What is Sex addiction?

[NicoleM300]

My aunt tried to tell me I am addicted to sex, when I hardly have that much sex anymore. I used to have sex more then I do now, but I have tried to keep it to every once in a while and with someone I trust or know. I do sometimes like to meet random guys and date them but usually, they can't stop wanting sex from me and I sometimes egg them on too on accident, so things happen and I have sex or give oral. I also do things online, but its usually with someone I know or have known for a while. I also want a relationship and I am going to have sex eventually. I also am supposed to be Christian as well and I know I am not supposed to have sex until marriage but it's hard to stop when I am attracted to someone. Anyway please give me advice on why my aunt thought I was a sex addict.

[MaazHussain]

Sex addiction is a complex and controversial topic, with varying opinions among mental health professionals. Generally speaking, sex addiction is characterized by a persistent pattern of sexual behavior that results in significant distress or impairment in a person's life. This behavior is often out of control and continues despite negative consequences.

It's important to note that engaging in sexual behavior, even frequently, does not necessarily mean someone has a sex addiction. Many people have a healthy and enjoyable sex life without it becoming problematic. However, if someone is experiencing negative consequences as a result of their sexual behavior, such as relationship problems, job loss, or legal issues, they may have a problem with sex addiction.

It's difficult to say why your aunt may have thought you were a sex addict without more information. It's possible that she may have been using the term loosely, or based her judgment on factors other than your sexual behavior. It may be helpful to talk to a mental health professional to better understand your own feelings and behaviors surrounding sex, and to address any concerns you may have.

[NicoleM300]

Ok thanks

[Dіldорhоbe]

Sex addiction is a condition in which an individual becomes overly preoccupied with sex, to the point that it interferes with their daily functioning. It can manifest in a variety of ways, including compulsive sexual behavior, use of pornography, risky sexual behavior, and other forms of sexual acting out. In the case of your aunt's concerns, it sounds like you may be exhibiting signs of compulsive sexual behavior, or engaging in risky sexual behaviors without considering the consequences. It's important to assess your behavior and recognize if it is becoming a habit or is causing negative consequences for yourself or others. If so, I fully support @MaazHussain's suggestion as for seeking professional help, a specialized psychologist or therapist who specializes in sexual addiction can be a beneficial step.

Mental health professionals are best equipped to help people with sex addiction to identify and change problematic behavior. They can provide support, resources, and guidance to help individuals with sex addiction understand the underlying causes of their addiction and develop strategies for dealing with underlying emotional issues and destructive behaviors. They can assist in developing a plan for recovery and work with individuals to help them develop healthy coping strategies and patterns of behavior that do not revolve around sex. Additionally, mental health professionals can help individuals with sex addiction understand the legal and social consequences of their behaviors and how to address them. Good luck, @NicoleM300!

[NicoleM300]

Ok thank you

[ushagomez]

Because you have been happy enjoying sex and she hasn’t had so much fun so her jealousy has just turned into a little comment about you being addicted. She is probably very envious of you.

just carry on enjoying as normal and don’t worry about her comment.

[PositiveFlight]

Like you, I have a high sex drive. It’s a sign of being healthy physically. So there is a silver lining to it all. What I have found that helps is to fill your life with worthwhile things and hobbies. Positive things that can fill your time help take the edge off so you can focus on more than just sex.

On the other hand, find your balance. Don’t deny yourself something as wonderful as sex and intercourse in life. There seems to be two extremes. One extreme is completely prudish, while the other extreme is nothing but perverted and unnatural sex being the only important aspect to life. When sex rules over everything, people become dehumanized. And that leads me to segue-way into my final point which is that it’s a very worthy goal to want to have a relationship and be married. Marriage is still a wonderful institution when two people love each other and make the most of it. It’s all about good balance in life. Enjoy your sexuality, learn about your body and the body of the opposite. Let the opposite learn about your body and how it functions sexually so they can be selfless toward you and fulfill you. Let the opposite find your body beautiful and adore it. Be respectful of each other‘s body, and be selfless in making each other’s body feel good. There’s so much that men and women can learn from each other about how to have a healthy and happy sex life.

[ArrowheadSW]

Most people like sex. But sexual addiction is where a person's life basically revolves around sex, and there is a feeling or belief that the most important aspect of life is "getting laid". A person can have a high sex drive but not necessarily be a sex addict. There is probably an "official" definition of "sexual addiction" somewhere. An ultraconservative definition might include "any sex outside of marriage" but that just isn't realistic at all in my opinion. LOL... But if someone wants to wait until marriage it is their choice if that is what they feel comfortable with.

[bowenw]

It could be she has very little sex herself or her values are different that yours and she feels your sex life is her business.

[Luffy1990]

Does sex dominate both your conversation and online?

[Mayo503]

Not sure why she thinks like that for to me you seem normal person who like things like that….

why does she think your a sex addicted…?

because of the things you do.., really

Your not hurting anyone…?

so is it her overthinking it and jealousy maybe…?

maybe she wishes she was like that…. But who knows….

and if you find the one to match with heaven I say…

we are all not the same because life will be boring….

isn’t it up to yourselves to be who you are…

your not doing it with young ones or any of them so I can’t see why she thinks like that for….

[Anonymous]

Maybe a little, I wish I knew you