What is the big deal about blowjobs on the toilet?

[Anonymous]

I had quite a lot of casual sex partners while my boyfriend had very little. He used to have some trouble with that fact but now he seemed to have put it behind him. Now recently he found out that a lot of those casual encounters were blowjobs I gave on the toilet of a bar. For some reason that bothers him more than if it was just sex somewhere else. The reason was because I worked as a bar maid for years and many of those encounters happened there after hours. It was pretty much just coincidence. Can any of you help me understand the problem with this?

[stratford]

I suspect he has what I like to call retro-jealousy. Essentially he is thinking about all the guys whose penis has been in your mouth, and the fact you did it on your knees in a public toilet (nothing wrong with either of those things by the way).

But if he thinks to much about it, he will send himself crazy. He probably imagines you are only for him.

Just becuase it happened in the past doesn't mean he won't get jealous.

I'm not saying that is right but if he is insecure about himself that will contribute so perhaps see if there are ways you can build up his confidence in that area.

Hope that helps.

[stratford]

Thanks for the MHO!

[SamIam96]

It's a little kinky. Good for you! I kinda like it. Some of the other guys here don't. I suppose that's the problem with kinky stuff. What works for one person might not for another. Your boyfriend sounds like he's more prudish than you. The unusual nature of your bathroom encounters is pushing him out of his comfort zone. Another thing is that from the info you've shared, it isn't difficult to envision one of those encounters. It may be too real for him, imagining your past.

[Asker]

Thanks, that's really helpful! I guess indeed, the fact that he can immagine it might be the trigger?

[SamIam96]

Thank you for the MHO.

[chrissykerdock]

maybe you shouldn't of told him... it's natural for him to get jealous

[mrmonogamous]

On the toilet? One word: gross!

[boggboss]

Because it just sounds super slutty meh 🤷🏽‍♂️

[Asker]

Why is it more slutty?

[boggboss]

Your giving people head after work on the toilet thats somthing prostitutes do lol

[erickasanchezr]

prostitutes dont do that. my mom does it for her onlyfans

[boggboss]

Lol so u are telling me no prostitute has ever done that before and if your mum is doing that for her onlyfans I would class her as one personally 🤣

[erickasanchezr]

she not tho. she does it for fun not for money

[boggboss]

Yet there is a exchange of money so why she does it font really matter

[erickasanchezr]

guys pay for the only fans access not for the bjs

[boggboss]

Ah fair enough but that dont change that it's the same activity that prostitutes do just she does it for free 😅

[erickasanchezr]

prostitutes do it in cars..

[boggboss]

Lol yes some do but it's not the only place 🤣

[erickasanchezr]

I know about cars when i was 8 my dad tho i was asleep and he picked one up. i told mom and they divorced.

[boggboss]

I see and thats shit but again prostitutes don't only use cars lol they use what is available at the time

[erickasanchezr]

oh k thanks

[20yearsolder]

Who was sitting on the toilet while you were sucking dick? If it's you sitting on the toilet while he's standing in front of you I don't see an issue at all

[Asker]

It's mostly the guy sitting and me on my knees

[Asker]

Why does that make a difference?

[exitseven]

That is some coincidence. You just happened to be in the toilet and a guy accidentally comes in the wrong bathroom and you just accidentally give him a blow job. It happens all the time. I don't know why he has so much trouble with that.

[FilmGuy93]

Because you were getting on your knees to suck a man off in an unclean public restroom?

[tfan1]

Hmm let’s see - bar bathroom probably stays dirty, toilet probably is dirty. I always wanted a blowjob on a toilet but only if it’s clean. Were you sitting on the toilet sucking his penis or was he sitting on the toilet and you were kneeling on the floor between his legs sucking his penis?

[Asker]

Him sitting, me on my knees

[Asker]

Why does that make a difference?

[tfan1]

Because if the toilet is dirty and the floor you got a good chance at catching something. If you had been sitting and him standing then both of you would have been in a bit cleaner area. Neither of you close to the dirty floor and your face wouldn’t have been near the dirty toilet. Now if the bathroom was clean especially after hours, then that might make a difference for the better.

[JPresidente]

Maybe in his eyes, it makes you look slutty. Wouldn't bother me but hey, we're all different.

[Havthrills]

Some would probably see this as gross or slutty, but I have no problems with it. How many is a lot of toilet blow jobs?

[Jamie05rhs]

Omg, that's so GROSS!

[BJP21]

Sometimes locations can trigger sexual arousal. The fact you're in a public location and doing something very daring can be a turn on to him.

[PantyBuyer4Life]

Honestly I think it's hot that you did that.

[re-pete]

He's just a loser. I know girls who freak out about it, when they find out I've hooked up with randoms in the bathroom. But that's just because they haven't gotten any that way. Same with your boyfriend

[Twalli]

It seems you were more of a cum dump if it was just in the bathroom of a bar

[Asker]

Why does that make me more of a cum dump?

[Twalli]

It's sluttier. I'm not saying you are or were a alut, but the image is slutty

[AnnaLingus]

A kink of mine is receiving a sloppy BJ while the girl is peeing on a toilet. Not a bar or public toilet, but in a private house or hotel room.

I'm not THAT kinky. LOL

[MrTaboo]

Gross.

[Anonymous]

If you don’t see the problem with this then I don’t think anyone here is going to be able to steer you in the right direction.

[Anonymous]

Not any guy would like to stay with a slut

[Anonymous]

Lol slut, we answered a question similar to this before from you.

[Anonymous]

he's the man so he has to invest his time energy and money into you. 90% of the investment is made by the man

He knows you are likely to leave or cheat and make his investment a total waste

he's with you because you are sexually desirable. In the back of his mind he knows you are a sl*t

[Asker]

well that's a pretty sad reaction. Good luck being lonely for the rest of your life.

[Opinion Owner]

Its a fact