What is the issue with giving your woman oral?

I have noticed more than a few Men/boys that are overly against giving a woman oral sex. Words like “Disgusting, gross, shit”, and every other disparaging description about how a woman’s vagina tastes, looks, etc. Almost like it’s an offensive request to perform oral on her.

What I have observed is that it’s usually immature guys, that still expect to have oral performed on him, generally requests that she swallow his load, and some are self-declared “Alpha Males”

There are a few that don’t like it, and don’t expect their woman to blow them either, but they are rare.

There are also some woman that don’t like their guys to go down on them. They think its gross.

Well folks, Sex is gross, it’s dirty, and it’s the most freaking fun you will have with your clothes off. I love going down on her, it’s a must! I love how she writhes and grinds as I ticker her with my tongue, how her belly feels and looks as the spasms of an orgasm run through her body. How could you deny her that pleasure? Why would you deny her that pleasure? And how cou you ask her to suck you off, or swallow your load but refuse to go down on her?

We won't even go into rimming and cum eating….
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This wasn't supposed to be about eating or not eating, it was about the strong anti eating sediment that I had been seeing on GAG. The guys' reactions where almost misogynistic.. If a guy doesn't like eating his lover, and she OK with it, the go at it! As long as he's not saying, Suck my dick bitch, take a load, but don't ask me to lick your smelly hole. That is what I was getting at.. poorly apparently :)
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Everyone is different. I personally don’t mind doing it but there’s this weird idea that if a woman likes giving oral to her boyfriend, then the boyfriend must like doing it in return and if he doesn’t like it then he can no longer receive it. There are guys and girls who genuinely don’t like giving oral so why should they be punished for it?

    • Quid pro quo. And it is pleasure that your giving

    • It doesn’t matter. If I genuinely don’t like licking vagina, you’re saying that my girlfriend should stop sucking my penis as a punishment? There’s other ways I can please her if I don’t like licking.

    • She should only not give me oral if she doesn’t like it. If she’s going to withhold it just to get even like tit and tat bull crap, then it’s just immature games.

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  • Guys are assholes, and assholes are better than me at getting laid. Therein lies the true irony of the female mind.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I guess I've just been kind of lucky in that area. I've even had guys who want to eat me, and don't want anything in return. But as for your last part, I think a lot of guys don't like going down on a girl after they've fucked her. Especially if they came in her.

    • Yeah I get that, and that’s cool. But it the absolute pleasure that she gets that turns me on and can’t see why anyone would not want to go down on their partner.

    • That's a good point. That's why when I read questions on here about guys/girls wanting to wait until they're married to have sex, I just cringe. I think it's very important to find out if you're sexually compatible before you tie the knot. I don't think a woman would divorce her husband over him not giving her oral, but what a crappy sex life she'd have.

    • try before you buy, an adage that is well worth repeating

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  • Could you imagine if all the women banded together to say blowjobs were disgusting 😂😂😂

  • Never been with a guy who didn't want to give me oral lol sounds so awful

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • The same as half the women on here expect oral but won't blow their dudes. They're selfish

  • Yeah, it’s imnaturity and selfishness.

  • If there are guys who don't like to give oral then I am glad that I didn't came across any of them

  • I have no issues with it. I love going down on my girlfriend and am really turned on by it.

  • Well you can't expect to get head if you can't give head, i ain't one of those few, you are what you eat, im a pussy 😂

    • Pussies Unite!

    • Yes now lets go have a pussy feast

    • Got my lobster bib and breathing through my ears!

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  • Really? I feel like most guys like the idea of eating their girl out...

    • I do too, but here on GAG their is a definite group of guys that are almost militant in their responses to eating pussy...

    • huh... Well, more pussy for me..

  • Personally it's the same as sex in general. Eck stds

  • I don't get it either!

  • I love going down on a girl. It's my favorite thing to do sexually that isn't actual sex

    • It is sex, Oral sex.. unless your Bill Clinton... lol

    • Ok I meant that isn't penetration

    • I know, I could not help using the Bill Clinton reference.

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  • Yep, there are definitely plenty of immature boys here!

  • Yeah it’s frustrating and infuriating when selfish arrogant guys want women to go down on them but won’t on the women. I personally love to go down on a woman.