I'm probably not the best person to ask this as my view of sex is a bit skewed. About only a 1/4 times I've had sex has it actually been any good.
But I think it's when I'm made to feel like I matter, even if it's just in that moment, being talked to whether dirty or nice. I'm a pleaser in life and the bedroom but it's not often that I also meet a pleaser too. I know what I like and enjoy and if asked I would add my input but that breaks guys egos. Many times it's not really been all that great and I've even had times where I was completely disengaged from sex.
But I've always found every guy who cares about me and what I'm feeling will always make better sex. I remember a time when he finished and was like you didn't get off (which at the time I was like yeah that's normal, I thought it was over and time for sleep tbh) then he rolled over and fingered me and damn that felt good and to be fair it only took a couple of mins.
But I feel like a lot of guys tend to get hurt or have their egos crushed, if we were to say I actually like your fingers more than your dick.0 2 0 0I used to feel bad before about the fingers part but have got to terms with it, I only care if I am able to pleasure my wife that's all that matters
The deep connection with another person. No pun intended. Lol
1 3 0 0That's really nice, the intimacy plays a really important role for sure
It does indeed.
Thank you for the mho!
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0 0 0 1I'm a weirdo in that I prefer foreplay to climax, like undressing a girl, kissing her, working down her body and around and through and behind her underwear. The climax isn't the highlight for me; it's the ritual of getting into it. So I like the beginning more than the end. If I want an explosive climax, I can just jerk off. The beginning is something for which I absolutely need a woman.
0 1 0 0It's like the opposite of what I can do with sex doll if I use an extreme (but I think makes sense) example. I'm with a woman after dinner and we dance and can't stop kissing each other and I push her against the wall of my room and I start undressing her, and she's excited. I can't have that with sex doll! That's why I think the beginning is the most special part. It's the most "human" part.
That's really sweet and in fact this emotional connect actually matters a lot in sex
I like the way the girl plays back at me. I'm not sure I'm sweet though. That's a new one! But I want a girl that is as opposite of the sex doll as we might get. I hate starfish, for example. So I think that's I'm skewed towards the beginning or early-middle of sex. If we go to the end, then maybe that's the most physically pleasurable, but I might as well be banging a sheep and get the same ending.
The relationship with the person. Knowing each other. Getting to know each other. The words exchanged before... and after. It bonds. But it cannot bond alone. It's only one component of the relationship. It brings relationships to new levels, new heights. Intimacy is very powerful; all forms of intimacy.
0 1 0 0I particularly SAVOR a female intellect who vicariously delights in the AFFECT (note the spelling) she ELECTS to literally 'arise' in me. NEITHER of us consciously CHOSE our gender and its susceptibilities evolved both through heredity and cultural observation.
But if arousal and seduction is akin to a 'game' and YOU have been fortunate ENOUGH to be the designated player/Opponent... who DOESN'T want a Vixen Dominatrix who will torturously fondle ALL your 'buttons' and 'edge' you until YOUR 'animal' ravens for 'release' to DO what Nature intended?
Kent State Psychologists have documented 89% of ALL hetero males intuitively become aroused even to pre-teen female precociousness, which is 'why' in Western culture there are such stringent strictures on portrayal of nascent 'Lolita' sexuality like in 'Pretty Baby' and yet, EVERY Halloween, grown women taunt with naughty school girl costumes with thigh high hosiery. Taunting BOTH the 'forbidden' juvenile and her emergent frustrated passionate carnal potential.
In Western society "you NEVER get a SECOND chance to BE her FIRST experience" (May YOU possess the skills to make it 'unforgettable in a positive way!)
MY 'vulnerabilities' are foremost sensory appeals, the 'frit-t-t-t sounds of velvet and zippers, ... the crinkle of fitted lace, ... the 'hiss-s-s' and sheen of nylons and satin as they transmit the moist warmth of the feminine flesh constrained within to my eager fingertips; ... the scent of her pheromones' co-mingled with her favor fragrance, ... her gasping breaths, mewings and those tiny little 'Uh. uhh.. uhh's my insistent thrusting force out.
Sadly, THESE are NOT among the overt skills 'valued' openly... in female adolescent sex ed. and must be covertly observed in their concupiscent 'labs' in sweaty back seats--- A female who actively SEEKS to make her chosen Beau sweat and ache to bury himself as deeply within her, where... and when... ever she elects to afford him THAT opportunity! Think of lingerie and cosmetic glamoury as 'gift wrap'.
A 'gift' to HIM and to YOUR self-confidence. The Deity made you an 'avatar' and franchise; NOT a 'monopoly'. Nature evolved males to an inbred neurological 'addiction' to procreate. WHOM their PREFERRED 'dealer' is depends upon how sure YOU are that you want him 'buying' from you rather your female peers.
Unattached males frequent "Gentlemen's Clubs" and savor the feelings those dancers evoke not unlike opium dens of old. Listen to the lyrics of the Hollies "Stop, Stop, Stop" and the Bee Gee's lesser known ballad from Saturday Night Fever" the track "Its the Woman in You" (both available on Youtube)0 0 0 0I have to go with the orgasm as my favorite part
0 1 0 0The epitome of the act
the very beginning and when he's pounding
0 2 0 0I love my girl to ride. Giving her the control is hot I feel
It feels so good to have your penis inside the girl.
0 0 0 0to me, the foreplay is best.
0 0 0 0Anticipation and then orgasm.
0 0 0 0The insertion
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When she cums! 🥰🥵🥵🥵
0 1 0 0Awesome 😎
the being close to one another, the ability to really be able to connect with our bodies, sexual intercourse.
0 0 0 0Inserting my hard and veiny cock into her hot watery vagina and making her moan
0 1 0 0That's very naughty and descriptive 🙈😂
Honesty bro be honest in sex 😉
😂 true that
When I tell her I’m gonna pull out and then I just fill her up with my seed.
0 0 0 0cumming... because orgasm
0 1 0 0When she cums so hard her body shakes.
0 1 1 0Woah that's pretty hard
It is. And very sexy.
Absolutely, yet to experience it though
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