What is the limit of sexual partners you would accept for your partner?

Now, this is something I’m not understanding and I want people to be clear with their logic as well. So if a person has 10 partners, or 20? What is too much? Why? Is it because of religious reasons? Explain your logic to me as if I’m an idiot, simplify it and educate me on your perspective.
What is the limit of sexual partners you would accept for your partner?
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  • I won't allow myself to surpass 3 in life. I would prefer he not have been with more than a handful. Ideally he wouldn't be with more than 3 but i can go up to 5 ig. If he has, he shouldn't tell me as long as he's clean. Cause if he tells me, im not gonna wanna be with him. The thought of someone giving themselves to so many people makes me feel like they’re easy or dont value their “goods” as much. Plus i dont want to think about all the chicks that were on his dick prior to me. Shit I rather be with a virgin then someone thats been with a lot of people

    • Completely fair, do you have a low body count as well. You don’t have disclose that number

    • Yes which is why i said i refuse to surpass 3 people

    • Least you make sense, I respect that , thanks!

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  • I mean if you mean before we met, I am the second partner she has ever had and she is my first but it wouldn't have mattered

    If you mean at the same time? Uh like one other person with us is enough.

    If you mean just dating/having sex with without me there? Iunno, she probably wouldn't, but I guess it wouldn't bother me as long as they are clean. I'd probably cap myself out at 1 or 2 max just because I don't really want much myself.

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  • I really don’t care.

    it’s really a load of bollox at a certain level.

    Also say you are married to the 10 years and have 2 kids, then they say actually they had 4 boyfriends at school not 1 and had sex with 10 people not xx, would a person be as shallow as to divorce them.

    Some people have fairly horrendous childhoods and lots of bad shit happens, I found out last year a guy I went to school with was abused by his uncle, I was the 2nd person told after his wife, they have been married 20 years, some stuff takes that long to tell.

  • I think it comes down to a mix of personnel preference and maybe personal values or religion, etc.

    Personally I prefer not to know, leave that shit in the past where it belongs, it's got no place in the present nor future.

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  • I don't care about the body count of *casual* partners.
    But I expect a romantic partner to have a low body count, ideally none.

    • Why low body count in romance and not casual? I’m genuinely fascinated to learn why

    • Well, because, my expectations of a person who expects continued affection, commitment and monogamy from me (for, presumably years and years to come) are, obviously, going to be far greater than the expectations I have of a casual partner, friend with benefits or a hookup. The same way I won't expect a hookup to have a successful career, aligned life goals, ambitions, superior intelligence or attractive personality traits, I don't expect them to have a low body count either. I don't need any of those things to be sexually attracted to them. I am going to expect those things from a committed partner, however. Because to them I will have to be attracted to in a lot more than just the sexual way. I don't judge anyone for their sexual behavior or anything, but sexual exclusivity IS an attractive trait to me. Of course it makes me feel more special to have a partner who values their sexual availability in some way and deems me a worthy recipient of what is a privilege in their head (even if I don't value my own sexual exclusivity in any way). Does it make me a hypocrite because I'm not sexually exclusive myself? Yeah, sure, I don't care. Women want me to be "more" in a multitude of ways- more confident, more composed, more ambitious, more intelligent, more dominant, more socially entertaining, more successful, more wealthy, more fit et cetera. I think it's only fair for me to levy some "more"s on them in return.

  • As long as you take disease, authentic criminality, violence, insanity and virgins off the table I don’t really give a damn how many penises she’s had up in her woo-hoo.

    For me, 20 or so lovers/boyfriends/ex-husbands/one night stands is ~about right~ but there’s really not a very tightly constrained sweet spot.

    ‘Hypotheticals’ quickly paralyze analysis. If you’re a 20 something grad student with dual degrees in molecular genetics and physics who’s found a way to cobble up a Velociraptor that you regularly have intercourse with, which you plan to CONTINUE to have intercourse with even after we start knocking boots...

    Well, we probably should have a talk.

    Anything else, let’s just take on a case-by-case basis.

  • I've had 20. All were rather forgettable.

  • if I am going to care for numbers, then I rather it is an even number... such as 2, 4, 6...

  • In a serious relationship, she should have the same number if lovers as I do... ONE... US.

    When she was single before I knew her, she had several lovers, just like I did. That doesn't matter to either of us. What's important is what we do in our own relationship.

  • Body count doesn't bother me.

  • I’m not sure what line I would draw, I’m just a virgin, so it’s more than I would feel insecure about not being good enough for them, than their body count specifically. Like, even if someone’s been with 100 people, if they’re chill and like me, I’d still give them a chance and hangout at least.

  • One only: me

  • I've had three different women I've went all the way with. I would accept a maximum of eight.

  • I don't have a limit, idm

  • 50000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000

  • MAX 10 or don't tell me lmao

  • Its not really the number but what they did with each number and if they were in a relationship or just having sex with a random person every day of the week or doing crazy shit like gangbangs or they're a pornstar or something, I'd honestly just prefer around the same as mine within 3 more or 3 less than me