What is a good reason for a wife to not have sex with her husband besides pregnancy and illness?

AnusNdaPainus Xper 6

What is a good reason for a wife to not have sex with her husband besides pregnancy and illness?

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Billlewis Yoda
2 mo
I believe that a woman is well within her rights to refuse her male partner to have intercourse with her at any time for any reason she likes.
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- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  Not talking about a “partnership” talking about marriage
- Billlewis
  2 mo
  I understand, and my opinion remains the same, for any situation or relationship, including marriage.
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  Marriage is different because both parties are agreeing to allow the other access to their body
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- Billlewis
  2 mo
  True, but a woman always has the right to deny her husband sex at any time, for any reason she chooses -- or for no reason at all, if she so chooses, in my opinion.
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  I disagree because if the husband did the same she wouldn’t accept no for an answer

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Anemone978 Yoda
2 mo
There isn't one.. but when your partner is an annoying pos they try to act like it is your fault and hold out on you which just makes the other person want to leave...
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Apple1996 Master
2 mo
Any reason she wants. A woman shouldn't feel forced to have sex just because she's married
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- SnowedIn
  2 mo
  This.
- Apple1996
  2 mo
  @SnowedIn yeah its also not good if a husband just expects his wife to have sex whenever. That takes away the fun and makes it into a chore for the woman
- SnowedIn
  2 mo
  Preach it Apple!
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- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  Well what else did she expect? I don’t know any man who gets down on one knee and doesn’t expect full access to that woman’s body when he wants it. Wives have responsibilities.
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  And little girls have excuses.
- Apple1996
  2 mo
  Well do men also have these responsibilities? Should they let their wives have full access to them whenever she wants?
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  That’s just the thing THEY DO! What’s the longest a man has ever made you wait for sex?
- Apple1996
  2 mo
  Mine doesn't lol and thats fine with me. I wouldn't want to force him to have sex unless he's in the mood
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  So what’s the problem?
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  What’s your point?
- KrakenAttackin
  2 mo
  @apple1996. And men shouldn't have to protect and provide if they "are not in the mood".😏😏😏
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  @KrakenAttackin preach it Kraken!
- Apple1996
  2 mo
  The point is it's not okay to force your spouse into having sex
- Apple1996
  2 mo
  @KrakenAttackin not the same thing. Thatd be like saying I'm not gonna feed the kids cause I'm not in the mood 😂 Men don't deserve sex just cause they provide. That's bare minimum shit that adults do
- KrakenAttackin
  2 mo
  @apple1996. Disagree. Also, when you refuse your man sex you are, by default, giving him permission to get sex elsewhere. If you want to DESTROY your marriage, go ahead and deny your man sex.
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  Sex is bare minimum shit that adults do It’s like you’re trying to leave a restaurant without paying the tab “oh they just cooked it and brought it to me that’s bare minimum I shouldn’t have to pay for that” If women want to be protected and provided Men should get sex in exchange for these provisions because that is what we want.
- KrakenAttackin
  2 mo
  @anusndapainus. So true. In modern times women think they have ZERO responsibilities in marriage but men have total responsibility. And women wonder why marriage rates are at the lowest in recorded history. Why? Because marriage doesn't even offer a man steady sex.
- Apple1996
  2 mo
  Sex is for fun. It's not the bare minimum. Nobody needs it to survive. And wtf bring provider isn't anything special now a days. Women can make their own money if they choose to. That's why I'm saying it's bare minimum.
- Apple1996
  2 mo
  @KrakenAttackin what kind of responsibilities do men have in a marriage?
- Apple1996
  2 mo
  @KrakenAttackin I have sex with my husband because it's fun and exciting. Not because I owe it to him
- KrakenAttackin
  2 mo
  @apple1996. Holy shit, really? Men have to provide, protect, fix, lead, and endure all the hardshios without complaint. When she wants a new car or bigger house, he is the one who has to literally work himself to death to try to keep her happy. Women and marriage are literally life sucking to men.
- DarkLegacy
  2 mo
  It is a good thing that refusing sex is grounds for divorce. At least in the UK it is
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  @DarkLegacy I can’t live in the uk if the call fries chips then what do they call chips?
- Apple1996
  2 mo
  @DarkLegacy people can divorce over any reason so that's not saying much
- DarkLegacy
  2 mo
  We call chips, chips, and what you call chips we call crisps, seeing as we invented all these foods we are right
- Apple1996
  2 mo
  @DarkLegacy I just get confused about the cookie/biscuit thing as well as the fries/chips
- DarkLegacy
  2 mo
  It confuses me why Americans have so many strange names for British things, we have cookies here in the UK. We call cookies 'cookies' if they are chunkier and denser then a biscuit.
- DarkLegacy
  2 mo
  There is also candy to consider, we call it sweets and chocolate bars
- Apple1996
  2 mo
  @DarkLegacy at least y'all have a sexy accent tho
- DarkLegacy
  2 mo
  Im pleased so many Americans love our accent, i was speaking to a American woman on Skype, she also found my accent sexy.
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  @DarkLegacy the only thing the UK got right is boiling hot dogs They taste so much better when there isn’t a snap
- DarkLegacy
  2 mo
  @anusndapainus we got everything right whereas the Yanks stuff things up all the time, our foods our name for them. It is also our language, you are the ones getting it wrong by making up your own made up words for British things and our language
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  @DarkLegacy French people made fries
- DarkLegacy
  2 mo
  @anusndapainus lol at you not knowing the difference between French fries and British chips
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  @DarkLegacy they are the exact same thing
- DarkLegacy
  2 mo
  @anusndapainus LMFAO, no they are chuffing not. I have had both in fact im having French fries tonight
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  @DarkLegacy I’ve never needed to slap someone this bad before
- DarkLegacy
  2 mo
  @anusndapainus Neither have i, you yanks are so ignorant about things, most of you still don't even know why a hamburger is called a hamburger
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  @DarkLegacy most of you saxons don’t even know why a baconator is called a baconator
- DarkLegacy
  2 mo
  You don't know much, not all English or British are Saxons, such ignorance. Then i again i should not be surprised you are a Yank
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  @DarkLegacy true not all English or British are saxons but not all Americans are yanks
- Datboi65
  2 mo
  Right. However, a man should also be allowed to excercise his options and "cheat" if she refuses to let him sleep with her. It's only fair that way 🤷🏾‍♂️
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  @Datboi65 no then he will be written off as a sex addict who only cares about sex
- Apple1996
  2 mo
  @Datboi65 is she allowed to cheat If he refuses sex?
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  He won’t and you know that already
- Apple1996
  2 mo
  My man refuses me sometimes

