What is a cuckold? My wife asked me?

[wilddog342000]

So I have been married for 18 years and recently my wife asked me to dress in lingerie. After a few weeks i gave in and did it. Now she has been chatting with a few of her girlfriends (which they all know about the lingerie) and now she is talking about me becoming a cuckold. What the heck is a cuckold? Im not sure what to do now. Crapola

[Anonymous]

I dont understand the difference between this and swingers. I guess its like that but the guys not allowed to do anything. Screw that. Thats like ohh she's allowed to cheat and you can't say nothing about it but if you the guy cheats , you break the rules big-time and the break up will all be on you regardless of her actions. Its a huge double standard women would love to have and do in some cases in the relationships theyre in. Like the last one I had... she openly cheated on me, I told her it bothered me and hurt my feelings. She told me I was selfish and controlling, which I was not. She was cheating! Went to vent to a female friend of mine about who is just a platonic friend of mine who I goto for girl advice. She considered me even just communicating with another girl who was just a friend "cheating", broke off the realtionship, and said it was all my fault and we wouldve been fine if I hadn't "cheated" on her. Allowing her to cheat will just give her power over you and the relationship. It ll ruin it.

[wilddog342000]

sorry to hear about all that. that sucks.

[Opinion Owner]

Im not bad mouthing all women but just some. Or people in general both genders who try to control a relationship and make it all about them. Like I would do this maybe if its a friends with benefits type situation. But a serious relationship, no. If im in love with someone, it would hurt me to see them doing it with someone else. But I guess some people can be indifferent to it. But dont do it unless your 100% sure your one of those people. There is nothing selfish or wrong about saying that something hurts your feelings cause you really like that person. If they say your selfish for saying that, then theyre the one being selfish. If they truly love you back, then some sexual fantasy that you dissagree about should not at all be a deal breaker for the relationship.

[CasaNorba]

basically a man that knows his wife or girlfriend is cheating on him yet he doesn't care or does any shit about it. sometimes he would goes as far as letting another guy fuck his wife/girlfriend right in front of him and again he won't do shit about. he might even get pleasure from it

[Anonymous]

Basically you stay home while she goes out on fuck dates. She'll probably be finding guys with huge cocks, and most will be black. When she gets home from her date, she'll tell you all about how well she got fucked, and all the while you'll be licking the cum out of her pussy.

[dc1999]

😍😈

[kc1790]

Yes and your going to have to watch it then learn how to suck and take BBC like a good sissy bitch

[Anonymous]

She wants to fuck somebody else, and you can watch.

[wilddog342000]

I can watch lucky me. Great. Now i am even more confused. Crap

[Opinion Owner]

It doesn't mean anything bad about you, it's just a fantasy some women have, like men wanting to fuck two bi girls. Nothing to be confused about at all, it's just a thought some women have, it doesn't mean they don't love their man, it's purely sexual. If you're not comfortable with it, tell her no. If you want to get a treat not just her, suggest another couple joining you "wife swap" lol. If it sounds like it'd be hot, then do it and have fun.

[wilddog342000]

nothing against me huh. But she wants to do other men. WOW

[Opinion Owner]

It's just a fantasy lots of women have. As you were so open to fulfilling one fantasy, I guess she was thinking you'd automatically be open to another. If you don't feel comfortable, don't do it, it can ruin a relationship for obvious reasons. Honestly though, it usually is never because her man isn't enough, it really is just a thing that's a fantasy like men wanting two women. If you wanted a threesome with two girls, and it was a fantasy of yours, does it mean you love her less or she isn't enough? You're enough, and she proves that by being so open with you about her desires. That usually means your sex life is healthy. If it's not your thing, just tell her no. You don't need to do it if you don't like it, but I can assure you, most women aren't after that because their man isn't enough, it's just a fantasy.

[wilddog342000]

so do you think i should entertain this idea

[Opinion Owner]

Not if you're not comfortable with it, no. And certainly not if it makes you feel shitty. I say talk to her first and discuss it properly, if after you've been reassured and it sounds like something you might like, then give it a try. If not, then don't.

[wilddog342000]

well thats not all that helpful lol. Would you try it?

[Opinion Owner]

I would do a threesome with my guy and another guy or something, but not with another girl... Kinda different because I'm a woman I guess. I can't tell you if you should do it or not, it's whatever you want and what you're comfortable with.

[wilddog342000]

true. So you would have sex while your man watches you then

[Opinion Owner]

Yea, but I'd prefer if he was more involved than just watching tbh.

[wilddog342000]

ok fair enough. Do you think he would let you do it with another guy

[Opinion Owner]

I asked and got a big fat NO without discussion lol, same with my ex. Some guys are into it though, I know that for definite.

[wilddog342000]

lol. Not sure what i think about all this guess i have to sit and think about it some more

[CuriousEddie]

umm... maybe she'll let him watch watch. Certainly he could 'clean her up' afterwards! );

[MlleCake]

I call BS on this whole story.

[CheerGirl38139]

Dictionary. com would be more helpful to you

[BigGuy8]

A cuckold is a man whose wife fucks other men in front of him, or to spite him, to degrade him. The purpose is to humiliate him, and to show him what a real man can do for her that he cannot. There are willing and unwilling cuckolds. The unwilling ones, his wife just sleeps with all his friends or random guys and makes sure he finds out. The willing may very well seek out the other man, and in some cases, she's unaware of the plan.

[yaddayaddayadda02]

That's when she fucks another guy in front of you

[wilddog342000]

oh great. What the heck. Now what do i do

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Do you want your wife to fuck other guys?

[wilddog342000]

um would you? Hell i dont think so. I dont know never thought about it

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Well no, but I wouldn't dress in lingerie for her, either.

[wilddog342000]

good point. I didn't want to and it took a few weeks for me to do it

[Blueeyes81]

A Cuckold by definition is the husband of a cheating wife.

[wilddog342000]

so this mean she is cheating or she has cheated then

[peterp92]

No. She wants to have sex with other guys while you know it and be ok with it. Not just being ok with it actually you enjoy it too. That's the meaning of cuckold

[peterp92]

I guess you know what is cuckold now. I'm guy who likes it. Its not bad. If can be erotic and fun for you. If I was in your shoes I'd definitely accept that and enjoy it lol

[llcanon]

You best put a stop to your wife's activity or you will be watching your wife fuck another Man. This seems like her plan all along. It is a way for your wife to be able to openly cheat on you and turn you into a cuckold husband so she can have a steady boyfriend and at the same time keep you around for security and someone to fall back on while you get noting but humiliated. once she does this there will be no more use for you in the bedroom as she will have a steady stable of bulls to take care of her sex. now if you thing this is a great way tolove as a man then by i guess your a cuckold

[coklovingwife]

Do it

[syddakid]

Sounds like you're going to find out what it is real soon

[Cuckold101]

It will be the best experience of your life, go for it

[dc1999]

I'd do it. Sounds hot.

[Anonymous]

Someone who is opposed to Trump is a cuck

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-YpFcApVc4k

[Anonymous]

She wants to fuck lots of guys with big cocks, and sometimes you get to watch.

[Anonymous]

This happens in Female Led Relationships.

[Anonymous]

Uh oh, not a good sign

[Opinion Owner]

Another nice trolling attempt

[Anonymous]

I would seriously dump her but get enough evidence when she cheats so the divorce is less costly. You can google up what she is talking about. If she asked you, and you don't do it, she will cheat anyway. It is pretty much over. my revenge, would be to tell the kids when they are olde enough as to what she is.