What is that one thing that another person does or says that instantly gets you from zero to sex?

It can be anything said to you or something physically done.
What is that one thing that another person does or says that instantly gets you from zero to sex?
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  • Usually a bunch of hints, reassurance. That kind of thing. I gotta be 200% sure, and down for it myself. Mutual consent is everything.
    But being a bit demi, I usually just need qualify time for awhile beforehand.
    Unfortunately I've been pressured into sex before I was ready once, which helped me realize more of my boundaries.
    It'll usually happen eventually-- I'd just rather someone say they're my girlfriend rather than playing games. Sex can take a backseat until then.

  • If she starts running her hands through my hair or rubs my back/neck. Random playful acts like tickling or gentle tease type touches. Watching her play with her hair or put it up in a ponytail

Most Helpful Girls

  • Nothing yet. But one day someone will say it. I know they will.

    They will look me in the eyes and say.

    "Miah, you want to jump rope with my PP."

    And when he pulls it out and we jump rope with it, my life will be complete 😭

    • WdaH?🤣

    • Hey you want to jump rope with my PP?

    • @Vick2828 it ain't long enough to use as a jump rope😭

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  • Kissing my neck or rubbing my inner thigh always gets me going

    • Me too

    • Yeahh

    • Those inner thigh nerve endings ARE great, aren't they?

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  • For me, sex is of course very physical, and that's super important. But what really does it is feeling secure and wanted with another person. Saying dirty things, wear revealing clothes, that's all very very fun. But when someone just, wants me, and I want them. And it's the two of us, together. That means everything. I like slow mornings with pajamas no make up and messy hair for that reason, just me and my partner, loving one another. That shit turns me into a dog

  • When she bends over I get the urge and am read to go.
    Also, if she is braless beneath a robe or blouse that is casually parted in the middle.
    All she has to do is show me her boobs.
    And, of course, if she gets that naughty, hungry look on her face and slowly sinks to her knees before me.

  • Breath on my neck and gliding fingers along the bottom of my tits

    • Such a intensity @whtclutgrl

  • Combination of hugging me from behind while kissing my neck, and grabbing a boob while using his fingers to play with my nipple. That combo has a rough 85% success rate for him 😆

    • Hot. Are your nipples very sensitive, and firm most of the time?

    • They're not constantly hard, luckily. But they're just visible enough without a bra. They are indeed very sensitive

  • If she sends me photos of her with a little or a lot of cleavage showing... And then she asks me If u were here with me right now what would you do?

    I get these dirty dirty thoughts. I can't help it 😏

  • One thing that a woman says that really gets me horny is when they talk about self-pleasuring. For some reason that really turns me on.

  • If he gives me The Look. It's usually when he's noticeably excited down below too.

  • Bite my ear

  • It’s usually a look for me. All I needed was a flick of the eyebrow or a general touch and I went for it!

  • Kiss or touch my earlobes. Alternatively, say something about being wet. Zero to sex faster than a Tesla Model S Plaid.

    • by the way What it means if amn touches ear

    • Damn sorry i mean, if he touches my ear or earlobe

    • @ItsMykolaJenkins... I apologize, I think I'm confused. You're asking what it means if a man touches your ear or earlobe?

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  • Communication is the key & if you have the key to my heart you don’t have to say anything.

  • If we are out on a date and she finds a way to secretly flash only me in the room. Like she is wearing a low cut top and then leans over to me so I can see down her shirt while she tells me how bad she wants me right now.

  • Anytime my husband takes his shirt off and I see the muscles in his arms and shoulders I don't know why lol. Or if I happen to notice his "bulge"

  • Nothing lol

  • When my SO says, "Meet me in the bedroom" and then slowly and seductively walks that way.

    • Hot …

  • Putting my hand on her thigh then crossing her leg over it so I have a nice thigh sandwich certainly does it. So does putting her hand on my crotch.

    I've sometimes got a good reaction from a light touch. I am very interested in what the girls say here.

  • My partner pretty much just smiles at me and I'm ready to go 🤣. Or if I catch him staring at me, I'll get shy af but I'll wanna jump him

  • All she has to say "You Wanna" and I'm ready before she finishes the word Wanna

  • Very much a caveman guy thing but what does it every time for me is when my wife bends over to pick something up or when near a counter or desk :)

    • Careful with those comments: :) :) :)
      What is that one thing that another person does or says that instantly gets you from zero to sex?

  • Tells me what she wants to do. Or what to do.

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