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EricSummer Xper 7
2 mo
If she does not feel like having sex that day that's a good reason. Same for a man by the way. He does not always have to be available for sex.
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- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  Thats not a GOOD reason Because you can’t always not be in the mood
- EricSummer
  2 mo
  I understand. However, if they are sexually exclusive and generally find each other hot then it should soon work out, statistically.
- EricSummer
  2 mo
  @AnusNdaPainus - By the way it's great to be with a woman who genuinely likes sex. If she does not there's this unfortunate dynamic by which she can withhold sex without losing anything for herself

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msmissydc Yoda
1 mo
She doesn't want to should be reason enough. Good reason or not if someone doesn't want to no one should do it.
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- AnusNdaPainus
  1 mo
  Then she shouldn’t be in a relationship because men expect sex
- msmissydc
  1 mo
  YOU expect sex and thats your thing. You are far from every men. Also women like sex too with the right men. If your experience is, that no woman wants to have sex with you maybe thats on you? Not saying that is the case but it would explain the question.
- AnusNdaPainus
  1 mo
  So what do women bring to table besides sex Do you understand why men are attracted to women?
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- msmissydc
  1 mo
  Being a partner for someone who wants you as a partner. Men bring sex on the table too. Its not that there is a massive difference between what men and women 'bring to the table'.
- AnusNdaPainus
  1 mo
  Men don’t want partners we want wives
- msmissydc
  1 mo
  Learn please that you are far from every men. Also what is a wive for you. Aperently she is not a relationship partner so what else?
- AnusNdaPainus
  1 mo
  How would you know when you clearly are not a wife You’re someone’s partner
- msmissydc
  1 mo
  What even is a wife in your fantasy world? Because I am a wife per definition of the word.
- AnusNdaPainus
  1 mo
  Not when you refer to yourself as a partner You are not a wife.
- msmissydc
  1 mo
  What are you talking about? Wife has a definition. I am his partner and wife. Just tell me what a wife is in your fantasy world.
- AnusNdaPainus
  1 mo
  A wife is not a man’s partner and the fact that you think so tells me that you are not with a real man
- AnusNdaPainus
  1 mo
  No wonder your country has a 40% divorce rate
- msmissydc
  1 mo
  You are not making any sense at all. You dont even know what a wife is and apperently neither what a partner is. If you dont explain what you think it means in your world I guess we are finished. I like to stay in some form of reality.
- AnusNdaPainus
  1 mo
  Does it even matter what I say When you are going to discredit it because you don’t agree with me?
- AnusNdaPainus
  1 mo
  You are just like so many people on here who dance around questions without giving a straightforward answer and when given the energy you put out You withdraw from conversation
- msmissydc
  1 mo
  Do you even see the irony here? "You are just like so many people on here who dance around questions without giving a straightforward answer and when given the energy you put out." That is literally what you are doing and the reason I dont continue any further. I asked you a simple question thats detrimental for the discussion and you can't even answer it. What question did I not answer? Like I said I like to stay in reality but this is proof you need a reality check. You can't accuse me of the exact same thing you are doing. If you dont even realise that you did that I dont see how a normal conversation is even possible with you.
- AnusNdaPainus
  1 mo
  I asked what was a GOOD reason Her not wanting to is not a good reason You are the only person here who doesn’t understand that
- msmissydc
  1 mo
  What you describe is rape!!! When not wanting to not a good enough reason to not do it for you than you are literally raping her. If you dont see that you are even more of a creep than what I thought before. Please get help!!!
- AnusNdaPainus
  1 mo
  Do you want to know why “ not wanting to is not a good reason? “
- msmissydc
  1 mo
  It clearly is. Again what you are talking about is rape. When the other person doesn't want to have sex with you and you do it anyway THAT IS RAPE!!!
Hot_Mess_Express Xper 5
2 mo
Dude... pregnant sex is THE BEST!!!
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SnowedIn Master
2 mo
Whatever she wants. Or doesn't want.
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- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  Is that how a successful marriage works? Her wants out weigh everything else
- SnowedIn
  2 mo
