What exactly does it feel like for a guy to cum?

Just curious what exactly it feels like for a guy to cum right before during and after. How do you know you are about to cum? What is so great about it? I mean guys orgasms seem to be over with so quickly it doesn’t seem worth it. Does it feel more intense if you are having sex with someone or getting head or masterbating? Just curiosity since I’m not a guy.
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  • It's kind of difficult to describe, but I'll give it a try.

    When I'm getting close to orgasm, my whole penis begins to get more senstive, and every touch is much more intense. You start to feel this pressure, building behind the base of the shaft. Kind of like you have to pee, in a way, but much more intense. Your whole body starts to tense up, with anticipation.

    The feeling gets stronger and stronger, like you're trying to hold back the inevitable, but you can only hold it for so long. Eventually, it becomes too much, too intense, and you just can't stop it anymore.

    That pressure explodes, releasing a wave of pleasure through your body, while simultaneously forcing semen up through your penis. You start to shoot, ropes of it erupting from your dick, one after another. Each burst feels almost like a miniature orgasm, by itself; so pleasureable feeling it surge through you, your dick twitching and spaaming, becoming impossibly hard each time it releases another rope of semen.

    Meanwhile, your whole body is kind of tingling, your muscles tense throughout the course of your orgasm, only relaxing when your orgasm has finally run it's course, which can last longer than it seems. I edge, though, so my orgasms tend to be much more intense than when I was younger.

    When it's finally over, you feel incredibly satisfied, and this strong sense of relief, like you needed that, and finally got it. At the same time, though; it felt so incredible that you can't wait until the next one.

    I'd say our orgasms are most definitely worth it.

  • If you edge, your orgasm as a guy can actually be quite long. At least it is that way for me.

    Personally, I find the buildup phase the most pleasurable. Like others have said, there is this ever increasing pressure. However, the pressure feels good. You kind of want it to be there. Sometimes it also feels a little ticklish at the tip of the penis. You feel like there's something in there that wants to come out... but you don't want to let it out... not yet.

    The moment of ejaculation itself actually isn't that special in my opinion. It feels quite similar to peeing. One major difference is that cum usually comes in waves while pee doesn't. The stomach cramps that are typical for orgasms also come in this waves. Every time some cum shoots out, you feel another wave flow through your stomach, your groin and your penis. Then, there's a short pause... and then the next wave comes.
    The second big difference is that cumming feels better than peeing because it isn't just a feeling of release, it's accompanied by the typical orgasmic feelings that women know too.

    The phase after the orgasm is the one I like the least. I usually tend to get strangely depressed for no particular reason. The better the buildup and the orgasm was, the deeper/longer the depression. Sometimes, right after having really amazing sex with my wife I have strange suicidal thoughts. However, this phase only lasts for a few minutes and then everything becomes normal again.

    • Jesus that's intense 😂

    • You should see a doctor my dude. That last part isn't normal.😂😂😂 I just want a nap. You're thinking about killing yourself.

    • @IntuitiveMuffin
      Actually, it is very normal. Hormonal imbalance is a natural result of sex. There's a good deal of scientific research on this issue.
      en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Post-coital_tristesse

      The human body works within a system of finely tuned balances. Once you get some of these things out of order, a backlash into the other direction is necessary and normal to establish the original equilibrium again.
      It's quite similar to what happens after drug consumption. For instance a common after-effect of taking heroin or certain party drugs like MDMA or ecstasy is that you feel very depressed the next day. Even with alcohol consumption this can happen. For instance hangovers feel rather depressing for many people, even without the headache.
      The reason for this is that you've used up all your oxytocin and dopamine the evening before. You had a blast and felt absolutely euphoric. Now, your body is struggling to make up for the lack thereof.
      Much the same can happen post-orgasm.

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  • It depends. If you have good sex or you are very excited, the moment before the orgasm is also very pleasant. A bit in a higher atmosfeer. And then it Comes: you feel in your left side, between your belly and your thight a kind of stitch. That only takes 3 seconds. But if the phase before was heavenly, the houre aftherwards you feel good and happy. An orgasm without much excitement only gives the 3 seconds of pleasure, and that is indeed poor.

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  • Feels like a dick sneeze.

  • Our orgasms are about 2-3x shorter than the average female orgasm.

    To me it feels like a warm buildup of pressure from my lower stomach kind of area, then up through to my dick. Gets a little more intense each second until the point of no return & boom, ejaculation.

