Have done both.
One was a spit roast situation, no crossing swords. and no male contact. Underwhelming.
second was 2 girls
Male fantasy... underwhelming.
1st scenario, was some waitress after the bar closed. We all worked together. After hours drinking and she came on to me, she invited my friend to stay. So it was spontaneous, and she was revved up, which was hot, but looking over at my friend was disconcerting. In the end it was something we laughed about later but had no desire to repeat. If she was my girlfriend, and not just a hookup it would have been weird.
2nd scenario, was my girlfriend I gradually found out that she was attracted to women. She had had a fling with one before she met me. She would take us out to mixed hetero/homosexual clubs. After a while I caught on that she was interested in women. I said fine as long as I got to watch. She told me that when she is with a woman she with that women, and with a man, that man, etc. So I never pushed for the experience.
We were at a beach party. Her longtime friend was there, we were off drinking, she was flirting with her friend, drunk playful. We went skinny dipping. It was dark couldn't see much. I saw she was kissing her friend. I was like... fine, and was heading out of the water. She grabbed me kissed me, and her friend grabbed me told me to stay.
We moved to a beach then her room.
At first I was super excited.
In porn MFF threesomes are all about the guys, 2 girls working on some guy. In real life its more about the 2 girls getting it on, and your helping. The novelty quickly declines.
As a sexual experience it was remarkable and memorable. It killed our relationship. Your girl always needing a girl along to Ffff you deflates a male ego eventually.
It created insecurities I didn't know I had. Our relationship was doomed from the moment I kissed her friend.
Not looking for that action again.
Once you have done it, you can't undo it by hitting control-X.
You didn't mention whether you would do FMF or MFM. Are you prepared to hear him moan while he is fucking another girl, telling her how good her pussy feels? Are you okay with him cumming inside another girl? What if she does something for him that you are reluctant to do, such as anal sex? How will you feel if he suggests that you have another threesome with the same girl?
Suppose it's a MFM. What are you going to think when he just sits in a chair away from the bed while another guy fucks you senseless? WITF is he okay with that? What if the orgasm you have with the other guy is so different that it makes you wonder if you have been missing out on something? Comparisons are inevitable.
If it is a mistake - for any reason - you can't erase the tapes and pretend that it never happened. It has he capacity to ruin your relationship.
There are some fantasies - like killing your boss - that should remain as a fantasy.
I'm ok with all those scenarios.
Seems like committed , monogamous relationships are not a thing anymore in today's society. But then society is going to pot so it figures.
@Daniela1982 yep. fewer marriages too. The women on here that complain about men not faithful are the ones wanting this stuff. If you do a 3 way, the guy will think having other women is ok.
I have played with the thought as well, but the friends I have who have tried it have all told me not to. If you are in a relationship, of course, it`s everyone`s fantasy, but the actual experience is different. They told me it would ruin my relationship and you don`t view your partner the same way anymore. It can work for some, though, but it`s probably a better idea if you do it when you`re single.
for the woman, MMF is best.. you get a guy at both ends...
Men dont like it coz the other guy's penis might touch them and that is gay.
men prefer FMF... if you are into women at all, it is WONDERFUL!
I have done FMF like 20 or more times...
I have done MFM like 5 times and I loved it, but the guys almost always feel left out or get in a fight over who gets what hole..
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Well this questions seems to top dick size questions this week. I guess it's the designated week for asking threesome questions as this one makes about 5 at least. Do any of you people actually read the questions on GaG, or the live feed, to see what is being asked?
It's probably a lot more interesting sounding in theory, but in practice I'm sure it's going to be awkward as hell for the two of you.
I'd love to try a MMF threesome with double penetration. But I'll admit it, I'd be too possessive of any partner to have a threesome with them (MFF). I'd have to be single or dealing with a friends with benefits situation for that to happen
As someone who has had his share, they are definitely not all they are cracked up to be.
I’ve done both types and they’re both a lot of fun.
never got to have one, came close but it didn't work out... I would be open to trying though, the 3 some that was almost would have been with 2 women...
One day with 2 Guy's I'll never see again
With the right combination and people it can be incredible!
Always a no for me.
Repugnant.
If you're both ready to take the next step go for it with someone you don't know such as a sex worker or go to an adult resort.
Me n my boyfriend do it all the times n we love it n enjoy it each time
MMF or FFM?
@soe11 oh only MFM
Now I know, one uper one bottom
If you're not secure in your relationship you probably should wait until you both are secure. Now it's natural to be nervous but that usually will go away pretty quick but if either of you are jealous in anyway it's a bad idea
I'm good. Lol
It's not for everyone. While my wife, her girlfriend and myself have been in a truly loving relationship for 11 years we often find it hard giving advice to couples seeking a threesome purely for the sexual experience.
Only thing we can say is that it has to be something you all are comfortable with. Need to communicate what your expectations are and probably should choose the third person together oh and don't choose a existing friend unless you are totally sure it wouldn't ruin the friendship
I would never do that. And I know people who have and they always regretted it. The allure of it is a false veneer and it often just causes heartbreak or tension in the relationship
I have never been approached with having a 3 way
I did many occasions FFM it was my girlfriend idea, to be honest it was good
Can be hot with the right people !!
You are perfect samantha 👍
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