Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health If you've had people who were bad in bed - what made them so rubbish?
For those that were good in bed - what was it that made them so great?
What (in your opinion) makes somebody "good in bed"?
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1 42I think enthusiasm is the key word here.
The ability and willingness to communicate and try new things. Like we all have to start somewhere and every person is different in what they like. So be open minded and talk.
It is different for every person.
Flexible, open to new ideas, healthy body, good energy, multiple orgasms
Thanks for answering :)
Thanks for asking. What makes a guy good in bed?
Open to trying new things, communication - like tell me what you want😂Open-minded, into it as well as being into you and wanting to explore you and see what gets you off. Confidence and knowing what's what
Sounds like you would get excited if he honestly told you what he wants and no bullshit
Absolutely 😊
Someone who loves sex just as much as I do. Someone who cares about their pleasure & mine, just as much as I do. Someone who likes being clean on a regular basis too. It just all depends. Lol.
Haha great points! Thank you 😀
They don't eat chips in bed...
When you listen, observe, try. And do sone work yourself. Do not just lay there taking it. Give back what you received. Communicate with each other. If you do none of those, you'll probably be bad in bed. For me, it seems like I always do the work.. 😑
The intuition to pivot movements whenever one doesn't match the other's energy.
I have never had a bad fuck so can’t answer that part. As for good sex, the more she makes me cum the better I like it.
Good sleep makes you good in bed.
That does too, yes!
If she's cute with a clean shaved pussy and she does whatever I like :)
My mind.
It's very simple. A willingness to pleasure their partner. It applies to men and women equally. You get what you give. The more you give, the more pleasure your partner will return.
I like when she enjoys it and don't thinks much during it
experience
When they focus on helping me have a good time and please my kinks!
Attitude
Probably somebody experienced with no inhibitions
A willingness to learn and please their partner.
Having fun. Not being reluctant to try new things. Communicating what they enjoy sexually and asking what I enjoy. Like incorporating toys and watching porn for inspiration.