Girls, What is a top vs bottom in a lesbian relationship?

[Anonymous]

So, I am bisexual however I have only ever dated and been sexual with men. I’ve always been kind of a switch depending on the partner I can be dominant or submissive. I am talking to a girl now who while her being masculine and me being more feminine she has said she is a bottom. She said she’s not a pillow princess tho and does also give she doesn’t just receive. I am confussed. Does a bottom mean they are always the one who is on there back? Or does it mean more then like to be submissive and told what to do? I’m confussed weather it means they like to receive or if it means they like to be dominated and told what to do and give? With men being submissive means that you usually still pleasure the man but on his demand rather then your own, is that the same with subs? Help!!!

[Flower7]

I’m guessing a top wears a strap-on and a bottom receives it.