Guys, What does your penis look like a few minutes after ejaculating from sex or masturbation?

My boyfriends penis looks pretty big a few minutes after we have sex. It’s not completely hard but it looks big flaccid. Like a lot bigger than his normal flaccid size.

does this mean he didn’t have a complete orgasm or that it wasn’t good for him? I knew he came because there was a lot of semen. Is it normal for it to be bigger than normal even after 5 minutes after cumming?
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  • My penis is completely flaccid 5 minutes after ejaculating. I do experience what you're describing about your boyfriend's penis but just not as long. It doesn't have anything to do with him not having a "complete" orgasm. It's probably just individual variation in the length of time it takes to become completely flaccid after ejaculating. The good thing about this is that your boyfriend may still be erect enough to keep thrusting inside you even after he cums, at least until he becomes hypersensitive.

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  • It usually stays hard for 2-3 minutes and then it gets semi flaccid. Like you said, it's bigger than the normal flaccid size. After 10-15 minutes, it gets flaccid again. by the way, when it becomes semi flaccid, it's the time that the dick can get hard again and go for round 2. I don't know if this is helpful or not, but yeah...

    • Maybe you’re ready for round 2 because you’re 18, but my boyfriend is in his late 30’s. When I saw that he was still pretty big after we had sex, I asked if he was ready for round 2 and he said no and looked at me like I was crazy.

    • Hmm.. maybe it depends on age and people.. I shared my personal experience...

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  • Well, I'm bigger than average in general, and when I cum I typically stay pretty swollen for quite a while after. It usually stays swollen even when flaccid for twenty minutes or so.

  • It looks engorged with blood, the end still tingling.

    Flaccid penis looks very small.

    • Kinda like a stack of buttons.

  • it depends lol if i’m still hard it looks the same almost 9-10 inches hard but just slightly softer so it has a little hang to it or if i’m done for the night then it’s fully soft around 6-7.5 inches

  • Perfectly normal and sometimes U'll get full on hard again shortly after what you describe.

  • Sounds normal to me mine does the same especially after a long edging and strong orgasm

  • It's still rather long but not so stiff, anymore. Like, right now, it's almost 3" long; when it's ready to go into battle, it's more like 9". After the war is over, it might go down to 7" or 8" for a while until it completely drains the blood from it.

  • He just has good blood flow.
    If he ejaculated then he had a good orgasm.

    • Mine? An exhausted drunk, totally passed out.

  • it goes limp slowly. it will stay sort of semi hard for a bit before it goes completely limp tho.

  • That's about right. The blood needs to return to the system for renewal.

  • Yes it's normal

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