What happened to men being sexually dominant in bed?

Nowadays, young guys are so damn nice and sweet. They don’t want to be dominant or rough, or degrading with you during sex. It’s actually kind of bummer for those of us who like being submissive.

There’s seems to be a stark difference in men from the time I was in my 20s compared to now. I miss all of that rough, nasty, degrading sex. Where it seemed like every guy wanted to treat you like a raunchy porn film.

Guys now are like… mr nice guy, and they want to be dominated by women and forced to act like a sissy, and all of this stuff. I don’t get it.

Something is seriously off about a generation of grown men who don’t even want deep throat. When I was in my 20s, I literally had guys who would just shove it down my throat until and gag me on it. I miss that.

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  • Well I've never been like that, I always like to treat my partner like she's a piece of meat on bed. I can't even think about having a sex with romance involved lol and it doesn't even turn me on if she wants to be on top. I am sure men like this still exist around, you can't just find them.

  • Ask guys to do that. We don't want to hurt people, but if you want us to we will.

  • depends on personalities and if both have dominant personalities it's only fair to switch roles as others have dominant and submissive traits mostly in my experience i have noticed about 80% if females i know have submissive personalities but this is just me and everyone is different

  • That's flattering... LOL

  • Wanting to be nice and gentle with girls doesn't equal wanting to act like a sissy.
    🤦‍♂️

    • It equals being really boring.

  • Guys are scared to be accused of assault or rape and imprisoned! The media preaches against being a strong man and calls that toxic masculinity

  • They were told that being dominant is oppressive and rapey and all that.

  • Well most guys aren’t trying to catch a rape case

  • Because we want tomake sure the girl is comfortable and that we don't take her out of her comfort zone. When we do usually baddd things happen

  • Stop whining and suck my dick lol 😆

    • Like for real, I wish more guys still felt natural saying stuff like that. Now it’s all so political a simple comment is a “controversy”. The world has gone so lame!

    • Agreed 100% now stop talking bend over and take it like a good girl

  • I think its more just feminism than anything else. They’re trying to teach men about emotional sensitivity and all this stuff. Traditional masculinity is seen as all cruel and oppressive and all this stuff.

    But I totally get what you mean.

    I can’t think of anything more hot than deepthroat. Or even just going deep inside her.

  • I really like you

  • you used them all.

  • Not me baby. I love slutty, nasty, raw animalistic sex.

  • Because men are being told domination is abuse and all are equal. Make a girl gag and she might call it rape

    It's a tough mindset for boys these days

  • Such jerks are disgrace to men.. pathetic sissies

  • To be honest, it really depends on what a guy likes and wants. I'm gonna go out on a limb and make a confession that I have a huge tickling fetish and that my ultimate fantasy would be having a woman with long nails forcibly tie me or pin me to the bed and absolutely tickle torture the ever loving heck out of me, so I like what I like, what can I say🤷‍♂️

  • When I see questions like this I wonder where you've been. Men can't even approach a woman in the street without asking themselves 'Do I need to worry about a false allegation?' (it's an arrestable offense in some areas to approach a woman) A man gets rough with a woman in bed? He needs to ask himself whether she will falsely accuse him at a later date. Degrading sex? If she regrets it... she could falsely accuse him of rape. Don't forget the men that used to meet women at work... after the METOO movement that now means men need to worry about careers being ruined without any proof. Meet girls at college? Men are made to watch sexual harassment videos labeling them as the perpetrator... Men have been kicked out of college even when proven innocent. There are also fines given out for looking at women on some underground stations... The list goes on.

    What you are seeing is the consequences of feminism, METOO, women asking men to get in touch with their feelings, risk of false allegations and single parent families.

    Nothing will ever go back to how it was. It's over!

  • My type of girl lol I think these days feminism a long w a lot of other reasons has made a lot of men that way. You don’t want to be accused of rape even if she wanted whatever you gave her. Labeled as an abuser, so they’re being careful. Maybe many of them have never experienced that either cause a lot of younger women these days don’t let such things happen. I’ve been w my girl for 15 years, sitting there watching tv. I could just whip it out and pull it out and guide her head down there and she’d willingly go at it. Deep throat’s and all cause she knows I love that. A lot of boys these days are raised w out fathers. Women emasculate them to the way they think a man should be, which in most situations is soft, nice, etc. Man I love my woman. I can bend her over when she’s cooking and just go to to town.

  • We dominant men are still out there

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