What happens if a guy goes a year without sex or masturbation?

My fiance is going to be deployed for a year. I asked him how he's going to deal with it (sexually) and he said he will be fine going without anything because he did until the time he was 18.

What happens when a guy doesn't get off for a long time?
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  • Depending on what task his unit has going on he’s going to be extremely busy adjusting those first couple of weeks in country. So he’ll be too tired. But once he’s adjusted it’s game on. You mentioned that he’ll be in the desert in a tent with 15 other troops. Believe me when I say those late nights in the sleeping bag after talking to you on the phone it just might happen. Not only that but we always find porn (or any type of pornographic material) floating around the FOB. Someone knows someone that has a new clip, stored somewhere for the on coming unit to enjoy and help pass the time. He’ll find a way, place and time for a “deployment jerk” it happens.
    On the other hand (no pun intended)
    If he doesn’t stroke it for a year than so be it. Maybe he was to busy and tired to do it or it never crossed his mind.

  • As a veteran myself, I can tell you he will be too busy and tired to think of sex. When not in combat, he will be given a bunch of bullshit and very physical tasks that higher ups want to avoid doing. Between that and trying to find time to keep in touch with loved ones, he will not be too worried about sex. This is even more true if he is a Marine or in some kind of special warfare (SEALs, Army Ranger, Marsoc, etc.)

    • @jgokgotit So true... SO SO TRUE!!! But you gotta admit, if there’s a moment for a deployment jerk... it’s gonna happen.

    • How often do soilders watch pornpgraphy while deployed?

    • See my post. Like I said we find porn (pornographic material) floating around the FOB all the time. It’s there just have to know where to look or who to ask.

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  • Well first of all if he doesn't at all he will ejaculate it in his sleep. Usually guys will use their hand to relieve it every few days

    • Totally agree. You know better lol

    • @Cowboy6666 well... it is basic knowledge actually... the guy makes a certain amount of ap... seamen... it has to... come out...

    • It doesn't have to come out. It gets reabsorbed (wrong word, but something like that) back into the body. Not all guys ejaculate in their sleep either.

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  • Do you really think he isn't going to spank the monkey while on deployment?

    • He says he's not gonna do anything? I dont argue because he will get all offended that i think he's lying

    • Then I will say it. He is lying.

    • Well he won't be able to watch porn there lol

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  • Welp I'm still here so it must be possible XD. In all seriousness though I wouldn't put too much worry into it as he'll probably be busy with his job which can take your mind off things like that!

  • Not much but be ready to be ravished when you see him after.

    • We have gone over a month without having sex and he still couldnt finish.. so maybe. Maybe not. If he comes back after a year and not able come.. then i will have suspicions.

    • His inability to cum needs to be diagnosed if it persists, first by a urologist and if no help, a therapist. It's not about you.

  • Check-out NoFap to learn that:
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php (official forum)
    https://www.reddit.com/r/NoFap/ (official subReddit)

    We've got posters who (claim) no masturbation (and/or sex) for months or even years, depending on what 'reboot' plan is used by the poster.

  • Just make sure his wank bank is full enough of good memories of the two of you. As others said, he will be too busy with the army itself but in the precious moments he can use his hands to imitate your private parts you’d better make sure he has good memories to think of. I’m not believing it either that he’ll come through it with 100% abstinence from wanking, that would not healthy / normal either.

  • It's never happend before lol once every young boy figured out what we could do with that thing down there not much time ever passed. He is gonna indulge himself for sure

  • Nothing, he might be sexually frustrated depending on how busy and what temptations that has been around him. But that it. There is no harm going without sex. But I don't see why you should avoid masturbating to take the edge off when needed.

  • *It is likely he will have time and opportunity to fap once in a while.
    *The incidence of adolescent wet dreams may return.
    *He won't explode. The body naturally recycles sexual fluids.

  • he will just jerk off lol

    • Hopefully he will think about me lol

    • or who knows, someone else, nah im just playin dont kill me 😁

    • Lol unfortunately that is what happens, happy or not

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  • You really dont need porn to 'spank the monkey' 😂

  • Masturbates

  • For me it would be frustrating, but I would do it.

  • I'm sure all guys deployed get off regularly.

  • He explodes

  • Not possible.. I think wet dreams will make it up

  • Nothing

  • last time I did it for 3 months I had orgasm from bus vibrations