What is your ideal fuck buddy situation? How often? etc?

How often would you have sex? Friendship too or no friendship? Staying the night or no staying the night? Anything else you'd like to add?
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  • Once or twice a week, friendship is fine, actually preferable, happy to spend the night if desired.

    Frequency of course is up to the individual. Personally, I like cuddling, and it is often just comfortable to fuck and then go to sleep, or fuck, go to sleep, and wake up and fuck some more.

    Friendship is nice. I like someone I can talk to, not just dive into bed, hurry up, and race out the door. And if you actually spend time together, eat or go for coffee or do something else both knowing that you are going to go home and fuck, the sexual tension can build and be exciting. There is a danger that emotions get involved, so it is good to have ground rules and understand expectations going in. Maybe the couple is OK with that. Maybe not. But face it. You are using each other. So if you both know and accept that, you can have fun, have sex, and when you are done, even talk honestly about who else you would like to have sex with.

    I guess the only thing I would add is to accept that this is a using relationship. This is not the ideal. There is a cost to everything. Chances are you eventually get tired of one another. You sort of have to put up with the fact that the other party can be an asshole, dump you for someone they like, or something of that nature. But it does have the benefit of consistency and predictability.

  • I can answer all those questions with either as much as possible or YES. In my mind my ideal sex partner is totally into sport fucking and any kind of sex, with the same enthusiasm as me. Or that is, it USED to be my ideal preference. That is until I met a young girl who was totally insatiable. She loved any sex anytime and anywhere. She was also extremely gorgeous. She cared not if we had an audience or not. She was as aggressive if not more than me all the time. I ended up trying to avoid her. It worked. But not before she cornered my cowardly ass and ripped me a new butt. We did however remain good friends. Strange relationship. But one I still like.

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  • 2-3 times a week
    friends is fine, gives you something to talk about.
    stay over if time or situation warrants
    if she brings a friend, it's the best

    • if she doesn't bring a friend is it still worth it?

    • Absolutely. Anytime I can get a girl off and have some fun myself, It's a go Her Gf is interesting on occasion, but distracting most times.

  • hell to the fuck no that plane gross I am a MAN not a BOY would never have friends with benefits

  • 2 times per month she can stay the night gives me more time to fuck her i like to be totally empty when she leaves so we will probably have sex 4 - 6 times before she goes home and i'll see her again in about 2 weeks. no contact within that time is fine don't want her getting attached

  • Fairly often 3-4 times per week is good.
    No friendship preferred.
    I generally prefer to leave after I'm done. No cuddling.

    • So you like to leave immediately? Not even like, get dressed and have a beer, then leave?

    • As soon as I've cummed for the last time I put my clothes on and head home. No beer because I'll be headed to the pub for the beer without her.

  • Best situation:
    - Girl has her own privacy/place to have sex
    - Little to no friendship
    - No external problems (drama with other guys)
    - Flexible schedule to have sex

    • is her own place because you don't have your own place? or because you'd rather fuck at her place?

    • Both.