What girlfriend caught me wearing her lingerie. What do I do?

[new_guy_31]

[SueShe]

What girlfriend?

I hope you know yourself what girlfriend (or whose girlfriend) caught you snooping in her private things.

Apparently, you have never been educated not to do something like that otherwise you would not have that kind of problem.

What you do?

You leave her immediately, return her house key and never try to contact this lady again. This is a breach of trust of the worst kind and hope that you will never have to cross her path again.

If this would happen to me, rest assured that all your friends and family would be aware of your perversion and you would have to hide from them for quite a while.

[new_guy_31]

ouch! typo I meant my girlfriend

[SueShe]

Well, that does not change anything at the severity of you infringement of privacy.

[new_guy_31]

She won't even talk to me.

[PrettyPriya]

Here is a thought. Don't do it. Why are you wearing her lingerie anyhow? I am guessing this is some sort of kink or fetish. If that is a case, get your own stuff. I am not surprised in the least if she is upset. I would be too if I caught my spouse doing this.

I would start to wonder what other kinks, fetishes or perversions he had that I was unaware about. Then, I would start to wonder what else he was doing behind my back. Any moment that he was not around me, I would start to wonder what he was up to.

You have broken some trust in your relationship. Along with communications and respect (also broken), you need trust for a successful relationship. Seems like you have betrayed a couple of those things by doing this.

You had better hope she forgives you and make this a one time thing. I would not be surprised if she leaves you over this. I would.

[new_guy_31]

She broke up with me

[ushagomez]

Apologise profusely, replace the one to have worn, and go and buy some of your own.

[new_guy_31]

She won't even talk to me...

[ushagomez]

Well still apologise for wearing her lingerie and go buy replacements for her.

[Anonymous]

If she has standards, she will never forgive you for this.