There are many things that I've noticed about physical attraction but it seems that many people don't know what physical attraction is. People still believe so many stereotypes that have already been disproven. I know that us guys are capable of being physically attracted to women but I'm still not sure if women are capable of being physically attracted to men. I thought that women are capable being attracted to men but contradictions that I've found say otherwise.
In one of my previous takes, I talked to a female that shared an opinion. Everything she claimed, contradicted women being visual. I assumed she was a troll at first but she sounds so serious. The way I interpret her claims is that women don't really feel physical attraction for men. She even said that she finds women more aesthetically appealing than men, even though she is straight. I'm not sure if she's a troll or not. I'm not going to mention her but feel free to read everything she says on this Take that I wrote.
So physical attraction is the feeling us males get when we see a Splendid looking person. Us straight men get this feeling when we see a beautiful woman, while gay men get this feeling when they see a handsome man. The feeling men get is"wow, she is so beautiful. I wish she were my girlfriend." "Any guy that becomes her boyfriend, is so blessed/lucky". I tried "dumbing it down" for people on this question.
People still didn't understand the question. People said that it's "lust", "aesthetic attraction" but none of them mentioned physical attraction. Only one guy understood the question.
It's weird how a lot women still think that men instantly get a erection from looking at a hot girl. Just cause we find women physically attractive doesn't mean we want to have sex with them! Most men don't get erections just by looking at a random hot woman, I don't know why so many people still believe this.
Guys, I'm sure you know what physical attraction is, we all felt it at the beginning of puberty. I remember when I was 11 years old, I liked a girl in my school, it was not sexual, it was simply physical attraction. I'm sure that if you are a guy reading this, you also liked a girl. Those feelings you felt for her were physical attraction. I don't know if females are capable of being physically attracted to males.
There is a reason why most movies, T.V. shows and books focus on the male point of view when it comes to physical attraction. They always depict a male looking at female with him going "ahhhh, she's so pretty", we rarely get movies were it's the woman looking at a male and saying "ahhhh, he's so handsome." If you know any movies that focuses on the female point of view, let me know so I can watch them. I think movies that do depict female "attraction" towards males shows her non visual "attraction" towards men. They like his smile or his personality that's all. To me that's not attraction.
I find it very hard to believe that straight women don't check out guys, it wouldn't make sense. Some women say that women are visual, other women say that they aren't visual. I'm kind of skeptical that there are women that aren't visual. It's confusing. I think that if you aren't visual when it comes to physical attraction, you're incapable of being physically attracted to people.
Aesthetic appeal is not physical attraction, although it may play role in it. Some other "straight" women incorrectly say that they can find both men and women "physically attractive". That doesn't make sense at all. How can you find both sexes physically attractive if you are straight? What you mean is aesthetic appeal, not physical attraction. It's true that you need to like how someone looks to be physically attracted to them. You can still be physically attracted to them based on their looks even if they don't have aesthetics.
Aesthetic appeal is what people feel when they don't feel physical attraction for someone but can still admit that they look good. When a straight man admires another man's physique, that's aesthetic appeal but due to taboo, most straight men won't admit that another man looks good because all the SJWs will call him "gay". When us straight guys find a woman beautiful, it's because we feel physical attraction and aesthetic appeal for the woman. Guys can still feel physical attraction for a woman based on her looks, even if she doesn't have aesthetics. Physical attraction has to do with how a person's body and face looks.
I don't know how women look at men because I am a straight man. I was almost convinced that women do find men both physically and aesthetically appealing until some girl implied that women don't feel physically attracted to men. She implied that she only cares about a man's personality. She also says that women are more aesthetically appealing than men which makes no sense at all because she claims that she is straight.
If women do find women more aesthetically appealing than men then why do the poll results say otherwise?
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/sexual-behavior/q2105297-which-gender-has-better-looking-bodies-faces
If women look better than men then why is male modeling still thriving?!
I just don't understand why women claim that men don't look aesthetically appealing as women yet these poll results contradict what they say. Look, us straight men can admit that women look more aesthetically appealing than men because we are straight but it makes no sense for "straight" women to claim that women are more aesthetically appealing than men. It would make more sense if straight women would think that men are more aesthetically appealing than women. I wish women would find men more aesthetically appealing than women.
Sexual attraction is a different thing, I think only us guys can feel sexually attracted to a woman based on her looks. That's only if we truly want to have Sex with her. Sadly women are biologically unable to be sexually attracted to a man's looks. Remember, a guy doesn't instantly get a erection by looking at a random hot girl. It's not too hard to understand.
Sadly, women prefer feminine looking men over masculine looking men:
https://www.girlsaskguys.com/fashion-style/q2165103-do-women-like-rugged-or-smooth-skin-on-men
Unfortunately the feminine looking guy got the most votes on this poll. It just comes to show that femininity is considered better looking unfortunately. I wish masculinity were considered better looking.
Women are only visual when they check out other women. It makes no sense, I always hear women saying "wow she has a nice butt" "wow she's so beautiful" "she has a nice tummy" "ooooh she's so sexy" yet they claim to be straight.
What does it mean to be visual? Well, it means everything that I just explained about men. You don't need to be sexually aroused to be considered a visual person when it comes to physical attraction. If you don't feel physical attraction for random people, then something might be wrong with you, no offense.
The purpose of this Take is to remind people of what physical, sexual and aesthetic attraction are.
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