What is the appeal of rubbing your girlfriend's vagina when she is fully clothed?

When my boyfriend and I make out he loves to massage my breasts and touch my butt. He also likes rubbing my vagina through my shorts. I understand that guys like touching boobs and butts and that it feels nice, but is it the same for the vagina? Or does he like doing this for another reason? We both don't believe in sex before marriage so I don't think it's foreplay, but I have stroked his crotch (haven't given a handjob though).
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Rubbing a penis or vagina over top of clothing is foreplay and usually teases the person on the receiving end of the touching. The sensation isn't as strong as touching it unclothed so it builds up your desire more before things get hotter. I love when my boyfriend does this to me... it def makes me want him that much more. But to each their own... if you don't like when he does that and don't wanna say anything, simply grab his hand slowly and guide his hand where you want to be touched. Guys can't read minds nor can us girls. We need to be open about what we want sexually. If you don't tell him you don't like what is going on than he will. most likely assume your into it as your letting him continue to do it. Also I praise you both for waiting for sex til marriage.

  • I do it to my girlfriend all the time and she does the same to me. I guess it's a way to just make each other feel good without actually having sex

Most Helpful Guys

  • Since the vagina is the birth canal inside of you, I believe you are talking about your vulva, the part on the outside. That is where the clitoris is and the clitoris is the main point for women's sexual stimulation. So he is doing it to provide the woman with pleasure. He personally gets very little from it.

  • Yes guys like caressing a girl/ woman's body while making out and foreplay
    most guys masturbate when a girl lets them feel her up while making out
    especially when they agree not to have actual sex until marriage ,

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  • I can't speak for all men, but in general men show affection through physical contact.

  • Because guys know girls like it :)

  • Bcz we like it.

  • He wants it when ever he is touching u or u him but it feels good and is a huge turn on

  • I don't know I just like it. It's a different feel and being butt naked.

  • He probably thinks it feels nice. That and a lot of guys think vaginas not just boobs and butts are attractive.