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What is the best way to ask a woman her body count?

I knoow what y'all are gonna say "who cares" or "you shouldn't ask them" I'm going too anyways and what's the best way of doing so?

Cause body count is something I look into and I'm aware it might piss her off anyways or that it might ruin everything and I'm willing to risk that cause it must be a high count if it all goes south, either ways if one was going to ask such a thing, what would be the best way of doing so, to higher the chances of the best results?
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  • I don't know. I guess do your best not to come off as an inquisition.

    You see women on here react with hostility to this question. Because a woman feels she should be able to sleep with whoever she wants whenever she wants without judgement. But what these women refuse to accept is that every guy she's slept with molds all of her relationships with men from then on. Now of course when we make this statement it makes the assumption that everytime a woman is engaging in sex it's with a guy she actually has deep feelings for. We know some women have casual hookups. But these types of women are not figured into the equation. Because no self respecting guy forms a relationship with a woman who engages is casual hookups. So back to my original point. Guys do not want a woman with a high body count because they know it's like buying a used car with over 100k miles, you just don't do it. It doesn't mean it's broken. But there is much higher likelihood it is or you discover what's wrong with it.

    I don't think there is a good way to ask this. But I would listen to her. Compile a list of all the past guys she talks about. And then bide your time. Wait for a moment that is a natural insertion point to this subject. Like Maybe she tells you she slept with a guy on Halloween of 2017. But then in an earlier conversation she told you she met that guy a week before Halloween of 2017. Well I would NEVER date a woman who slept with a guy just a week after meeting him. She just gave you reason to be concerned over her selection process. It's like you just spotted a roach and now you can't just ignore it. Because ignoring it doesn't fix the problem. You have to see how deep the infestation goes.

    If she doesn't understand this at least in the back of her mind MOVE ON! She is not a good match for you.

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  • After she asks you your body count you directly ask back.

    Otherwise, I think you need to embark differently on the topic. Ask more interesting things, for example her longest relationship so far. Ask what she thinks about online dating. Discuss her oulook on dating and relationships in general. Does it worry her that some people change partners very often? You can talk about celebrities to bring up entertaining examples and then observe what she thinks about those.

    Most women will give away lots of personal information unasked while discussing a related topic. They will appreciate the opportunity to talk about themselves.

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  • I have no idea, I'm pretty blunt so personally i would just ask it by text like "hey what's your body count" I would guess the person would respond to it honestly if they also care about their partner body count but if they're against it or think it shouldn't matter they would ghost you.

    I have never asked this question to anybody because guys usually ask it first and they just did it in a blunt / direct ways which I didn't personally didn't mind.

    Maybe try to ask first how many boyfriend or date she had or if she's a virgin. I don't mind those question so I don't really know the best ways to ask sorry.

    • You gave me all this info to then say "yep I don't know how" lol I think some of your info was useful tho, thanks Alice 😂🤣

    • It's great if you find it useful, happy i could help a little :) I was thinking and writing at the same time but all my idea didn't sound good so XD

    • I think best ways is to begin by asking some light / safe question about her dating life (non serious one) and to gradually ask more serious one that will lead to this one.

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  • It's a very reasonable question and if she get upset then it's probably high anyways. With that being said I think in the beginning when you just talk you can tell her you are waiting for marriage. Discuss morals and what you want for the future. Let it come naturally. You could even ask her this in this area.

    If she gets mad just see it as a good thing, she won't be waisting any more of your time.

    • That's so clean advice smiley 😁💯

    • Alright then. Best of luck! ✌🏻✌🏻

    • Thanks tiny stuff 😊

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  • Just ask straight up, don't be a pussy.

    • Even if I don't know them that Well? you stop being a dick 😂

    • Pft, as if you actually care what a woman thinks. Don't get soft, harddick. What's the worst that can happen, you stay a virgin for life?

    • I do care what they think, if I'm marrying a woman their opinion is valuable to me, but you make a good point, virginity for life don't seem that bad lol

  • "How many times have you perpetrated fornication?" Sounds like a good place to start with XD

    • So finessong with the big fancy words, that could work 🤔😂

    • Finessing*

  • If you have that conversation I wouldn’t rule out someone around the same as you otherwise that is hypocritical. Otherwise just talk about it. You can say you’ve been with x amount of people and want to know where she is at to see if your morals match. If you’re a virgin try to go for a virgin, one partner go for the same or within range of that etc. I think people with similar morals should go for each other in general, but not completely exclude someone that might not fall into that.

  • Straight up don't beat around the bush

  • "Hey, yo, what's your body count?"

    When y'all get comfortable enough of course

    • Fair enough

  • It's doesn't matter much tbh, the right person is going to feel the same way you do and be glad you asked.

    • That's comforting to hear 😌😊

  • Let her broach the topic.

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  • Don't bother. You will never get the real answer.

    • They don't deserve any answer.

    • @Nikki1989 any woman with a boyfriend has had sex at least 365 times or more in a year. Also you will find out fairly quickly how high a woman's body count is as people talk.

  • Give your common friend (girl) $100 and ask her to do that for you.

  • There is no good way.

  • I would tell her mine and see if she laughs. Thren ask her what her's is.,

    • Have you asked this way before?

    • No, but it seems like a good way to do it.

  • Be open and honest with her. Tell her this matters to u in a serious relationship. This will help her know also if she will accept your way of thinking or not for a longterm relationship

    • That's some good clean advice right there no lie, thanks

  • There is no best way. No one likes a nosy asshole.

    • your opinion is useless but I'm going to assume that not only did you not read everything I said but you must have a high body count, this is a preference, I'm sure you have your own, the difference is that mine disqualifies a lot of people that I don't consider worthy of my time and I know what your response to this is, insecurity which is your response to almost everything you don't agree with, it's not insecurity, I just prefer my women without a high body count, like I said, a preference.

  • You can’t you’ll never be sure best way Ig you could somewhat figure out is how she behaves and how well she fucks you

  • That comes during conversation getting to know each other just do it in a nice way

    • I dont plan on doing it rudely lol

    • It’s not being rude it’s getting to know each other than eventually you ask how many boyfriends have you had everything leads into everything

    • The couples count, that is a nice finesse into the topic, it's like the luring her into the question, good finesse 🤔

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  • Don't

    • Why not?

    • Because it doesn't matter

    • To you perhaps

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  • Don't. It's probably a lie anyway.

  • Ask about dating experience

    • That's a fair idea

  • I would get into the sex topic and say "but I'm still a virgin lol wbu?" And if they say no they're not a virgin, I would ask "oh fr? How many people have you had sex with?" Or straight up say "oh fr? What's your body count if u don't mind me asking" that's how I would do it if I was curious abou a guy's body count! Lol!

    • Sounds to me like you've already asked people this before, you sound like you are speaking from experience anon, you are such a finesser, this is a good idea 😂

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