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Girls, what I should do?

I am a man, who likes other men in a sexual way... I am on Grindr, which is app for gay guys and I found one with who I coud finally do it.. I want it, I think about it, you can even say that I crave it, but I am afraid that once I do it, then I will never be going back to wanting girls..
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Also do you have any advices or tips about preparing for it.. It will be my first time (if I overcome my fears and meet with him), so I kinda dont know what to expect..
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  • I have a really good buddy who is bi. He started with girls also. But even after going for guys finally he still likes women. He's sexual with both. And he still dates both. BUT I do know that he prefers men sexually, it's the recieving part of it. And don't know if this is tmi but he did ask his last girlfriend if he could use a butt plug during sex and she refused. So I don't believe he could be completely satisfied with just a woman. The male G-spot is their prostate.. so maybe once you know how that feels its hard to not want that ya know? I hope I helped a little. Good luck. You're going to always be curious so I f I were you, I would go for it. Life is too short.

    • O and preparing for it.. well umm.. don't ask women that.. most of our experience in that way was with straight dudes who doesn't know how it feels... so honestly just tell him it's your first time. He will be more than helpful trust me. He will probably think it was adorable. Seriously.

    • Thank you for your advice, opinion and support, sweetie! You helped, believe me. I really appreciete it. :) I do have a fiance, but she left me exactly because she found out that I like dicks and I have desires for men and also that I love wearing female panties, thongs and clothes.. I was sure before that I can stop wanting and desiring this, but now I am sure that I will always be curious as you said and that I will like it ifI try it and then I will want it again and again and again and I dont know what will happen..

    • Good! I'm really glad to hear you sound more decisive, shall I even say giddy? 😊 Not about your fiance, sorry to hear that hun. It made his ex jealous and insecure because she always felt that he preferred men to her. Its difficult to compete with just other women so I can see and understand it but it really hurts to lose someone you care about because of who you are.. really sorry you had to go through that. But if you're worried about losing connections or intimacy with women, don't be. You can still be close to women and if you decide you do like men more and prefer them, that will give you the opportunity to experience that best friend bond between a man and a woman. It's pretty special. And never a dull moment!! One of the best friendships I've ever had. Very freeing!!

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  • In the world we live in today you dont have to choose. The only concern wouldve be if this makes you realize you rather women. One day you get a close girlfriend, you will eventually tell her. Bi curious sounds like your spot. Experimental days are coming. I was when i was young. It took me about 20 years to figure out what i really was. I find women attractive. Beautiful creatures. But id only want to kiss them and anything above the waistline. It took me so long to figure it out. There isn't a romantic connection. I just think women are gorgeous. This took me two marraige to find out. Both men of course. I will always need a man. But if my husbands wouldve have held me back id always think what if.

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  • It's in the Bible that God intended for men and woman to be together once married. Not men with men or woman with woman.

    • You can keep your religion to yourself. You can follow it, but that doesn’t mean that everyone else has to. Plus, the whole being gay a sin thing is fake. It was a false translation. Since you’re such a “Christian,” you should know this

    • @slms2003 I understand. I was only commenting what I felt the need to say as well as you did. God bless and have a wonderful day!

  • I have no idea why you are asking girls this? Wouldn’t men be better equipped to answer questions about bisexuality with other men? But you just need to do what makes you the happiest! Just make sure you wear protection, it would be tragic to catch something and give it to an unsuspecting woman, who believed she was with a heterosexual man!

  • You should let your sexuality lead you. If you like guys better than that's your decision. Don't do what you think you should do, but rather what your enjoy doing and what's true to yourself. I recommend going through with it but being lubricant and maybe a flower. I recommend the Lily cuz of its message. Anyways, hope i was helpful. 🤘Rock on!🤘 ❤️

    • Thnank you for your help and your opinion, sweetie <3 :) I hope I will find courage to do it.. :)

  • It sounds like it's important to you to maintain your attraction for girls. I would say do what wouldn't go against what you value the most and imagine where you'll be in 5 years and see if you like it.

  • Yay! Do it! Who cares if you don’t go back to girls. Let yourself be happy!

    • I have no idea how to prepare for gay sex hun. Gay guys would be the ones to ask. Maybe ask the guy you are meeting. It would be really great for the two of you to be on the same page. :)

    • Thank you for your asnwer, sweetie.. Yeah, you have a point, but I am asking girls, because I want to be in your place, so I want to do the things you are doing in sex... But yeah, I only have my ass, I dont have a vagine, but I will be the one who will be doing blowjobs and be on the receiving end.. :)

    • Definitely have lube. Google enemas before anal sex. I feel like you should be able to find good advice online. As for giving blow jobs, what do you like? I guess it’s a matter of personal preference and asking your partner what he likes. Maybe you two could sort of sext back and forth before you meet about what you want the other person to do to you. :) I know some guys like having their balls, licked, played or sucked. Others do not, for example.

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  • If you like men you'll always like men. Just accept that you're gay and you'll feel better. Being gay is not wrong, it's just your nature.

  • being gay is who you are their are tons of other males who like girls and as long as you dont flirt with or tell or lead a girl on it won't matter. be who are gay. nothing is wrong with that. be proud of who you are you dont need to date a girl to fit in or prove masculinity masculinity comes form being who you are and being kind anmd loving to others and yourself babe.
    tips just relax take it slow and make sure you are kind of in charge so you can have a good experience good luck :) rooting for you

  • Why are you concerned about not liking girls anymore?

    • Because I might be still having hopes for having a wife and kids and building a family with a woman..

    • Yeah but who says you can’t do that with another man? I mean you’d have to consider a different plan for children such as a surrogate mother or adoption but you could still do it.

    • I agree 100%. You can build a family and a life with a man that would be just as amazing and probably more fulfilling to you. :)

  • Let your mind go & your body will follow... Plus, don't overthink it... And maybe not tell him you're his first

  • I just think that you have to do what you want to do, don't think about the consequences or about what other people think, just be yourself and if that makes you happy do it.

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