Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Well, a few months ago I decided to not masturbate, or have sex for an entire 2 months, for SCIENCE! Needless to say, it was excruciating, but a valuable experience. Here's a basic overview of what it was like.
Day 1:
Day one might have been the hardest. It's my habit to do it either one once before going to sleep. I do it every night. My body has gotten used to it. So that first night was pretty awful.
End of Week 1:
Stimulai that once didn't do much began to have a bit more of an effect. I got random hard-ons more often than usual.
End of Week 2:
Pretty much any contact with a woman that wasn't just brushing against her elbow or something gave me a half erection. It was very odd.
End of Week 3:
Everything turned me on, pretty much, as long as it had a vagina and resembled a human being. I found myself flirting much more often subconsciously, and with much better results than normal, which only made my utter celibacy THAT much worse.
End of Month 1:
I had a hard-on around 75% of the time. If found it very easy and natural to talk to women in a way that'd normally make me feel awkward. I found women giggling in an odd way to my jokes, "accidentally" touching my arm, and other things of the like.
End of Week 6:
Constant erection. Constant, excruciating erection that I could do nothing about. Women began to actually hit on me when I flirted with them. They'd put their hands on my thigh when laughing at my jokes. I know. Insane.
End of Month 2:
Finally, my time was over. The second the clock went down, I ripped off my pants and erupted like Mt. Vesuvius a few minutes later.
Moral of the story: when you're constantly horny, you tend to make those around you the same way.
What Girls & Guys Said
55 100You know what?
FUCK IT!
Just fuck it!
I'm gonna try NoFap again. May god have mercy on my soul.
Amen, brother.
The last time I tried NoFap February I went a few weeks before I finally cracked and lied about completing it XD NoFap September is coming soon. This time. It's war. 👺
It's war!
Dude I can't imagine. I mean, a round of applause to you for the restraint 👏
I guess you missed out on some great orgasms. bummer
not sure why anyone thinks this is some magical feat of strength and will. I went the first 19 years of my life without sex and the first 13 ish without knowing what masturbation even was. Through my marriage, esp after kids were born, we could go a month or two without sex.
I can go years without masturbating or sex and it doesn't bother me at all.
You must be a wizard by now. Kudos.
God I wish I was like you!
The Dry Wizard. LOL
you dont have balls. its a biological need for men to drain his balls.
You must be one fun girl
Your prize is in the mail. Congrats for having a low sex drive, all humanity joins you in celebration of this feat.
Not sure why so many people are butt hurt over this comment, but okay.
This isn't unusual for women in our age range. Women seem to crave sex more in their 30's.
Ha, people are butt hurt because they can't stop whacking and screwing themselves.
I am beyond wizard, lol!!
I used to be just about the same because of a girl I met in kindergarten. We both fell in love at first sight, and where instant bffs! Unfortunately, she died a few years ago just before we were able to cross the line. Lacking a girl in my life, let alone one like her, I've been obsessed with it ever since...
@clampfan101 Damn, man... damn.
@snowboarder720 😂' the dry wizard ' 👈👍
@HotDogg Thank you.
@EnglishArtsteacher they crave sex when their womb is about to die. just like a flower smells sweetest just before it wilts.
@dudeman Uh, our wombs don't die in our 30's lol
its just a figure of speech. im just saying pregnancy becomes dangerous for the baby the chances of it being retarded go way up. I've seen it too many times to even entertain the idea of dating any women over the age of 23. that gives us plenty of time to have kids.
@dudeman You sound like a catch.
dont you know it babe. honestly though why would you risk having a retarded kid. it ruins peoples lives.
@dudeman You can't be serious...
come on doll dont be upset. you know im right.
@dudeman I work with special needs children and they are some of the most loving people I know, so no, you're not right. So what happens if your child comes out with a mental handicap? What would you do?
toots i already told you babe. i dont date women that will be at a high risk of having retarded children. dont worry your pretty little head doll. i understand math can be hard for women.
@dudeman And apparently reading is impossible for men because you didn't answer the question at all.
@EnglishArtsteacher you put that out like it was some sort of gospel. Where did you get that information? I'll tell you where, that is common misconception and the implication is that if a woman says she has no sex drive at age 25 you defend her by saying well that's common. No it's not. I woman sex drive does increase in her late 30s but if she had no sex drive at age 25 there would be no reproduction in this world. A woman sex drive is present beginning around puberty. Her need to reproduce her desire to reproduce does not peek in her late 30s. That drive is present in her 20s. Saying that you can go forever or seemingly forever without sex or masturbation is pathologic. Yes there is something wrong with the neuroendocrine axis
@NectarOfPuss So how do I go about not getting updates on this? Every time someone post a comment I see an indicator for it; sometimes I agree with what is said, sometimes I don't but the truth is I stopped caring a long time ago.
@ClearlyCanadian go to medical school
Then you won't need updates
@dudeman Towards the end it was clear you were joking, but you certainly did make a lot of good points. I'd hate to have a mentally handicapped kid. The thought that somebody I would love so much would be living in a way in which they couldn't even understand the world around them, or simple tasks that others would have to do for them... I'd be worried theyd accidentally kill themselves for so much of the day.
@ClearlyCanadian We messed up... lol...
Men and women aren't the same.
