What if your girlfriend doesn't want to have sex until marriage?

What to do if your girlfriend doesn't want to have sex until marriage?
I'll wait for her
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I'll break up
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It is because of her religious reasons and she's a virgin
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  • People in some places are still old fashion and traditional this way. If I met a girl who was like this then I would wait for her. It would make our relationship deeper in the long run. Hopefully there isn't people out there who would sneer at the thought of having to wait until marriage before having sex with their girlfriend. The night sex does happen would be that much more special and the girl will know you truly have given her your heart, because you were willing to wait and respect her view of the subject.

  • That's your decision. If you KNOW that you can wait then go for it. But you really have to talk to yourself and her to tell if you LOVE or LIKE her. It's MANDATORY that you know the difference. If you just like her then it might be time for you to leave. Because if that LIKE doesn't turn into LOVE you'll only be wasting each others time. So ask yourself some questions. Here are some examples: 1. Do I love her? 2. Do I just like her? 3. Will I eventually love her? Sometimes love doesn't come immediately.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Have you been together long and Are you engaged? Is this a new relationship and she shared her beliefs up front? If it's the latter, you may need realize your ideals and goals don't match up and reconsider the relationship altogether.

  • He will wait for me or he Will step aside for a MAN that will.. I got all day, no rush for me to jump in bed with these nasty ass guys ew guys are disgusting tbh I'm sorry but they are NOT all that appealing 😕

  • If he doesn't want to wait and tries to pressure you then leave him and find a man who's going to respect and honor your wishes.

  • You don't just go and buy a new car without test driving it first, do you.

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  • I would honor her wish and wait. I am the same, after all.

  • Nope, sex is important so good to know b4 hand if it's any good

  • Bye bye. For everyone there own thing, there are guys out there that would wait but I ain't from that bunch.

  • I don't personally think I would last however I do have a deep non-sexual attraction to pure girls. For example deep inside I view them as long term relationship material.

    The girls I meet in bars or on Tinder... they are cool and all but there is no way I could consider them for more than anything other than a quick roll in the hay.

  • I'm fine with it. I'm waiting too.

  • If he can't respect you enough to wait, he's not the right guy for you.

    • Thank you @LesbianBusinessWoman for the reminder that I shouldn't assume the OP is straight. I'll edit my response below. If (s) he can't respect you enough to wait, (s) he isn't the right person for you.

  • That's exactly what I want so no problem I'll be happy as a matter of fact.

  • If its religious reasons then she's officially lost it... she clearly can't separate the reality from fiction. And she also clearly has lost her individual direction where she needs a book to tell her how to live. Thats scary

    But id still wait...

  • I won't wait and don't believe in that

  • Regardless of the reason, I absolutely REFUSE to be in a sexless relationship.

    We can still be friends, with no hard feelings or animosity.

  • I would not become the boyfriend to a religious virgin. She wouldn't have become my girlfriend in the first place.

  • With some one that superstitious/religious the marriage wouldn't last long anyway. We'd totally get on each others' nerves after a month. It's silly to buy a car without at least driving it a few miles and kicking the tires first. What if she sucks in bed and you just don't know it yet? No way I'd make such a commitment without knowing such things (even just getting an annulment isn't cheap).

  • If she's that religious I wouldn't be dating her in the first place. But strictly on the matter of sex - if she's willing to give HJ and BJ (often) - I can wait until marriage for sex. If she won't do ANY of those things, absolutely no way.

  • I'll break up. Luckily my girlfriend is not someone that waits.

  • I'll break up.

  • depends on the girl. if she's a virgin id wait. if she's had sex id break up. if she's had a lot of partners i wasn't going to marry her anyways lol

  • For me it would be go time

  • this is not a christian teaching. this is a hangover from savonarola and the bible burning era. and overprotective parents.

  • I'll wait because that is what a Christian would do.

    • I'd also happily wait not just because I'm a Christain but because I made a promise to myself and I want to keep it.

    • @Dim_121 that's another good reason. A promise is a promise and it should be kept.

  • Then she will not be my girlfriend especially if she's religious.
    I have no patience for prudish dinosaurs.

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