    It feels similar to knowing you need to pee, you feel it, there's pressure. I would say it generally feels the same unless you edge or get edged (more edging = more intense).

    Can't speak from sex/head, only masturbation.

    To put it simple, I can personally feel it being built up, it moving from like my testes through my dick then when the feeling is too "intense" or it's gotten to a certain point I ejaculate & that's the most intense pleasure of it all, lasts about 3-5 seconds before & about 3 seconds after.
    Of course that can be elongated through edging (3-5 seconds x number of times edged)

  • Let me give it a try.
    *The first sense I get is like making it to the top of the stairs. :Ahh, I'm going to cum."
    *Then I get a body spasm. Sometimes. it's a shaker. Sometimes its just "fizzing".
    *Then I get a single twitch down below. If I watch during masturbation, I will see a dollop of precum flow out.
    *Then it seems like an eternity of urgent building sexual tension. About 3 seconds.
    *Then ejaculation starts, an involuntary pull-push, pull-push, pull-push. The pull feels like pinching back pee but the push (semen coming out) gives a flood of pleasure and relief. On a good night, I get 8 of them.
    *After I cum, I feel spent and relieved. The whole event lasts a whopping 15 seconds.
    Best I can do.

  • Depends on who you are with and there are many levels. Lets aim high, assume you had good sex with someone you love - There is the anticipation and build up to orgasm so the moment you pop you can't hold back anymore not a scientist but I assume there is a rush of endorphins through your body so you have this amazing high and a sweet mellow come down with the person you love.
    To answer the last part of your question masturbation is just a physical release with no place to focus your emotions thats why it seems less to a lot of guys. Oral or hand relief by a partner or given to a partner is great but to most guys is seen as a precursor or a sideshow to the main event.

  • Oh, it's worth it all right!

    As far as anyone can tell, what guys experience during orgasm is much like what girls experience. When it starts feel a "melting" sensation in our crotches, after which our minds cloud over and our junk twitches about once a second for several seconds. After the twitching stops we come to our senses and feel pleasantly tired and happy; our junk becomes very sensitive and doesn't want to be touched any more.

  • I’ve always wanted to know too haha

  • It fe some slight pressure before I cum and I start breathing s little harder. What about you?

  • It's like peeing except much more pleasurable, and you know you're about to cum because you feel a sort of "rush" down there. It's a good feeling because nothing really compares to it, if that makes sense

  • Pressure builds up in my balls then my cock Pilates and shoots sperm
    It feels great.

  • It's an orgasm, and will love them. How we feel before and after is going to be different to each guy.. its definitely worth it! Whil I am in her and I begin to cum, my body gets this charge of supper pleasure. afterwards, my dick can be to sensitive to touch for a few minutes. So sensitive that to pull out of her can be really supper intense..

  • The base of your cock starts to sieze up, then spasms. Then relief in your balls after you dump.

  • The longer you last the modt powerfull it is. Right before you cum it's something you need to release, you want it to release. It's a sort of presure building up. Your body can't hold the pressure anymore. You cum. Your mind has never been as empty as durint that moment. You see your cum shooting out of your cock at the girl you like. After cumming you can't just keep going without interupting for at least for a couple of seconds. It becomes to much for your body. Afterwards you feel relaxed, calm and a bit tired.

  • In you mouth, hand or pussy it's intense you can feel the pressure building until it just spurts out

  • You feel it building up almost from insertion, as the head slams into your walls over and over it just keeps building up. You know that feeling when you have to pee? The longer you wait, the harder it is to hold it? Yeah, that x20 but with a feeling of pleasure and dominance as we work our way to the edge. It builds so much, so hard that eventually you have no choice but to either explode or edge yourself and deny that release. You know, when you finally get to pee after hrs of buildup and you get that feeling of "fuuuuck yessss"? It's like that but again... x20.

    It can be much more intense with head as it feels fuckin amazing to have the cum sucked out of our dick.

  • It’s awesome. I’m about to do it.

  • it sort of 'tickles' and twitches. gets very sensitive and then finally you start to have your shaft 'conract' and you shoot your load. yes girls have it longer and more i suppose, but i do not know about that very much, just what was told to me. maybe i should direct a question like this :-D

  • i takes hours to explain this all. i would say that is best experience in earth.

  • It feels like sneazing. You simply know it like you know it when you are almost sneazing. It feels almost the same. Getting head feels the best

  • Pretty awesome

  • Imagine your woman orgasm during 10 seconds and divided the power by 100 or 1000. Here it is. xD.

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