Most women can very happily do without sex permanently , as no prostate gland to empty & sex drive is undeniably ( as a an average ) much lower than a mans , a combination of biology & social conditioning make this so. Many women are asexual , whereas asexual men are very rare ( & very lucky !! ) The large number of pink upvotes seem to underpin my comment !!
Did you have a lot of wet dreams?
Around 5 sexual dreams, but I made myself wake up before they actually became wet dreams.
Damn.
Week 4,
Fucking wet dream ruined my plan. GAME OVER!
I've never found masturbation enjoyable. I'm also a virgin. My main problem is that I'm horny like 24/7 and flirt with almost every guy I talk to. Don't even mean to. Struggles are real.
That takes some serious guts.
I can go a day or two without it and even forget about it, but by day 3 my crotch is vibrating for attention. I think the longest I lasted was four days.
My hats off to you sir.
Thanks!
Excellent take! I did this same thing years ago and the same moral of the story happened to me. I found that i had more confidence talking to girls. I didn't care anymore about how much experience they had. And girls were more into me when they is sensed i was horny all the time. Girls can sense when you are horny.
That's why i stopped masturbating years ago after i tried this. End result is that I have more girl friends now and I get laid more.
Yeah, I've tried to carry over some of that flirting and confidence to my non-celibate life.
I tried it for a month once... gave up on the 24th day xD
Due to negative associations of experience with sex, I've gone 2 months without sex or masturbation, and I don't miss it or crave it (consciously anyways). I don't get turned on anymore either, and I keep blocking the thoughts of anything sexual or being with a man because of being hurt or scared. I think it's good because now in my dating life I'm looking for a man with a good heart, and sex is the last thing on my mind.
That sounds a bit unhealthy.
Unhealthy? And you don't think having sex on your mind to the point where you can hardly control yourself is healthy? Because if so, that's pretty pathetic.
And yes, that was directed toward the male
@megankxthleen No need to get defensive like that. I'm just saying that it can't be very healthy to block out any thoughts of sex because you're scared you'll get hurt. That's REALLY not healthy.
That's true, but I don't think the opposite is technically healthy either
@megankxthleen Masturbation is normal, and healthy for a normal person. I don't "have sex on my mind to the point where I can't control myself". She's really just trying to cover up how she had some sort of horrible abusive expirience that made her not want any sexual pleasure.
I'm waiting until I meet someone who truly respects my body and self and wants to not just have sex with me, but share the experience and want me to have pleasure and feel safe doing so. So no, I won't be sleeping around with men who only want to get off and not return any sort of pleasure or respect. And finding a man and building something with him so I trust him will take a lot of time, so I won't be having sex for quite some time.
l o w e r y o u r s t a n d a r d s
No. I will not.
That was mostly a joke, but the fact is that there is nothing actually romantic or loving about sex. It's an entirely mechanical way of getting pleasure that 18th century romanticism has made into something more than it ever should have become. A shame. Now there are people who want to find somebody else who are so entranced with the illusion of "love" being one and the same with "sex", that people will only have it with others who think the same way.
All I'm saying is that I cannot have sex with someone I cannot trust, and in order for me to trust them, I have to be with them for quite a long time. I need the trust to be there because I have underlying fears, and mentally I cannot "get off" with a wam bam thank you mam.
I mean, I suppose the trust thing makes a bit of sense. But rarely do people actually hurt you in sex. Very, very rarely.
My vaginal walls close and tighten when I have sex with guys I don't trust. It makes everything umenjoyable for both parties
Okay, from what I've heard I think it's safe to say you've had a traumatic sexual expirience at some point.
Nothing too big, no. It's kinda just how I am.
Sounds like a bit more than that
It's not.
Nobody thinks that way, at least the way mentioned in your first post, without something horrendous, like a rape, happening. That's just the truth.
I am the opposite, the more I masturbate, the more I crave sex
I'm the same
hahahah this was a great xD
I... may... actually use this... somehow...
Thanks.
Thanks!
I'm gonna stop too! I'm so inspired lol
Make a mytake about it
Haha, yeah, you probably aren't going to like it. I only stuck around to see what would happen out of sheer curiousity. It was pretty tortuous.
I've actually gone a month and a half with just edging lol I wanted to go three months but I gave up. So I'm gonna try to do 2 months. No sexual contact with myself or anybody else whatsoever.
@reixun i will 😂 I'm starting today. I'm gonna keep a detailed journal then write it up and put it on here lol
Good luck to the both of you. I wonder if it's different for women than men?
I feel like it'll be harder for me personally. I don't know about women as a whole lol but if I cave I'll be honest and write about it 😂
Haha, yeah. I think my erection would hurt after only just a bit longer, because of the constant blood flow. It's got to be a different situation for women. I wouldn't know.
cool prettyBama following
@DaModernDaVinci thanks ☺️
I once went for a whole four days!!!
Wait a bit more and nocturnal emissions will fix it
Lmao!! really?
@noisette91 yeah it's actually really annoying and makes you have the most fucked up sexual dreams ever lol
Wow. You are a true Fapstronaut! Interesting Take. Good thing the girls were receptive to your heavy flirting, otherwise it could have ended badly. Like what if a guy with no social skills tried it?
"Moral of the story: when you're constantly horny, you tend to make those around you the same way." -- I wouldn't tell that to all the creepers and pervs out there though. lol.
Haha, yeah, that last line was pretty much a joke. Also, I don't have ANY social skills, lol. Still worked pretty well.
interesting take!
Thanks!