What is the age of the partners you chose to have sex with and/or date (on avg) when you were in - the 19-23 age range?

[21Cowboy21]

When you were X age range below - what was age of your avg sexual partner you chose to sleep with and/or date that you chose?

When you were age 19-22 what age was you partner +/- min / max age on avg? Also what amount of partners did you have (casually or seriously) during each stated age range.

22-26?

25-29?

28-33+?

Body Count / age range & gender

Please keep answers accurate to what you yourself have actually done in real life - also if you were a virgin until later that is no problem either (as I suspect many more males may be until later age ranges) - or did not sleep with anyone during a certain age range listed - please state as "did not have sex/no dates."

Judgement free zone if you also have a high count too - I have never cared about that in my life for either gender - just curious if the count changes between age ranges/is similar or different for on avg. I am 26 currently.

If you feel uncomfortable stating for yourself - share what the avg friend of yours has had at that age range for your friend group as alternative. Please answer honestly though - or answer anonomously if you feel the need (although no one should care anyway as its not their life) - but please keep it accurate to your actual real life.

[DizzyDesii]

My main preference has always been same age. But when i was 22, i dated/had sex with someone 2 years younger. Ideally i’d now date someone 0-3 years up/down. When I was 21, i dated someone 9 years older. Likely wouldn't do that again but sometimes i have exceptions to the rule.

[DizzyDesii]

Oh wait you said to state all their ages. Shit. At 19/20 there were at least 5 with 4 of them being the same age as me with one being 24. Hard to add up because some crossed over. At 21 there was two, one being 27 and the other being the 30 year old above. Okay didn’t realize til now i was breaking my age rule more than once 🤣 At 22 there was the one who was 20. He and i dated at 23 as well. So glad you didn't ask about 24+ cause thats where it gets messy with more overlap and love triangles than age 19/20. I remember names not ages

[DizzyDesii]

Oh wait you did ask for 24+. 😂 I didn't have sex with any of em so it probably doesn't matter. At 24 there was two 20 year olds, one 21 year old, two 23 year olds, and one 30 year old. At 25 there was one 28 year old and one same age. At 26 there was a 28 year old. At 27 there was one same age, one 24, and one 21. Oh my fck lmao. I wouldn't even be surprised if i forgot someone when i was 20 and 23 🤷‍♀️ Just lots of overlap, love triangles, breakups and makeups.

[DizzyDesii]

I consider everyone to be “serious” but you get dropped if i no longer see a future. Now if by serious you mean the “i love you’s” then that would be about 10 I love you’s (with 2 of the 10 not ready to say it). The “in love with you’s” which are more important, there were 3 of the 10. But ig i could say who was serious based off the longevity of the relationship, so probably 6-7 of the 10 ily’s were super serious relationships

[21Cowboy21]

Thank you for sharing. I love the detailed explanation. Yea I'm like you I tend more to remember names/dynamics than the age/chronological timeline or what year it was with past partners. Its more the feeling that you shared with each unique individual at the end of the day - and pursuing the dynamics that make you happiest.

[DizzyDesii]

Yea i couldnt say i was truly happy with most. I was more so happy with the ones that I chose them over. Its like i often made the wrong choice

[TacosRAwesome]

I was in a non sexual committed relationship at those ages. Wish I made up for that shit but the trauma hits deep.

[Jamie05rhs]

I was not trying to date during that time. I was just too shy. But the girls I was interested in were my own age, with maybe 2 years younger included. But I wouldn't date anyone 3 years younger, as I thought that was too young.

[Jamie05rhs]

Wow- thanks for the MHO! Very kind of you.

[Avicenna]

When I was in the 19-23 age range, they were around my age. Oldest was 23 (when I was 19) and youngest 18 (when I was 22).

[OfMiceandMen]

I would have been my plus or minus 2 years.

[Msputiton]

Guys 14, 15, and 20 Both of them we were the same age.

Women 17, 19, 24.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I dated a girl age 21, and I was age 28, sadly it didn't last long also I was age 35 and dated a girl age 18 sadly that didn't last long.

[IveGotNoName]

Total Count = 1

Avg. partner age = 20 ± 0

[Oldschool1981]

I wasn't having sex yet.

[LiamJHayden]

When I was in that age range, around 30.

[computer_nerd]

i never had sex yet so i can't answer this just let

[Tee-One-x]

4 years younger they were easy to get started

[Anonymous]

Mostly around 25 or so but some older.