What hurts more... anal or vaginal?

[FashionistaChick]

This may seem weird to ask but I was curious to know what hurts more your first time having sex vaginally or you first time anally?

[Rudegirljune]

If its your first time it'll probably hurt both ways and especially if he is large down there it's going to hurt either way but let me tell you anal is painful it can feel good if you are relaxed but My gosh it hurts...

[xHoneyxBeex]

Lol anal, obviously. The anus isn't meant for penetration and it isn't self-lubricating. Vaginal sex doesn't hurt at all. Even the first time for MOST people doesn't hurt, it's just uncomfortable.

[Nylena]

no I don't think it's that easy. anal sex doesn't hurt if it's done right, doesn't matter if it's for the first or 50th time. if it hurts you did something wrong and it's mostly because of the lack of experience, same as with vaginal sex. you can easily fix the lubrication issue and it's a stretchable muscle, so those 2 points don't count ;) if it hurts, vaginal or anal sex, has a lot to do with experience and your partner. I don't think you can easily say what usually hurts more for the first time

[xHoneyxBeex]

@Nylena Your comment does not apply to everyone. Maybe for YOU it doesn't hurt but yes, even when "done right" it is not pleasurable for everyone. And no, if it hurts, that's NORMAL considering it isn't the vagina and the anus isn't made for penetration like that. The anal sphincter muscle is made for expelling feces, it's certainly not made to take a penis. That's just a biological fact. So it's perfectly understandable why it IS painful for many people, even when TONS of lubrication is used. And when some people try it numerous times, it still doesn't work for everyone and it will always be painful for some people. It's not something that is enjoyable for everyone. It doesn't always have to do with experience and yes, it's perfectly easy to say what "usually hurts more for the first time" considering the vagina is made for penetration, obviously.

[Amagi82]

Neither of them should hurt if you're doing it right. Maybe the first time, but generally, if it hurts, you're doing something wrong.

[Prof_Don]

My guess would be anal... technically the penis (or any object) isn't built to have things inserted INTO it. :-P

[maiez]

Anal definitely, the only reason people think vaginal hurts is because they are nervous and the muscles are tight

[cems0077]

The pain is, of course, can not you do it even anal pain

[Anonymous]

vaginal, because anal slowly doesn't hurt at all