Guys definitely don't want a girl to just lay there like she is dead. That is a huge turn off. What you can do at any given time definitely depends on what position you are in at the time, but even something as simple as moving your hips can help. You want your hip extension to match his thrust, so that when he is pushing in, you are pushing out, which basically has the effect of 'meeting in the middle'. It doesn't have to be super vigorous or anything, but it can be a subtle sign that you want to get the thrust as much as he wants to give it.
Male egos are weird things. They can get incredibly bloated, but they can actually become very fragile during sex if they think the girl is not enjoying it. Move like you want it. Make eye contact. And of course, the occasional 'girl in control' position will always help.1 1 0 0If whatever position you are in isn't working for you - either because it hurts, its boring or it isn't getting you off then change positions. You don't need to say anything / explain - just push him off you / climb off him and quickly reorganise yourselves into a different position. Like if he's on top in the missionary you could get on all fours and wave your ass seductively at him. Or roll him on his back and straddle him - either his cock or his face. Or take him in your mouth. Or get in a 69 position. If you take charge like that, it will turn him on and he'll think you're great fun in bed.
The only time not to switch positions is if you or he is about to cum.
QuickC's advice is also great. Circling your hips and thrusting in time with him is good.0 0 0 0
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do it in cowgirl position and rock your hips forward
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0 3It can be pretty frustrating when a girl just lies still and then complains when her guy gets tired, especially since she would probably get off quicker if she got more into it. But its not a big problem if you just bare in mind that movement is good.
Grind, move in a dirrection to counter the thrust (ie push back). Possibly you will figure out what works best if you try being on top a few times.0 0 0 0Yes move like a worm, squeeze her pelvic floor muscles, wriggle her hips. just as if she is massaging the cock
0 0 0 0She should just lay there like a corpse.
1 0 0 1LOL! A necrophile's dream.
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