What is your opinion on sex before marriage?

[Anonymous]

[The1honestguy]

The way I think of it it’s like an interview for a job. As in if you want a job you go out looking for it and take the time sit down and speak with them and you can have a probation period of so long to see if you like it or not or you can be let go or however it might be so why not find out what kind of you you’re gonna get what the sex is gonna be like because if it’s not what you want and it may be boring for you or for the other than why I continue to stay with that person for the rest of your life that would make no sense whatsoever and always be up front and honest with that person before you even start the relationship or you start getting into trying to have sex and let them know everything that she would like be open and honest screw what they think at the time you might get the surprise of your lifetime to get some I finally open up and be honest about their wants and desires fantasies and what they deserve to be happy and excitement is the key

[DaveJord]

100% sex before marriage is a must. People who have never had sex do not and can not truly understand how important it contributes to healthy and long lasting marriage. Waiting until marriage to find out if you are sexually compatible is too late.. sure there will be a period of infatuation but once the initial physically attraction wears off, that's when you truly know if the emotional connection is real or just physical.

I have known some and been with some really physically gorgeous women... but they were lack luster in bed or had some other sexual insecurity that contributed to the failure of the relationship... so to marry someone and find out later they are not sexually compatible would be disastrous.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

I don’t care what others choose to do when it comes to deciding to have sex before or after marriage. Sex is oftentimes a way to be intimate and open up deeply with their partner, and that’s fine. Some people follow the religious/spiritual aspects of sex and would rather make it special by waiting after marriage, and that’s also fine. It’s none of my business what others do.
I personally don’t wait after marriage, but I wait until I am in a committed, long term, and loving relationship.

[Lliam]

Good answer.

[SecretsofKB]

Sex is a big part of most relationships. I think there is really nothing wrong with having it before marriage. It can really help to build a stronger relationship.

[nachosaresexy]

I think, errr know, sex is a completely natural biological function that humanity literally relies on to keep on keepin on.

Marriage is an interesting tradition that has had very mixed results at best, as far as impacts on society and familial structure. Really has nothing to do with sex outside of religious books.

[Lliam]

I can't imagine saving sex until after marriage. I want no part of a person who thinks that way.

[RobT312]

Lots of sex before marriage.
Marriage shouldn’t be a requirement for sex but to each their own. I know I couldn’t do it

[SnakeBoop]

Try before you buy is my motto.

[AndyOh]

I think sex before marriage is a good thing that (most) couples should do.
The reason is that you do not want to marry someone who is totally opposite in bed from you.
A couple gets in bed and one or the other only wants vanilla sex, or is too wild, or is really kinky, or smells, or is crap in bed, etc. Now you are stuck. Sex is a major component in a relationship. So it should be at least good.

[juliammm]

this is a must! and with several partners.

[EmmaMary]

You certainly wouldn't buy a new car without test driving it first.

[DonkeyDan]

I'll give my standard answer.
It's mandatory, you are a long time married with someone you are not sexually compatible with. It's not about learning or how good you are, but your libido and desires matching, that isn't something you can learn.

[IamAdonis]

It’s kinda mandatory!! It’s needed as apart of the connection thing.

[Bricealan]

ALWAYS fuck before you get married!!!

[Abc12356]

I believe its kinda important to know how compatible you're with your partner in every experience so you can make the right choice. So I won't mind having sex before marriage and also sex is fun and really pleasurable so no one should wait long😅

[exitseven]

I had a long term relationship with somebody that wanted to remain a virgin until marriage. I would not do this again.

[Subarugirl]

Not having sex before marriage is like buying a car you haven't test drove or a house you've never seen.

[KatherineJ]

To each his or her own. I waited until I found someone I wanted to be with long term, but I didn’t wait until we were married to have sex with him.

[genericname85]

i personally think you shouldn't have sex with someone that you wouldn't marry if the shit hits the fan (shit = getting her pregnant accidentally).

[sirderpsalot123]

It's normal

[marish01]

Look at statistics. Most failed relationships and marriages are among those who didn't wait for marriage. This should say something to you.

[Subarugirl]

Which statistics?

[marish01]

Most failed relationships and marriages are among those who didn't wait for marriage. Did you not know it? If premarital sex helped people find the right one there wouldn't be so many breakups and divorces. They try the cars before buying. If that trying works then why are there so many divorces in the countries where people test drive before marriage?

[Subarugirl]

Actually I was asking which statistics? Was it based off a survey or a study?

[marish01]

@Subarugirl I don't remember. Some people showed me them before. I didn't save them. You can google it. I am sure you will find it.

[Jamie05rhs]

@marish01 With all due respect, I think you should show her the statistics. She's asking in good faith.

[poppy80]

It is normal & almost everyone does it. We like to pretend like it did not. It is important to see if you both are the same. Just do not get pregnant.

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm against it. Sex is a special gift that should only be shared with your spouse. If you're not married yet, it's not official yet. You may THINK that you're going to marry them, but you don't KNOW. Anything could happen between now and then.

[cantthinksttaight]

It’s fine