What is a reason that justifies why a man would refuse to go down on a woman?

If he finds it disgusting. This is a good reason that justifies it.

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  • Nobody needs a "good" reason to refuse to perform a sexual act. We are all entitled to our preferences and many of them are irrational but very real. "Good" reason sounds like it must have someone else's approval. Wrong!

    Girls refuse to let a guy cum in their mouth because they "might throw up." They refuse to try anal sex because they "heard" that it hurts. They refuse to do sex in doggy position because they don't want a guy staring at their butthole. Those are all irrational and not "good" reasons in my book, but I respect a woman's wishes as soon as she expresses them.

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  • Not disgusting, far from it. I think they do not know what the pleasure is of doing it. The appeal for eating a girl out varies from woman to woman, as I am sure that the appeal of sucking a guys penis varies from man to man. Some penises, are UGLY, or would you not agree with that?

    • I can agree that some pussies look gross

    • I really screwed up with a woman I worked with and we were in the process of becoming friends with benefits or fuck buddies at work and I ruined the arrangement. For some reason when we first started having sex, she would not take her clothes off, and would always suck me off. When the occasion arose that she stripped for me. and had her on her back, and open legs, and her pussy was very 'open' with the inner labia protruding out a lot and the skin was very brown, and the lips did overlap some. I did not go down on her as that did freak me out, but just fucked her instead. I SHOULD HAVE EATEN HER PUSSY, REGARDLESS OF HOW IT LOOKED. She hated me from that point on and we never got together after. I regretted my decision to this day, and it was more than 20 years ago.

    • With that said, I know many penises are gross looking and always wonder how some women can put them in her mouth.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • I can think of three. Worst case scenario, you don't know what personal hygiene is. Or you have diseases.

    Best case scenario, which is still sad, they are just not comfortable doing it. Maybe they're disgusted by putting their tongue there, maybe they think it's humiliating.

  • Any reason justifies it, just like a girl can not to blowjobs for any reason. If you don't like that, go with another person who will do it.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Personal preference lol. No need to justify why you don't want to do a given sexual act.

  • The question is, why would he find it disgusting? Like say she has just taken a shower so there are no bad odors. Why would it be any more disgusting than giving a blow job?

    • Because it's wet.

    • So is a blow job.

  • I don’t think anyone needs to justify their sexual boundaries 🤔

  • Another reason could be that he is sexually dominant and the woman wants to be submissive, but they both find that the position and action of going down on her does not fit this. It can feel like a submissive gesture to them.

    • I think giving oral is submissive

  • She is trans and has a dick.

  • There is no reason why a man should refuse to go down. If my man ever refused I'd assume he was gay and break up with him

  • I find it disgusting and submissive so I don't do that.

  • There is absolutely no reason why any man should ever refuse to service a woman orally, or to refuse to please her in any other way, period.

    • A man is not obligated to please women

    • I respectfully disagree. In my opinion, the only purpose of a guy's existence is to please the female.

    • Pleasing women is secondary

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  • My boyfriend always goes down on me every time. He says he loves doing it and I return the favour. But if he didn’t want to do it that would be his choice

  • Because nobody has to do anything sexually they’re not comfortable with.

  • I don't understand it myself. It's his choice but it's her choice to find a more generous lover.

    • A hot man can be not generous and still get many women.

  • My man never refuses to go down on me he always do, and neither I found anything that makes him not go down to you

  • For me, heavy period maybe

  • Could be a bad past experience. He finds it disgusting. Doesn't like the taste/smell.

  • Yes it justifies

  • She’s not clean and/or she has an infection.

  • Some men are just bad lovers. Avoid them like the plague.

    • It's a matter of taste. Some women think men who go down are submissive sissies

  • Hygiene, smells, hair

  • I don't know why. I love eating a woman out. Makes me super hard and horny.

  • I don’t think it’s justified because it’s disgusting. It might be justified just cause he doesn’t want to or because she won’t return the favor. Honestly I think every guy should go down on his girl but I understand some women don’t like it.

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