Well, a few months ago I decided to not masturbate, or have sex for an entire 2 months, for SCIENCE! Needless to say, it was excruciating, but a valuable experience. Here's a basic overview of what it was like.
Day 1:
Day one might have been the hardest. It's my habit to do it either one once before going to sleep. I do it every night. My body has gotten used to it. So that first night was pretty awful.
End of Week 1:
Stimulai that once didn't do much began to have a bit more of an effect. I got random hard-ons more often than usual.
End of Week 2:
Pretty much any contact with a woman that wasn't just brushing against her elbow or something gave me a half erection. It was very odd.
End of Week 3:
Everything turned me on, pretty much, as long as it had a vagina and resembled a human being. I found myself flirting much more often subconsciously, and with much better results than normal, which only made my utter celibacy THAT much worse.
End of Month 1:
I had a hard-on around 75% of the time. If found it very easy and natural to talk to women in a way that'd normally make me feel awkward. I found women giggling in an odd way to my jokes, "accidentally" touching my arm, and other things of the like.
End of Week 6:
Constant erection. Constant, excruciating erection that I could do nothing about. Women began to actually hit on me when I flirted with them. They'd put their hands on my thigh when laughing at my jokes. I know. Insane.
End of Month 2:
Finally, my time was over. The second the clock went down, I ripped off my pants and erupted like Mt. Vesuvius a few minutes later.
Moral of the story: when you're constantly horny, you tend to make those around you the same way.
What Girls & Guys Said
55 100Meh... I am not into sex.
Same, im ace so i dont really need that stuff. (Lololol look at butthurt men unliking your comment)
@Fxxcijk yeah I know... It looks like I am single for life! hahah
A large percentage of women are not into sex , you are not alone & nothing wrong with you.
@FatherJack i LOVE sex, I don't know whats uup with you
@acrus Nothing is up with me at all , just telling it as it is !! Most men your age will appreciate you big time , you are very much in the minority !!
You don't have to go two months. But this demonstrates why porn is a poor substitute for normal human interaction with another.
What is also interesting is how some women can simply just shut down their desire. The married ones do it all the time. And the guys are too dumb to game them.
And why 'game's is so crucial in a LTR, otherwise both partners go into celibacy, lack of interest, boredom. Next comes cheating, and then divorce.
I can use imagination, thank you very much.
Gonna try for tomorrow 9th to the 22nd. About 2 weeks give or take
Try a decade...
The longest I've gone is a week. I screamed loud as hell when I nutted.
Lol, same.
I simply couldn't do it. I envy you my friend, 2 months is just crazy
What you've learned is there are A LOT of MOFOS lying in the comments about the following; 'Oh I don't masturbate and blah blah blah' :v
Everyone masturbates... some more than others... why y'all gotta lie man... whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy? :v
More agitated for 2 weeks but after find other avenues to put that energy into so you can relax; but it can't stop you from being frustrated with everything when it goes wrong.
that was really interesting and i wonder how much of it is really happening and how much is in ur head =P
Probably most of it was real, but obviously at least some of it was the delusion of a sexless man.
haha exactly what i was thinking. that u just notice more to stuff like girls putting their hands on ur thigh when u r that horny
I can guarantee that no women, in my normal life, put their hands on my thigh or giggled loudly to my jokes. I wish I was imagining them never doing it, though, haha.
You my friend, have an addiction
You my friend are quick to diagnose people without having any credentials
@Nicolás25 Mmm-hm. I'm a human being. Not a sexless mannequin. Of course I enjoy sex and masturbation.
yes, just like a lot of people enjoy the odd glass of wine. Not being able to go without something though is an addiction. Also, sex is not an inherent part of being human. Nothing abnormal about enjoying it, but nothing wrong with not being interested either.
With men, we have to empty our balls of sperm or else it gets painful.
No. Men are different. If men don't masturbate all the pressure of the sperm and desire drives them insane. Women don't have that, we just have a hole.
Then why doesn't literally every single individual man masturbate? The majority report to in our society as it's just our culture, but many go their entire lives without it. The reason you feel you 'need' is because you started and have no gotton used to it. If you'd never started in the first place or hadn't made such a habit of it, you'd be fine.
Credible study or poll ti back up what you're saying
@Nicolás25 Credible study to back up what you are :)
Ooh, great comeback that answered nothing because you have no real response to his logical claims.
Scroll up..
That means nothing.
Every single man either has sex or masterbates. You can't just slam the term "addiction" because it's a need and make it a bad thing. If that's the case I can say your addicted to air and also, being stubborn and refusing to see anyone else's view.
lol dude lmfao i used to go for 2 months without masturbation and it was all fine.
are you serious girls? icant go for 7 days, i need it like food or air.
@blondman lol do u need me to train u? LMFAO!!!
how do you want to train me :) im so wild you can't
Even if I masturbate daily, I am constantly horny.
Man I dunno if I could do that for that long 😂
Yeah, I definitely wouldn't do it again, haha. I only lasted that long because I thought, well, I've made it this far already, I'd might as well keep going.
Well good for you. Dunno why all these people are downvoting. Um ok?
I'm not sure either. There isn't really a reason.
So literally the pgrade "because you touch yourself at night" is indeed the cause to many people being single.
That's what I got out of this
It shouldn't have been.
i dont buy it.
no offence. but you at least exaggerated events. went 1 month no fap. its kinda like you said, but niwhere near that magnitude. i get hard more often and stuff yeah.
my buddy went for 7 months. he should be a sex deity by now if this was true.
I can see where you're coming from, but trust me when I say it was. I mean, there's no real proof one way or the other, but if your friends expirience was similar in kind, then that shows that we had a similar expirience. My sex drive is usually very instense. Taking that away is hard. So mine would of course be on a higher scale of magnitude.
but i still dont think that a person being horny makes people around horny too.
@ slimstiffy Absolutely. Being horny doesn't put those around you horny. I couldn't have agreed more with that statement. That's what I called pseudoscience. Comments like that including girls were hitting on me and touching me, take away the shine from the post. You find such comments made by newbies nofappers. Take a cursory look at www.reddit.com/r/nofap
@burlen hmm, i guess it makes sense that it does do sometging to your confidence. and that in turn, can be an advantage
I'm curious to try this lol
Well its good now and again to try challenges and test your determination but with this one is probably a waste of time that reap no benefits that will help you in the long run.
Try better challenges that have something to do with stopping smoking, fast food addiction or working out etc
I mean, I guess that'd apply if I smoked or was addicted to fast food. But I just wanted to test my strength of will.
I wasn't implying them, they were just examples of challenges. Am pretty sure you could find something worthwhile that would benefit you... maybe an instrument.
So what you're saying is that if I don't masturbate or have sex for sometime, I'll become really good when approaching women. Damn I think I'm gonna give it a go xD..
I could have told you that in 2 seconds without doing that experiment. You basically figured out what every other guy already knew.
I mean, I suppose, but I also wanted to expirience it as well, to truly get a feel for it.
I don't need to try sitting in a tub of tabasco to know that it would burn my butt. You basically put yourself through hell for shits&giggles.
I wanted to see the effects on my interactions with women. That was the main point.
Not every guy knows anything. I didn't know!
Niceeee.
I was fascinated by the results after 1 month and 6 weeks when you said: End of Month 1: I had a hard-on around 75% of the time. If found it very easy and natural to talk to women in a way that'd normally make me feel awkward. I found women giggling in an odd way to my jokes, "accidentally" touching my arm, and other things of the like. It's something called sexual transmutation and semen retention gives off a magnetic aura where it attracts females for some reason. This post has encouraged me to conserve my sexual energy. Thanks.