Sexual Relationships 
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I've seen quite a few of these and thought, why not render my own account as I am in the situation of desiring marriage and often reflect on this. I have two separate spectra, character and my physical fancies. The latter is not *as* important, but important nonetheless.
CHARACTER:
1. Faith
First thing's first, my faith in Christ is my foremost identity. I will not be unequally yolked and so most have a Christian wife, who equally burns for the Lord and his kingdom. And it is not enough to simply wear the traditional label, a wife of mine must be a born again believer who doesn't just act piously out of duty or routine but really and truly believes and follows Jesus. She must also love the Lord more than me, as this is written in the Bible; Anyone who loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me, Matthew 10:37. No doubt this is a hard notion to understand for non-believers, which is exactly the point.
2. Family
I want a woman who desires motherhood, and has nurtured those instincts within herself. A woman with whom I can lovingly raise my own family with. A woman who values family both for herself, for the community, for society and for her country. I firmly believe that good families are the smallest elements that make up a functioning society, and yields good citizens. A woman who is subsequently comfortable in her sexuality and femininity and doesn't shy away from showing it.
3. Loyalty.
It goes without saying, but I am a one woman kind of man, and I want a one man kind of woman. Fiercely loyal, because she loves me and because she chose me.
4. A healthy balance of humor and seriousness.
I can be quite a jokster, and I want a wife who I can share laughs with whether over sophisticated jests or childish jokes. But it is important that she can also be mature and serious when the situation calls for it, and doesn't shy away from grave matters. I do want a funny wife, but also a mature one, no girls, but real women.
5. Playfulness.
We are all children at heart, and I want to be able to mess around with my wife and have some genuine, down to earth fun even as adults. Play fights, spontaneous adventures and a coy personality from time to time has always appealed to me.
6. Romantic and sexual passion.
I've always been a hopeless romantic. Well thought out dates, surprise roses, deeply staring into each others eyes, all of it. I won't be happy with a wife who has complete disinterest in the notion of allowing yourself to be truly in love sometimes. But there is a fine line between romance and being sappy, so let's not go overboard but keep it authentic. Deep talks and deep love, real and everlasting, that is what I envision and desire. I also have a penchant for sexual passion, a seductive, enthusiastic and sensual woman ranks high in my book.
7. Emotional security
The path I have laid out for my life is at times stressful and cumbersome. And the higher up I will ascend in my career, the more intense this will be, I want a wife whom I can lean on in difficult periods, who supports me through everything and stands by my side. A wife I can vent to, entrust with my emotional issues and receive some well needed comfort from should it be a really bad day. I have also in previous relationships had to carry the emotional insecurities and scars of the girls I was with, and I would want for my future wife to be an emotionally whole person.
8. Feminists and leftists begone
My pardon, but being a politician I won't be able to abide with the opposite spectrum. I am ardent in my beliefs. And militant left leaning voters or feminists are far from my heart. I am a man, the partner I will have will be a woman. She's welcome to pursue any career she wishes and contribute however much she wants to our household, but I will be the provider. It is my role and my task as a man, and I gladly fill that role. I won't spend hours debating over trivial issues like paying at the restaurant or holding doors open, I'm going to do that so take it or leave it. Nor will I ever concede to a narrative that my sex makes me an oppressor and yours an oppressed.
9. High sex drive.
This is important, I have a very high sex drive. Any marriage of mine is going to have to be action packed, which is why I want a wife with equal drive. Someone who merely acquiesces me to please me, because they love me, that just doesn't turn me on. The desire must be mutual, and don't get me wrong I greatly appreciate if a woman is willing to indulge me out of love, but duty-bound sex turns me off. I also have a few kinks I'd like to realize and can be quite switching between vanilla and the kinkier styles of sex. However, no BDSM or any of that perverse depravity. I have limits. Most often I am a dom. but once in a blue moon I might feel a bit more sub. So essentially, the "lady in the streets but freak in the sheets", type is what attracts me.
10. Strong willed and not afraid to stand up to me.
I can be very forceful (not violent) about my beliefs, wants and actions. And I'm not always easy to handle if I'm angry, but I would deeply love a woman who wouldn't be afraid to look me in the eyes and tell me I'm wrong without backing down, (If I really am wrong that is).
11. A healthy and active lifestyle.
I workout regularly and occasionally run in nature. I would not want for my wife to be a couch potato. In shape and a fair mix of outdoorsy and indoorsy is my ideal. And I would love for us to workout together.
PHYSICAL FANCIES:
I am attracted to almost all ethnicities for different reasons, just to get that out of the way. One quick mention I can make here is that for an example; I like white women because I love blonde hair, and their personalities. I like black women also for their personalities, and for how voluptuous they often are, they are enticing in a unique way. One thing, and this might be hard to explain and I might be alone in this, and due forgive the graphic disclosure, is that certain look/gaze they have when they play with their breasts, an ex of mine did that over the phone and it drove me crazy. I also like Arab women for their raven black hair, juicy lips, shapely forms and their belly dancing traditions which a fellow gager recently reminded me of.
For physical characteristics I like deep doe like eyes, hourglass body shapes, strong legs, medium sized but bubbly behinds, medium sized but round and perky breasts, and generally I favor long and wavy hair, but to those women who can pull off short hair it looks very cute. Lips aren't so important to me as long as they aren't paper thin. A nice smile and grin is also always a plus.
And there it is, my very own, what I want in a woman.
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