What is a good reason for a wife to not have sex with her husband besides pregnancy and illness?

What is a good reason for a wife to not have sex with her husband besides pregnancy and illness?
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Superb Opinion

  • I believe that a woman is well within her rights to refuse her male partner to have intercourse with her at any time for any reason she likes.

    • Not talking about a “partnership” talking about marriage

    • I understand, and my opinion remains the same, for any situation or relationship, including marriage.

    • Marriage is different because both parties are agreeing to allow the other access to their body

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Most Helpful Girls

  • There isn't one.. but when your partner is an annoying pos they try to act like it is your fault and hold out on you which just makes the other person want to leave...

  • Any reason she wants. A woman shouldn't feel forced to have sex just because she's married

    • This.

    • @SnowedIn yeah its also not good if a husband just expects his wife to have sex whenever. That takes away the fun and makes it into a chore for the woman

    • Preach it Apple!

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Most Helpful Guy

  • If she does not feel like having sex that day that's a good reason. Same for a man by the way. He does not always have to be available for sex.

    • Thats not a GOOD reason Because you can’t always not be in the mood

    • I understand. However, if they are sexually exclusive and generally find each other hot then it should soon work out, statistically.

    • @AnusNdaPainus - By the way it's great to be with a woman who genuinely likes sex. If she does not there's this unfortunate dynamic by which she can withhold sex without losing anything for herself

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • She doesn't want to should be reason enough. Good reason or not if someone doesn't want to no one should do it.

    • Then she shouldn’t be in a relationship because men expect sex

    • YOU expect sex and thats your thing. You are far from every men. Also women like sex too with the right men. If your experience is, that no woman wants to have sex with you maybe thats on you? Not saying that is the case but it would explain the question.

    • So what do women bring to table besides sex Do you understand why men are attracted to women?

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  • Dude... pregnant sex is THE BEST!!!

  • Whatever she wants. Or doesn't want.

    • Is that how a successful marriage works? Her wants out weigh everything else

    • Nope. I didn't say that. But in the case of sex (which was your question) if either one of the couple doesn't want it, let it go. Here's the thing: in a healthy marriage the partners understand each other. A night of no sex is okay -- the partner who does want it understands about the partner who doesn't. And vice versa.

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  • Ever heard of the guy having to sleep on the couch?

    • In the house I pay for I don’t think so.

  • Not being in the mood.

    • Well again this is a totally reasonable and acceptable reason it’s just not a good one because you can’t always not be in the mood

    • I'm with you, you can't always be in the mood. Then there is a problem.

    • I was expecting someone to say something like family death or bad sex

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  • He is an asshole

  • Why wouldn't she during pregnancy? Wouldn't it help with keeping her loose for the birth?

    Not during, I'm not meaning that.

    • There is no reason not to have sex during that time. Pregnancy sex is essential to keep the mom happy and healthy

    • @Apple1996 knew that. Replying to the question with a question.

    • Dick move.

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  • Is this happening more often? If yes then its worrying sign

  • Her period? Although that doesn’t stop us

    • That’s nasty 🤣

  • Unhappy with the outcome or she's pleasing herself or getting pleased by someone else

  • There are no good reasons at all.

  • She doesn't want to

    • That’s a perfectly viable reason But you can’t not feel like all the time That’s why I said a good reason Because “ I don’t feel like it” only works from time to time

    • The only example of a woman not wanting to have sex for a bad reason would be if she was using sex as a tool to manipulate you. "I don't feel like it' is always a good reason, regardless of how often it's happening. If she's constantly not interested in having sex with her husband, that's also a valid reason for the husband to leave her and find someone he's sexually compatible with. He should probably investigate first tho, because there's clearly a problem there that might be able to be solved by communicating.

  • Her not wanting to or feeling like it.

    • Growing up means having to do things you don’t want to do or feel like doing

    • @AnusNdaPainus... except in the case of sex. In which case being forced to have sex when you don't want to is rape.

    • @SnowedIn is sex apart of life?

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