What is the easiest way to get laid?

Since I do not meet the unrealistic standards women place on men (six pack abs, 6ft height, being rich) It is impossible for me to get laid the "normal" but very hard way because women are very shallow and will only sleep with white or black guys who are six feet tall and have six pack abs and a big penis.

I am 23 years old and I am tired of being a virgin.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Don't think other people are bad and place the blame on them for your own limitations or restrictions. We all act in our own self interest and in the ways that are the best for ourselves as individual people. People are selfish. And that is okay. Your sentiment blaming women for having too high standards is merely a way for you to ignore your own agency and act the victim. This mentality will doom you to failure.

    nd act like you're entitled to anything in the world on a silver platter. You are the product of what you desire to be and you cannot expect others to give you more than you can offer. If you want to make anything a reality you have to go out there, be strong and seize it yourself. Be confident and start looking in places where you can prove yourself to be a good person to other people first. Join a club, go for walks outside - engage yourself in society somehow - and show the people you meet that you are a worthwhile person to spend time with. If you can't be a fuckboy, don't be one, try to befriend people and date first.

    Don't focus yourself on your flaws, but work to better the strengths you already have.

    • Lmao who would want to be friends with Indians? You white people avoid us and I talk from experience. Why should I try and be friends with racist people aka white people who hate Indians?

    • Well, if you want to give up before you ever get anywhere go ahead. It's no skin off my back. I won't give you any sympathy. I would just ask you don't make generalised remarks about me or other people based on arbitrary characteristics like skin tone, and I will respect you in the same fashion. That kind of shitty attitude is probably the real reason people are "avoiding" you.

    • @Nodachi I never said anyone avoids me specifically. I am saying you white people don't like to make friends with or interact with Indians. Also you white people started it with your "omagerd Indians smell like curry, lol they talk funny" "like the Indians near where I live own a convenience store lololol" I also don't like to be generalised and blamed for things that I have no control over such as companies hiring Indians to work for tech support. Like the saying goes: An eye for an eye.

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  • Get a girlfriend. I know multiple females who couldn't care less about the requirements you just listed, myself included. Yeah, some guys are more attractive than others but being born with certain features becomes irrelevant if all you have to offer is a face, skin tone, bank account, and body type.

  • Level up your self esteem. Insecure guys are boring as fuck

    • How can someone half a high self esteem when 1. People say his race is ugly (Indian guys), 2. The media and society says that desirable men = six pack ab, 6ft tall, rich men. You talk as though it's something easy to do but it's not. Also you contribute to the fact that "women" of my generation 20 - 25 year olds are immature.

    • Ok listen if I say you're fit when you're not will it make you fit? No, the problem is solved. What other people say shouldn't define who you are. Media also say blue eyes and blonde hair are the bomb and brunuttes are still getting laid.

    • Yeah they get laid because they are WHITE and FEMALE Who would want to sleep with a Indian guy let alone date one? Nobody. Why? because women are racist and judge men based on unfair stereotypes. You have no idea what it is like to be persecuted by the opposite gender due to your race. Because you're a privileged white girl who will never ever face discrimination in her life.

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  • That s nonsense, I could get laid if I wanted to, and yes I m above 6ft and have a six pack. But I don't​ show anyone my six pack so that doesn't matter. And I don't​ even know how big my dick is, you know why? Cause I don't​ give a shit. See media tells you that you need those requirements and it tells you that you re not supposed to be a virgin anymore at 23. Both are nonsense. I won t give a single shit if I m still a virgin at that age, really I couldn't care less. Don t look for a girl just to have sex, all you ll end up with is aids. Go date, find a girl you love, start a family and most of all be happy.

    • You're a white guy hence why it is easy for you. It's not easy for Indians due to cruel racism by white women.

    • It doesn't matter I don't​ want it and you shouldn't either. There s so many better things in this life then lust.

  • I had a female friend, who was being hit on by an indian guy. She told him it's not because he looks different, to not make him sad. But to me she told the truth that she doesn't' find him attractive, because he is another race. But hey, why not get six pack yourself. Like people have mentioned - go to the gym, not only that you look better, you will feel better about yourself and that's important. Just be friendly, funny, don't be shy to touch girls. If anything else fails, come to Germany, we have hookers :D

    • No thank you. I like germany as a country (huge Adidas fan) but after a racist incident between a Indian student and a white female german professor I will never set foot in germany. She literally banned him from her class because "I don't like how his people treat women". That gave me a bad impression of your country plus you have a refugee crises and being a bearded brown guy it would be too risky to go their because I might be falsely identified as one of them due to the colour of my skin despite being an Atheist.

    • Well, another suggestion wherever you currently live, try to meet with your people. I bet you can find indian girls everywhere (if you are indian) and just meet with them. Only you can speak their language, so that would be a big plus.

    • 1. I only speak English 2. My parents are Indian but I am not from India 3. I did not grow up or live amongst Indians so I do not understand or care for the culture 4. I am not a hindu, I am not a sikh, I am not a muslim, I come from a Christian background So tell me why should I date people who are not culturally compatible with me. Should you date a Norwegian just because you're both white? Of course not. Also Christians are a minority amongst Indians and the hindu majority do not like Indian Christians

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  • Lol there's regular ass girls out there who don't want that dude, such as myself. Few women can even get a guy like you described.

    I have the feeling the issue isn't that you aren't a shredded, tall rich guy. You're doing something wrong bro.

  • Well for a start just listening to that statement I can understand why women find you unattractive... perhaps being single is more to do with your attitude towards women than their towards you..

    • IT IS BECAUSE I AM INDIAN. ALL WOMEN DO NOT FIND INDIAN MEN ATTRACTIVE!!!

    • ok... your think your population in India is over a billion people because Indian women don't find Indian men attractive?

    • Repeat After Me: White women are racist and refuse to date Indian men Also I am NOT from India.

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  • you really might want try to just calm down and stop playing the victim.

    Last time I checked, India had an over population problem... so obviously people are getting laid.

    • Not with WHITE WOMEN. YOU ARE REFUSE TO DATE US. But why bother. Last time you deleted or reported my question.

    • And I DO NOT live in India so how does that help me?

    • move there and get laid

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  • There are professionals, if you feel that strongly about it.

  • Maybe you're looking at unrealistic partner choices?

    • You see women of my generation aka 20 - 25 year olds are very immature and superficial, they may be adults technically but mentally they're still teenagers.