What is considered a high body count for girls? Especially at the age of 18. Asking for a friend 😳?

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Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Since no one seems to be interested in a committed relationship anymore the sky's the limit. Today people are hopping from one bed to the next without even touching the floor. And then people wonder why the divorce rate and cheating is so high. When you are used to having a whole buffet will you be happy with just an appetizer? I know what people say, you have to check out the wares so you will know if you are compatible. But the more choices you have the harder it gets to decide as not everyone performs the same in bed. It would like choosing what is the best smart phone. You look at all available models and you get confused because they basically all do the same thing. You are just looking at the outer shell and which one looks the coolest. You have no idea what the inside is like. So people in essence are just attracted to looks and how they perform in bed without ever getting to know the real them. Do you have the same dreams and goals in life or are you just interested in the size of tits and dick? So you find out as looks fade and they get fat that you made a mistake because you are no longer attracted to them physically. But seems that it was the only thing that held you together. There was no deep love, only the love of sex. How sad is that? That is one reason it doesn't pay to sleep around. You think you have everything but will wind up feeling empty and alone in the end. If she is amazing she won't be easy. If she is easy she won't be amazing - Bob Marley

bobalife · Accepted Answer

I think many people may judge it, but honestly all that matters is how you feel/think of it. I hope you don’t feel ashame. I won’t judge anyone on their body account. It’s honestly not bad. Maybe considered “high” compare to most girls that age. But we all can do whatever we want with our body as long as you’re safe and comfortable ❤️

simonqq · Accepted Answer

There's no good or bad. Only time I would personally care is if it's all been boyfriends because that could imply that she is someone that doesn't stick around and doesn't know what she wants. If it's casual sex with multiple different I don't care as long as it's not some bragging thing. I personally don't really want to know how many has been before as it's not important and kinda ruins it for me.

However in the end you are not better or worse depending on how many you've been with. I know some here will give numbers or slutshame but honestly they are stupid for caring about something like that.

VanillaSalt · Accepted Answer

I’m 33 and my body counts 4... all Ltrs... my counts pretty low so triple mine would be the limit for me I think.

tzdc21 · Answer

Depends on the guy. For me personally, regardless of your age, if you're past 20, it is too high for me. I'm sorry but that is too high for me.

Alyssa11 · Answer

No judgement my love, I promise but you're asking so yes, 6 is quite bad.

GingerGuy · Answer

Body count is nobody's business but yours.

blutwolfe · Answer

6 isn't high but you're approaching that ground for your age

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

1 is bad at 18. 1 is bad at 25 unless you're still with them.

ravagesavage · Answer

Anything over 0 then it's too high

SavageGirl101 · Answer

It doesn’t matter cause it’s nobody’s business

Snowman666 · Answer

6 Is not bad at all. had a guy freind with over 100 by 18. That was bad. my wife had a higher count then that. I still put a ring on her and am happy to call her my wife

zagor · Answer

7, at 18.

jasco · Answer

For both sexs i say 10 is enough

Twalli · Answer

Double digits

TallAnon · Answer

5-10 is on the higher side, over 10 is high, over 20 is getting to a slutty-level (not saying that's bad)

Valnac · Answer

That’s something she has to decide.

Coofeaddictnumo1 · Answer

Anything over a zillion is a high count

msc545 · Answer

Probably anything more than 50 would be considered a little bit on the high side. On the other hand if she started when she was 12 years old then it wouldn't be all that high at all