What is you're opinion on femdom?

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Aeon_Norell · Accepted Answer

I'm not into taking on the role of a sub. I'm more of a dominant personality, and the way that femdom is usually represented is not my cup of tea (misandry, humiliation, degradation).

That being said, I once had a dream (medieval setting) in which I was brought to the chambers of an empress/queen to be used for her pleasure. However, rather than a Dom/sub or master/slave dynamic, it ended up as a sexual "dance" between two dominants with me standing up to her and the power balance constantly shifting between the two of us.

That dream got stuck with me, and I might enjoy femdom, if it plays out in a way similar to my dream with me standing up to a woman who is used to getting her way or who expects to be in charge.

ChrisMaster69 · Accepted Answer

I’ve a friend who is a Professional Domme / Domina and she gets guys from all parts of society.

while we acknowledge girls can be submissive, we often shy away from the fact a likely equal number of guys are or prefer to be submissive.

Also in real life (not porn or cinema), the domination can be barely noticeable and not directly sexual, unfortunately a guy making tea for a woman is not good for porn of cinema.

NamerOfStars · Answer

It can be fun to play around with. Remember that domination doesn't require degradation, though porn naturally tends toward the extremes. Nothing wrong with the whips-and-chains type if that's what you're into, but it can also be gentler, which would give it broader appeal.

Remember, too, that if you try something sexual don't like it, you can stop- agreeing to try something isn't agreeing to do it forever.