  Nope. I didn't say that. But in the case of sex (which was your question) if either one of the couple doesn't want it, let it go. Here's the thing: in a healthy marriage the partners understand each other. A night of no sex is okay -- the partner who does want it understands about the partner who doesn't. And vice versa.
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  https://youtu.be/QfIm9f_8P9s
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- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  No in a healthy marriage the woman is submissive and gives her body to the husband whenever he desires
AviatorTom Master
2 mo
Ever heard of the guy having to sleep on the couch?
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- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  In the house I pay for I don’t think so.
Annie_LevelUP_ADC Xper 2
2 mo
Not being in the mood.
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- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  Well again this is a totally reasonable and acceptable reason it’s just not a good one because you can’t always not be in the mood
- Annie_LevelUP_ADC
  2 mo
  I'm with you, you can't always be in the mood. Then there is a problem.
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  I was expecting someone to say something like family death or bad sex
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- Annie_LevelUP_ADC
  2 mo
  It doesn't have to be extreme. I treat it like eating. If I'm not hungry, I'm not going to eat.
exitseven Master
2 mo
He is an asshole
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Mansearching Yoda
2 mo
Why wouldn't she during pregnancy? Wouldn't it help with keeping her loose for the birth?
Not during, I'm not meaning that.
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- Apple1996
  2 mo
  There is no reason not to have sex during that time. Pregnancy sex is essential to keep the mom happy and healthy
- Mansearching
  2 mo
  @Apple1996 knew that. Replying to the question with a question.
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  Dick move.
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- Mansearching
  2 mo
  How's that?
Dkc123 Xper 7
2 mo
Is this happening more often? If yes then its worrying sign
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Subflics Xper 5
2 mo
Unhappy with the outcome or she's pleasing herself or getting pleased by someone else
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MissBoogus Xper 5
2 mo
Her period? Although that doesn’t stop us
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- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  That’s nasty 🤣
KrakenAttackin Master
2 mo
There are no good reasons at all.
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Anonymous
2 mo
She doesn't want to
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- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  That’s a perfectly viable reason But you can’t not feel like all the time That’s why I said a good reason Because “ I don’t feel like it” only works from time to time
- Opinion Owner
  2 mo
  The only example of a woman not wanting to have sex for a bad reason would be if she was using sex as a tool to manipulate you. "I don't feel like it' is always a good reason, regardless of how often it's happening. If she's constantly not interested in having sex with her husband, that's also a valid reason for the husband to leave her and find someone he's sexually compatible with. He should probably investigate first tho, because there's clearly a problem there that might be able to be solved by communicating.
Anonymous
2 mo
Her not wanting to or feeling like it.
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- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  Growing up means having to do things you don’t want to do or feel like doing
- SnowedIn
  2 mo
  @AnusNdaPainus... except in the case of sex. In which case being forced to have sex when you don't want to is rape.
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  @SnowedIn is sex apart of life?
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- SnowedIn
  2 mo
  @AnusNdaPainus... yes.
- KrakenAttackin
  2 mo
  @anusndapainus. I have asked "is sex a part of marriage" and at least a third of women said "no". Un-fucking real and another huge reason to never get married.
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  @KrakenAttackin I don’t think modern western women are salvageable. Like what do they expect men to want in return for providing and protecting? Sex with your wife is not asking for a lot and they don’t even want to do it
- KrakenAttackin
  2 mo
  @anusndapainus. Correct. Modern women are so delusional they think their mere presence should be enough for a man. These women add zero value, have no desire or idea how to please a man, and only think of themselves.
- AnusNdaPainus
  2 mo
  @KrakenAttackin that’s sad. glad I got one who wasn’t born here 😮‍💨