Girls, What is it like to reach an orgasm?

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I've masturbated many times but I can't reach an orgasm.
I get to a stage where I feel really good and then that feeling disappears.
How will I know when I reach an orgasm?
What will I feel?

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Anonymous
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Okay I didn’t reach my first one until 21. It feels like having to pee after a holding it for some time. You probably have reached it if you said it feels really good but then it disappears. Depending on the female body some people are quicker than others. I would just keep trying.
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- Asker
  +1 y
  Oh so you are the same age as me so. I guess that I shouldn't be too worried that I have gone so long without an orgasm if I haven't yet. I may have had one but I don't think that I did. I felt really amazing but I didn't feel like I reached the massive pleasure that people say they feel when they reach an orgasm. I didn't feel euphoric I suppose. I kept playing with my clit and touching my breasts and nipples when I started to feel really good but then the feeling disappeared. Can you describe what your first orgasm felt like in detail just so I can see did I have one?
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Well basically. I had this really strong feeling down there (after getting wet enough) and my body started shaking so I kept going until I felt something come out. I watch p**n first until I’m wet enough then use a toy and hold it down there until I feel I’m about to orgasm. I would recommend getting a vibrator or the “rose toy”
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yeah I feel really good and I feel amazing but I feel as though that's the build up to the orgasm. I never truly get there I don't think. Like you say that you felt a very strong feeling down there I don't feel a strong feeling at all. It's amazing but it is not very strong. And I've never trembled either. I don't think that I had an orgasm yet. I have used a vibrator a few times but I've never heard of a "rose toy". Is that a good toy?
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- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  It’s all in the mind. You have to make yourself believe that you wanna do it. Just focus on yourself and don’t think about nothing when you do it. And make yourself wet enough. Like dripping wet. And yes! I heard very good things are the rose toys. It’s definitely guarantee to make you feel it
- Asker
  +1 y
  I think that may get my biggest problem right there. I get so worried that I won't have an orgasm and then I don't because of all the pent up stress that I feel before I masturbate. I never truly enjoy the experience.
- Asker
  +1 y
  And there is always something that crops in my mind that clouds my thinking no matter how hard I try to have a clear mind. I get wet right but no I never get very wet. Will that come natural when I feel more sexually aroused?
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  Yes! It’s all in the mind. You can’t say I can’t do it and stress while doing it. Your mind needs to be clear and you need to get into the mood and relax your body. It will come naturally. You can try watching p**n and doing it at the same time. I usually do it after I get done watching
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yeah I just need to approach this in a better manner and say to myself I can reach an orgasm. I just need to find better ways of relaxing. So can you tell me how did you find about the "Rose Toy"? Is it a good one?
- Asker
  +1 y
  I'm kind of afraid of the "losing control" aspect of an orgasm too. That may be why I am finding it hard to reach an orgasm.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  I’m in this group on fb and they talk about it a lot and have crazy stories on how they orgasm. And trust their stories be full of details 😂
- Asker
  +1 y
  Oh really. That's so cool. I'm not sure could I be in a group like that. I don't know am I brave enough? Lol. Can you tell me what they are saying?
- Asker
  +1 y
  I need to get one of those. I have a problem though. It's very hard to buy sex toys as I live with my family.
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  If you got a fb I can just add you to the group. It’s over 21k women in the group so trust me nobody notice you 😂. and same but I bought a small toy but I plan on buying a bigger one I get to school
- Asker
  +1 y
  I actually only use this app now. I had a Facebook account a few years ago but I deleted it. Well if they are recommending that toy and if you are then I have to get it. It might be what I need to get an orgasm.
- Asker
  +1 y
  I am just so frustrated. I am 19 and I have never had an orgasm. I really want one! Was your first orgasm a big relief for you when you had it?
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  It takes time and patience. Don’t beat yourself up about it. but yeah I felt asleep right after. It’s gone make you tired
- Asker
  +1 y
  Yeah I'm going to have to be patient as then if I am the orgasm will come. Oh right. I'm scared that my orgasm will be too overwhelming? How long are they usually?
- Opinion Owner
  +1 y
  It just depends on your body