking far more indepth about their past and current lovers. I have a policy of not talking about it, though, not that I have much experience.

[Asker]

So does it technically mean "one of the best?"

[Grovermint]

Yes. You can talk to each other about ways to improve for both of your shared experiences. I'm sure there are ways he can make it better for you.

[Asker]

So it means it's really good for him then?

[Grovermint]

Yes.

[WindAtMyBack]

He seriously needs to learn discretion. What goes on behind closed doors stays behind closed doors. It's very rude and immature to talk like that about his girlfriend, or anyone else.

But anyway, it's a compliment in a crude sort of way.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’d find it insulting if my partner talked about our sex life with his friends.

Back then when I was in a relationship I only said “He’s the best” and that was all, if anyone was curious.

[Anonymous]

That is a huge insult! I'd break up right there! If I'm not one then he will want his ex more then me!

[Opinion Owner]

He slept with way more then 5 girls and your the 5th not even 4th place a bad 5th place! Guessing he slept with 6 and your the second to worst

[Asker]

He slept with more than 6 I'm pretty sure

[Opinion Owner]

Then your very bad to him sorry

[HelpfulWoman]

Ewwwwww.
Technically, a compliment. But he's also then saying that others he slept with were better. Like, you're not even top 3? Tasteless is an understatement.

[Kelly6]

it still is complement

[HelpfulWoman]

@Kelly6 yes, i did say technically.

[Asker]

So that means I'm like 5th place? :(

[Girlsontop]

unless you're in an open relationship you're pretty clueless ;-;

[Asker]

He means the girls he slept with before me.

[Girlsontop]

alright I don't know but 'top 5' (judging he slept with a lot of girls) means your pussy is good for sex but not the best

[Asker]

Oh. Does that mean I'm the 5th spot then? Lmao 😅

[Asker]

And 4 other people had better pussy or? Lmao

[Asker]

That's pretty insulting actually

[Girlsontop]

not rlly 5th spot but more that it wasn't #1 exactly but he can't decide really where else in the top 5 to put it 💀

[Asker]

So I guess this kinda means my pussy is "mid?"

[Girlsontop]

ig but don't take it to heart

[MementoMori777]

It means out of all the women He s fucked, you are in the top five, which means you can be anywhere from one all the way down to 5

[Asker]

Damn. That's not good then, is it. Lmao

[MementoMori777]

No and you shouldn't be laughing anon, the laughing belongs to me in your situation 😂

[Asker]

So it means I pretty much have bad pussy then lol

[MementoMori777]

I don't know but I guess that would depend on how many pussies he s fucked now wouldn't It, if it's only been five then the possibility of that being true are pretty high lol

[Asker]

He's had a lot

[MementoMori777]

Then maybe it's not a big deal

[Asker]

So I don't have bad pussy then :(

[MementoMori777]

What's with the sad face, you should be celebrating your meow meow is good 😂

[Asker]

So it means "one of the best" that he's had?

[MementoMori777]

I guess, you are on a top 5 list lol

[Asker]

So I guess this kinda means my pussy is "mid?"

[MementoMori777]

You still on this topic anon? 😂

[Asker]

Yeah... I'm genuinely not over it... does it mean my pussy is "mid?"

[MementoMori777]

I don't know, if 5 women it's all he's been with then it's possible yea lol

[Asker]

He's definitely been with more than 5

[MementoMori777]

This convo is just repeating now

[TheSpaceGnome]

It means in his opinion he has had better, and that he's perfectly fine badmouthing you to other people behind your back.

Doesn't seem like he loves you tbh.

[Asker]

So I guess this kinda means my pussy is "mid?"

[TheSpaceGnome]

It means you're not his type.

[Alex-Snow]

It sounds like a compliment. How old is he? It sounds like he sleeps around a lot? How is the sex with him?

[LiamJHayden]

"accidentally" No, you might have seen the chat open accidentally, but you chose to read it.

[CuriousMufuxka]

Lol accidentally. Also this guy's got a top 5 in his early 20's or whatever age he might be?

[Asker]

Yes.. he does unfortunately. So I guess this kinda means my pussy is "mid?"

[Nemesis2k7]

What a load of sh*t. Made up story. Validation / attention seeking.

[Averageguy69420]

He pretty much said sex with you is within the top five lovers he has had. I hope your number 1 or that feels like a backhanded compliment

[Asker]

So it means I pretty much have bad pussy then lol

[Averageguy69420]

It means yours is great, but he could of just said you were the best if yours was.

[Asker]

Damn :(

[Asker]

So it just means "one of the best" he's had or nah?

[Averageguy69420]

One of the best, but may not be the bedt

[Averageguy69420]

Best

[Asker]

So not too great then lmao. That sucks

[Anonymous]

Probably just means he liked fucking you a lot. Maybe your pussy was always tight and wet at the same time, and it felt great. Maybe he loved how you tasted. Might be that you were enthusiastic in bed and he loved that you loved it. Did you love his cock too?