What I do with the baby?

i been married for 7 months, I’m pregnant right now, my husband came back of one of this “business trips” with Clamydia, he got angry at me cause he forgot his condoms, I don’t have it cause he don’t have sex with me since I got pregnant, that was 5 months ago, he turn really aggressive sometimes when I talk to him about being safe, he like to have night one stands, and he sleep with some of his co workers wives. And I don’t know if giving the baby into adoption, I’m really confused right now. He said I’m not a good wife because I don’t support his lifestyle
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  • I suggest that you keep the baby, especially if you’re in the US since the Forster care system is extremely corrupt so I’m sure your child would be in way better care with you than whatever the foster care system could ever even try to offer.


    For you husband, he sounds like a nightmare. He doesn’t seem to be worrying about his child at all and I have a feeling he’s a selfish person.


    If I where you, I’d try to stay as far as possible from him. Maybe try at first separating to make it clear that you’re not ok with his actions and aren’t going to keep taking what he’s doing, and you shouldn’t cause you deserve way better!


    I’m not a parent myself, however I have a mom who had to put up with the same stuff with my dad.


    So I hope it works out in the end for you and your child 💕!

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  • Ugh. Drop him like a hot potato.


    Do you have family that could help you with the baby? If you don’t feel ready to raise a baby without him, adoption is a great option.


    As a mother myself I fell in love with my babies the second they were born. Choosing adoption will be very difficult, but can be an amazing option if you are not in a position or don’t have the support to raise a baby. ❤️

Most Helpful Guys

  • He has one very odd definition of what makes a good wife. Regarding the baby, that depends on what our ability to support the child is. It also depends on if he will try to get custody of the baby is your try to adopt the baby out. It would be a sorry thing for the baby, to be raised alone by this man. It might be best to let the baby be adopted, but make sure you know what he will do before you chose that option.

  • Dump him he dosen't give a shit about you. If it's early enough abort the baby or if too late put it up for adoption, unless you truly love the baby enough to raise it and give he or she a good life.

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  • Your husband is a loser and younneed. tonget rid of him asap. Would be better for you and the kids

  • So it was an unplanned pregnancy?

  • Adoption is the best, if you can't raise your child on your own.

  • Is this even true or just more annon spam.

    • Spam? Are you kidding