What is better: sex or masturbation?

I mean.. sex is sex but most of the people fake orgasm most of the times because your partner doesn't really know your body as much as you do. All i know is that when I masturbate I always have an orgasm... do you?
so which on is better for you?
sex
Vote A
masturbation
Vote B
oral sex and masturbation by your partner
Vote C
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I think the way a man experience orgasm is very different from a woman.

    Brieftly, a guy's orgasm is usually related to an ejaculation. Simply putting, all that porn, all that sexual deeds with his SO, has but one objective: to ejaculate. And when that is achieved, he is satisfied. (Of course we do love also, but I'm keeping it simple.)

    But for a girl, I think a lot more is "felt" than getting wet or being touched.

    She may get an orgasm or very satisfied (without) by just having her breasts sucked (like nursing a baby).

    Or she may need to feel him romancing her, serenading her, even a flower (TBH means nothing to a guy) makes her high.

    My girlfriend (now ex) really enjoys having orgasms during sex. She likes to say "so good to have an orgasm" if i managed to give her one.

    So to guys, sex is needed because of the added visual and body sensations that leads to his orgasm.

    But to girls, maybe, maybe masturbation will do. However, I still believe that sex is better for girls too.

  • I don't even NEED the experience to answer this:
    SEX.
    Sex would be better because there would be a Girl I could please. I hate pleasing myself... That's a Girl's job. My ULTIMATE job is to please Her.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Masturbation, 100%!!! Because there is no one else to consider, you can take as long as you like and do it any way you prefer. There is no pressure, and you don't feel conscious. :)

    When you are having sex with someone else, you're also thinking about what they like, what makes them feel good, etc and there is a lot more pressure to do well! Which makes having an orgasm, for women, a lot harder. But your bed partner could also just be rubbish and has not taken the time to learn about your body and what you like...

  • I prefer sex with my partner over masturbation. My partner always tries his best to make me cum at least twice when we have sex and those orgasms are way more intense and way better than when I cum from masturbation. Sex feels amazing too with the right partner.

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  • If you feel the need to fake an orgasm with your partner then something is wrong.

  • sex of course

  • Sex for sure

  • I mean is there even a point of asking that? 😂

  • Which one is better for you? Most people would go with sex?

  • I love sex but definitely masturbation is on top. Cause I am the only one who knows exactly how to touch, rub etc.
    Also masturbating with somebody else in person or videochat is exciting

  • Masturbation is better for me because I know my own body better than anyone :)

  • If you know your partner: sex, if not, them masturbation. Different people have different ways that they like, therefore it will take some time to perfect the technique and make it intense.

  • Oral and masturbating. We find it more fun...

  • you can't compare 2 different things. Sex is a sexual relationship with a partner. Masturbation is a self sexual sensation.

  • Sex anyday

    • Yep that's it sex anyday and everyday

  • Masturbation is all I know. so its the best I ever had and it not like I will be having sex anytime soon anyway. so I will go with masturbation

  • I bet there are more ways of having sex than of doing masturbation, since there are at least two people involved in sex, but *all* ways of masturbation focus on one person's satisfaction, whilst sex is capable of focusing on satisfaction of at least two people, which isn't 100% for a single one. And if I'm not interested in the other getting please, I rather stick to masturbation.

  • Sex with a beautiful woman. Ever clap some big cheeks? With big titties? I have and it feels amazing.

  • Oral and intercourse are way better. in my opinion

  • Sex is better. Masturbation is a compromise that we make when we are unable to get real sex.

  • sex for me

  • Masturbation
    Never disappoints

  • Sex is better but I’ve been getting really good at masturbating!! I have this technique I use, it takes time but it’s amazing!! I can share if you’re interested...

    • Yes please!

    • @Weston_PhD umm you're a guy it won't work for you

    • By ur technique in how much time u jerks out?

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