What is the longest time you have gone without having sex?

Was it your choice not to have sex, your partners or other sercumstances
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  • Dying over here. I lost count but think it’s been 3 years since. My boyfriend woke up one day and decided he was celibate. Honestly, we’ve been together since high school and while I’ve only been with him and we lost our virginities together he has not only been with me.*queue the insecurities* because I’ve been cheated on so many times I can’t bring myself to do that to anyone (not even him) so I’m stuck. It’s extremely frustrating. Makes me feel like something is wrong with me- like I’m undesirable. And if I bring it up he treats me like I think the entire relationship is all about sex.

    • He's cheated on you multiple times?

    • The first 12 years we were together. At first I found out spaced apart only a few times. But later after he stopped I found out it was over 100.

    • Are you still with him

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  • Well considering i dont like having sex outside of marriage, especially due to religious guilty and needing to be IN LOVE first... so i had sex with one guy in 2009-10 and another in 2018. So 8 years but i get off on just flirting/teasing/seducing so sex is no biggie for me

    • I have to give you a lot of credit for lasting so long. I went a year and I was frustrated.

    • Its all in the desire. I dont crave sex outside of marriage. I mean if im doing it, i go nuts. But if im not doing it, i can easily resist

    • Again with the dig. 😂 Lol

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  • For the first 19 years of my life, I was deprived of sex. 19 years. I don't even know how I managed in retrospect.

    • Well for the first 16 years it wasn't legal for you to have sex. Lol

    • It's like a prejudice. I came out of the womb with a hard-on and ready to with the nurse.

    • Hahaha

  • 3-4 years... But circumstance... Last year of my husband's life, he was too sick too have sex, and then 2-3 years after, cuz just couldn't, wasn't ready and even after all those years, still felt guilty first time I did...

  • About a year. I was single.

  • Age 0 to age 19 when I lost it. Since then, my longest dry spell was probably two years when I was in my early twenties (I started slowly). Since 1985 (age 30) my longest dry spell was probably about six to eight months.

  • this past year, i won't let anyone touch me with the virus going on

    • You don't have a boyfriend?

  • I'll be sarcastic and say 17 years... from birth till I lost my virginity but after that I have had a few months 2-3 of dry spells. I jerked off an awful lot when that happened.

  • One month due to being sick

  • Years.

  • 2/3 years.

  • 19 years before my 1st. Like 5 months was my longest gap after my 1st sex

  • I'm 34, but I'm going to start the timer at age 12 (because younger than that I wouldn't have been having sex anyway.). So that's 22 years. (This year isn't included as I just turned 34 recently.

    Actually, let's start the timer at 14, because I didn't really actually have the urge to have sex until then. So, 20 years.

    20 years going without sex. 2 decades.

    Half of that has been voluntary; the other half, involuntary.

    I have voluntarily and purposely abstained from sex, because I don't believe in sex before marriage. However, I wanted to get a girlfriend and get married. And I would have preferred to get married around age 22 at the very latest. ... So, it's been technically 12 years of involuntary celibacy, I guess. In other words, the entire Obama presidency plus Trump.

  • A few months after the first time. Not really choice, COVID-19.

  • Years

    • I'm sorry

  • so far... birth to age 19, so 19 years

  • I have no idea it's been more than 3 years and it's by choice/not by choice if that makes sense

  • I’m still a virgin

  • I cum at least twice a day, but I’ve been waiting and saving myself for the right girl all my life :)

  • I am still a virgin

  • Since I was born until now