What is your opinion about premarital sex?

Question

Do you think we have to have sex before marriage?

SjE78 · Accepted Answer

I would recommend it tbh cos many of the issues surrounding breakups of marriage is the build up to sex, before marriage (that is if you waited) you have an idea of what you believe it to be, what you'd like and then the realisation of what it is...

and the reality is rarely like you can imagine and if it is then you're extremely lucky, but is it the same expectation for both of you, cos i can pretty much guarantee that one of you will me disappointed
so i would recommend premarital sex, besides what you gonna do if one of you suddenly decides you no longer want to get married, that the dynamic you have is just the right kind of balance in your relationship?

ecfresh · Accepted Answer

Having safe sex before marriage with someone you are committed to makes sense.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Do we HAVE to have it before marriage? No. mShould we? No. Did i? Sadly. But if i could go back i rather have waited. Sex is overrated. Like its good but it can wait

skyheartt_ · Accepted Answer

I do not think it is wrong but I am also not religious

beetie · Answer

Everyone can decide for thenselves its not up to some institutions to forbid something that is not unhealthy.

pajamasam · Answer

You dont have to have sex before marriage, BUT would you buy a car before you test drive it? No, you wouldn't.

I think getting married with 0 sexual experience is silly, what are you expecting? That a ceremony and some legal documents will make the sex perfect? No, get some experience, test drive the car before you buy it.

Natashakir72 · Answer

Personally I like to spin the new truck around the block few times before I buy it but I don't know bout y'all

mikebeckers · Answer

It's not wrong to have sex before marriage but we don't have to do it. It's entirely up to each person to decide whether they want to or not. So I can't vote on this poll, as neither answer works.

ItsTheNephilim · Answer

Fine by me.

Bhavin2184 · Answer

It depends upon individual personal choice if he/she want to do it than do it or if he/she want to feel like waiting till marriage than they can wait.

Raikousen · Answer

Women sometimes form a strong bond with the man who takes their virginity. For their own happiness I think family-oriented women should save it for their husband.

StephenCF · Answer

If you’re religious, don’t fornicate. If you’re not, go wild 😏🤷🏻‍♂️

genericname85 · Answer

i think it's a very good idea to practice to see who you wanna stay with for marriage.

navyP · Answer

Every one should have sex before marriage

Twalli · Answer

You don't have to have sex before marriage. I think sexual compatibility is important which you need to have sex to know about.

ask4any · Answer

I'll explain my answer. It's wrong, the Bible says it is. But has been happening since the beginning of time. I MUST have sex before marriage cuz what if the sex sucks. 50% of a successful marriage is a successful sex life. Who's going to spend their life with someone they are not sexually compatible with? Not me!!!