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What is the fascination with guys and anal?

Like don't get me wrong, I love it and it feels great, but guys on here talk about anal like it's this magical rare unicorn? Am I the only one that thinks it's just a normal part of sex?
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  • It's rare for girls to want it, because most girls seem to assume that it's an act of degradation.

    Indeed, some guys also assume this, but surprisingly few truly buy into it. But we all acknowledge that women seem to think this way. And that's the root of our fascination - it's sort of like if you heard that the word "yalp" was deeply offensive to a specific person, you'd be tempted to use it anyway because that's a silly thing to be offended by - especially if every time you said it you had an orgasm. By the same token, it's a silly thing for women to feel degraded by taking a dick in the butt. Guys, yes, because then it's gay. But women don't have that excuse - most of them are supposed to like dick.

    • Yeah I don't find it degrading at all. I can understand being turned off it by the pain, sometimes it can really hurt for the first little bit but I still love it

    • it will be your fate to end up with a guy who doesn't like anal. That seems to be the hilarious trend - the rare girls who like it end up with the rare guys who don't.

    • Haha in all seriousness I like it that much that would be a deal breaker for me haha he's gotta want to put it in my butt 😂😂

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  • Men are "fascinated" by anal sex in large part because so many women are afraid or put off by it. It means different things to different people. I'd be very interested in what it means to you. PM if you like.

    • It means the same as every other sex position. It's a normal part of sex. It feels good, makes me cum so I like it

    • For me, it means a lot more than that. Part of that is that I'm really kinky and into D/s and S&M. For me anal sex is about feeling so dominant over her in that moment. It's really hard to debate who's in control when you're being fucked up the ass, no? It's also about her willingness or even eagerness to submit sexually. It feels amazing. I love that she is into the erotic pain component as am I.

    • How is fucking her doggy any different to fucking her in exactly the same position but a different hole a little bit above? And secondly, who says the guy is always in a dominating position with anal? What if I'm on top riding him with his dick in my ass? Would that mean I'm dominating him? If I'm enjoying it just as much as he is, that to me isn't being dominated?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • a lot of porn involves anal and a lot of girls won't do it

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  • Well majority of girls I know aren't fond of it. Only about 2 enjoy it a lot. So to guys is just something different. Something new and exciting to think of. And since it isn't as popular as normal vagina sex. It's seen as something rare.

  • They are obsessed with it because porn is inundated with it and most women either won't try it or don't find it pleasurable.

    • Really? I find it just a pleasurable as vaginal sex. I get multiple orgasms from it if he's doing it right

    • I'm not saying that women are physically incapable of pleasure from it, it's just that most men don't know how to do it well. And a lot of women have grown up being told that it is extremely painful with no ability for pleasure.

  • Don't think most women are as cool with it as you are, so that's why...
    If every women thought it was as normal as vaginal sex, then men probably would be so fascinated with it. But for now it is as you say something girls rarely allow, therefor the fascination.

    • Wow out of my group of friends only one doesn't like it because she's super tiny and her boyfriend is huge down there so he'd tear her apart lol

  • Not all women feel the same. My SO won't entertain the idea.
    There is still a taboo about anal, thats what makes it desirable. Society is becoming much more open so maybe it will become less so over time

  • Not interested

  • It's hot. And no you're not the only one who thinks it's a normal part of normal sex... because it is. I think that. But a lot of people don't because a lot of people are fools and don't know what they're talking about.

  • I don't like anal.

  • I’m virgin, but think it sounds awkward.

  • For change and tight

  • It's more dominating. It has a much greater chance of inflicting injury. It's an expression of power.

  • anal has a bad rep.

  • I don’t like anal

  • I like anal

  • I don't know, I do it for my girlfriend. I don't mind it but she asks for it a lot and seems to really enjoy it and orgasms a lot from it.

  • How can u even have an orgasm with anal?

  • I have NEVER seen anything on here suggesting anal is even slightly important.
    I have been here for many years.

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