What happens if you have a baby with a one night stand?

Scenario y’all are just messing around and one without protection condom no birth control cause it messes with her body. And one day she ends up pregnant the man doesn’t want the child but the woman wants to child how would you handle this

!!! THIS IS NOT MY SITUATION IT IS A MADE UP SCENARIO!!!
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  • Actually, I have had 5 one night stands in my life. I never regretted any of them. They were great sex - though they can't replace the sex that I have with my girlfriend now.

    That said, one of those night has stayed with me. So to speak. I met this gal at a business event, I did not know her and had never met her before but for whatever reason we hit it off. Things got sort of "flirty" - for lack of a better term - and just escalated.

    So we went back to her place, originally just for a drink - or at least that was the theory - and we ended up having sex. Important note, as it was not planned it was unprotected sex. So I spent the night, we had some more sex in the morning and I left. We never spoke or saw each other ever again. In my mind - and I guess her's - it was just a really good night.

    Flash forward to about 2 1/2 years ago. I get a phone call. It was the same woman. It turns out that I had gotten her pregnant. She decided to have the baby but decided to raise him - a boy - without me, and so did not tell me she was pregnant.

    Then she decided - again about 2 1/2 years ago - that our son needed his father in his life. So she tracked me down - which probably not that easy - and informed me that I was a father. A test confirmed it and so now I have a son in his early teens in addition to the three children - two boys, one girl (10, 9 and 7) - that I have with my girlfriend.

    That said, I don't regret that night one bit. I am not going to lie - it was awkward at first getting to know my son. However, I have to give his mom credit. She raised a good kid. He is well mannered, treats his younger half siblings and my girlfriend like gold and we have developed a warm and - dare I say it - loving relationship. I am wildly proud of him, and while he still lives with his mom - whom I confess I still don't know that well - he has stayed with us at holidays and summer breaks and he means the world to me as much as my three other children.

    My only regret is that it does hurt that I was not part of his life till now. I would have loved to hold him as a baby - yes, when it comes to my children as my girlfriend will tell you, I am the biggest milksop - and see him grow. Still I am blessed to have him in my life and part of my family.

    All I can say is that I guess it was the best one night stand I ever had.

    • Did you/do you give her any money or assistance to raise him?

    • @Guardian45 Absolutely. She did not ask even after she told me and introduced me to my son, but I offered to help in various ways and have set up an account to help pay for college down the road. Again, she never asked - and as I say, I think she did an amazing job raising our son on her own - but I want to be part of his life and that includes helping out financially. Thankfully, my girlfriend loves me and has been fully understanding. Honestly, given the circumstances, I don't think things could have come out much better.

    • You were blessed. Congrats!

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  • I would say 25 to 30 out of 100 it happens just like that.
    What happens what happens if you have to grow up fast you have to become ten times more responsible you have to start making 10 times more than money you have to start learning how to be a parent try not to follow your own parents ways of raising kids unless you're really good at it don't follow lead love that baby if you're going to keep it like there's no other person in this world make that baby ten times smarter than you are teach it don't destroy it teach it love be kind don't yell don't scream be very calm very little words and teach and you will have a very beautiful child make sure you get child support

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  • Is it a friend or some guy that is picked up? I mean in the end it’s your choice cuts your body but hopefully if you guys done it together or you never see him again at least hopefully he’ll financially support the child takes two to tango you know situationally speaking. And yeah that’s the rest that it’s taken heaven I one night stand and I guess another thing had to take it consideration is did you have a partner before you had the one night stand cause that kind of complicated a little more

  • I’d happily be a single mom. I’d just be pissed that i was ever using birth control in the first place. I’d also be disappointed that i gave in to a one night stand

    • What? You'd be pissed that you used BC and it failed?

    • @Guardian45 i would never use birth control anyways

    • Why not?

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  • Firstly, you have the child and do not kill it in the womb no matter what. Mother keeps and raises child. You may want to speak to an attorney that’s an expert in this area.

  • "What happens if you have a baby with a one night stand?" You become a parent or you place the child for adoption.

  • You have the baby and struggle to bring it up yourself and maybe the child grows up bitter that there father was never around.

    Best getting him to wrap up.

  • I'd keep the baby and raise it without the dad

    • I wouldn't do that to you.🙂🙃😉

  • we'll just have the baby... get him a onesie, with his name on it Juan Knight Stan´

    or Juana, if a girl...

  • Man I've been seeing a lot of these types of pregnant questions lately, what the hell is the universe telling me? 😳

    • That you want to get pregnant… and you need some help… 😏😂

    • Don’t have casual sex

    • @Charliefretz329 I actually asexually reproduce like microscopic bacteria, its part of the whole potato thing & @justneedtokno I'm not even single so there's no need for me to think of that 😂

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  • It's the woman's choice to give birth or not. If she does give birth, the man should be required to provide child support.

  • First, I completely am against casual sex/ONS. So that was a bad decision in my opinion.
    Second, I think if EITHER parent wants to keep the kid they should be able to and the other should be able to sign over all rights and responsibilities. Whoever wants it should pay for all of the medical expenses to have it.

  • You abort it

  • Child protection services will require a DNA check of the sperm donor if you can find him, and the baby. They will facilitate child support if there is a match.

    Any girl who does a ONS should get some identification. Like the plate number on his car. A name is useless.

  • I never do one night stands lol

  • You handle this by never having one night stands to begin with.

  • That's why I don't have one night stands.

    • Me too.

    • @Guardian45 👍

  • the ultimate fuck over for the guy. but his dumb ass went without a condom

  • You become a welfare mama.

    • No my situation

  • you stay with them and act as a father and provider. You do the right thing... plain and simple..

    • Well said

  • That's why I got a vascetomy. I don't want to father a child. I can't do that anymore

  • You seriously just have to be a man and face your responsibility.

  • She becomes single mother and should sue for child support.

    • If it's me, then I would co-parent and pay support to raise him.

  • You get child support.

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