What is your body count before you became an adult (21) ?

I have asked my boyfriend for his and dont know how to feel about it. To me it was a bit of a shocking number. Now I am just curious if I have just always been to sheltered in that regard. (Obviously I am not mad at him or slutshaming)
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4-7
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7-10
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10-13
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14-20
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21-30
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31 and more
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  • 3 before 21. after 21 to 31 somewhere in the 50's. numbers don't matter for guys or girls. The past is the past. Leave it there. 1 Guy who fucks a girl 2 times a day for a year. Is he worse or better, Then a guy who fucked 20 girls one or two time in a year? Or women? I think it doesn't matter. How much do you think the guy cared about the one women he slept with everyday? How much did the guy care about the girl he fucked once and never spoke to again. If anything long term relationship guy is more used and damadged.

    • I mean I get that numbers dont matter... and I am not mad or upset or anything. I just couldn't help my first reaction -surprised-. I mean I think I can understand your opinion , but somehow I think that I actually prefer a partner who has been in a longterm relationship before. Just because it would signal to me that he has the willingness and the experience to make a longterm relationship work.

    • I just think it is a inaccurate indicator. In side of my fifty plus is four long term relationships over a year. The last one is my wife. Been married two years. Ask him how long they lasted and why. Have a freind by our count he was over 100 before 21. he didn't find a longer then a week relationship for 10 year after that. So i get what you are saying. I would say legth of time can matter if non are longterm.

  • i would guess most guys is 10 to 20 when they graduate college

Most Helpful Girl

  • Lol! I really feel like a slut compared to every other commenter. I was very 'experimental' as a teen.

    • Nothing wrong with that

    • :( this question wasn't meant to offend you or anyone. I dont think there is anything wrong with being experimental.

    • Believe me, i am not offended. I embrace my history. I learned a lot in that time.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Nice shit test question. Your boyfriend should have just not answered you. Don't ask the question if you can't handle the answer.

    • I only asked bc he asked mine first. And its not like I can't handle it. I mean yes it shocked me at first. Now I just wonder if my group of people was maybe "too pure" in that regard. I just never heard of such number.

    • If he asked then he opened that can of worms. Just not important in the big picture.

  • Mine was 2 before 22

    • Thanks for sharing :)

    • Whoops I meant 21 🥺

  • you become an adult at age 18, but regardless my count was 1, and that was right up until my late 20's as was with my first girlfriend for almost 15 years... then since it has been total of about 6-7 women, all i was in serious relationships.

  • So far 2

  • 0..

    I had my first kiss when I was 23 lol.. With a random Russian girl named Svetlana in some dodgy club.

    I am in no rush for things. That's just not my demeanor 🤷‍♀️

  • I’ve killed 0 people

  • i whas adult at 18

  • He lied.
    Don't kiss and tell. EVER.

    • Dont you think that it is okey to be open about such things in a relationship? For me it increases intimacy if the person is honest and doesn't try to keep too many secrets.

    • Open and honest sure. Disclosing too much and over-sharing, no. You NEVER kiss and tell - that means you don't disclose the number of people you had sex with. There are a number of reasons, but primarily, 1. It solves or improves nothing. 2. Likely to create a cloud of doubt or suspicion, a lack of trust. 3. It's none of their business. 4. It has little to no bearing on the current relationship - it's history 5. There is zero benefit to either party. The same thing if you cheat - if you're going to stay in your primary relationship YOU NEVER TELL YOUR SO. EVER. Take it to your grave. It improves nothing, there is no benefit. It is a vial act of shoving off your guilt onto another person, which is simply not right, good, or beneficial. Just don't do it. YOU suffer with it, leave them out of it, it is YOUR problem to resolve. Start by forgiving YOURSELF.

  • Just kisses and jerk off

  • Each other’s past is their business.
    Your relationship should start from that day forward.

    • Yeah I get that. And I am not holding it against him. It just got me curious enough to ask on here. This poll is nut supposed to make you uncomfortable. I am not slutshaming.

  • Meaning intercourse or sexual stuff in general=

  • Why keep score, when you do you lose

    • I agree that one shouldn't specifically "keep score" but to a certain number you just know or remember.

    • i agree, most you will remember

  • I have 0 and now. I feel like a zero too fuck!

  • It was zero.

  • Zero since It wasn’t until I was 21 until I had sex and it’s only been 6 so far

  • My count before 20 was zero.