What is your opinion thoughts on society saying single moms only want sex?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It's wrong. Single moms also want to be in serious relationships and they want sex as much as childfree women.

[Asker]

Yea, agree very wrong i don’t say it Something i heard from others

[Opinion Owner]

I'm glad you agree and that you don't think like that.

[Asker]

Yea that is what i meant. i don’t think as this. i respect the single mothers out there. i even dated one before, while the relationship romantically didn’t work out. i appreciated her and enjoyed the relationship which is as important. As my question title said it’s a saying, i don’t understand why some say that Rather you are a single mum or not, i hope my question didn’t upset you or make you mad, angry. Appreciate your answer and you listening.

[Opinion Owner]

It's good to hear that you respect single moms and I agree that this is not right. It's a form of prejudice. It's nice to see a man who's open to date a single mom and I'm sorry that your relationship didn't work out. I don't understand it either, but some people are like that. Don't worry, I'm not a single mom and your question didn't offend me. I don't have kids. You're welcome, I'm glad I could help you.

[Asker]

Yea as we are anonymous we can say anything openly you know? i do believe it’s important we say the correct words vocabulary to prevent not upsetting others, anymore Yea, as long as i be a women’s safe place, i am doing well as a guy 😊 I’m okay though, i am currently single and i could find a nice women as yourself one day. If you do want kids, and marriage one day, hope this happens for you. i am not saying this for attention or anything such as this. i do believe as a guy who is twenty four, women are allowed to want sex and enjoy Life. Sigh, it’s society, the whole slut shaming, shaming women wanting sex i would say which is dumb and idiotic. Sex is meant to be enjoyed by both people and all this important stuff. hope my words made sense with what i meant.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, we can. "i do believe it’s important we say the correct words vocabulary to prevent not upsetting others, anymore" - I absolutely agree with you. I'm sure you'll be a woman's safe place one day and I appreciate your compliment. :) Thank you. I'm also single but I don't think I'm still in time to have kids. I'm 30 and I have a lot of things to solve. If I get pregnant after the age of 35 it will be a risky pregnancy. As for marriage, I do have some fantasies about marriage, but I don't see it happening to me. I really like the way you think, and I wish more men were like you. Women don't deserve the judgement that we get. Your words make total sense to me and I appreciate them.

[Asker]

Yea sorry for my bad words there, i know some women cannot have children because medical reasons That’s the best way to word this i would say, of course a miscarriage, abortion and etc such as this can happen.

[Opinion Owner]

It's ok, you didn't use bad words. Don't worry. Yes that's true. That's why a pregnancy can also be risky sometimes.

[Asker]

i wouldn’t say i am a overly confident guy as many women don’t like that. I’m shy in person in real life. i am happy to share my thoughts, i be careful to not upset anyone. If you want to tell me your age, you can. i know this is a little clique to say. i think you’ll be a fun wife, a good loving mom, and i appreciate you helping me with the advice. i mean this, honest. 😊 Yea having a child is a blessing, can be hard work. I have enjoyed your conversation and talking with you. Yea as we spoke about if a women feels the vibe, feels respected with her boundaries and safe with me, I’m doing well. 😅

[Opinion Owner]

I'm also shy and you're free to share your thoughts with me. :) Yeah being overly confident can be mistaken for being arrogant and women usually don't like that.´ I'm 30 years old and thank you. Yes it can be. I also enjoyed our chat, you're nice. :)

[Asker]

The clique saying “girls hate guys who say they are nice guys haha” Glad you understand what i meant and yea the vibe we have is quite chill and drama free 💜 i don’t like arguing if that makes sense. I’m a nice guy, i prefer the words “ respectful guy” with women because i do respect women and like to see women do well if that makes sense. I would rather be her friend than a hater. We will all get haters. Okay, good to know. i don’t want to be aggressive, rude, disrespectful or cocky as the saying goes. i have a interesting question for you as a women, what is a compliment you like to hear about your “two private areas “ referring to her boobs and butt? What would you want your partner to say as a compliment.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I understand what you're saying and I'm glad you're not aggressive and you don't want to be rude. Everything that you said makes sense to me. That's a good question, I've never thought about it so I don't have an answer.

[Asker]

i had sex once only, it felt as she wanted to and it was her plan to. i am sorry if it is (tmi) too much information it was a hook up in a way 😕🙂🙃🤦‍♂️ My responsibility and my fault yes. i accept this. So, i was cuddling (naked) with a girl, and all of a sudden she “hop on my penis” and ride me. She ended up napping, having some deep sleep after for like six to eight hours After she walked out of my home with “I’m sorry.” It was awkward as you can imagine 😅 No communication in the moment is all i learnt She tried to come back into my life saying she’s pregnant. I did cut her off real quick and end it This was like when I was 18, I’m 24 now. 25 next year So yeah, if this counts as rape.. I guess I can understand women more compared to most guys I think with some extreme cases. I’m going to say it, why are you so far away? You’re perfect 🦋 And they say the most perfect women doesn’t exist 😩 You’re a very genuine incredible women (Sorry if this was too much, Perhaps that is my personality reason I’m single, i say too much dating way 😅) Going to take the risk and say it, you’re a dream women for many guys. i promise 💜 i like that you are being yourself. i know every women appearance is different by the way by the way

[Opinion Owner]

Well, I see how your experience was. I hope you can have better experiences from now on. Why did you mention rape? Thank you for your compliments, I really appreciate them. :)

[Asker]

Some could say, i was raped. Mentioned it as a similarity. As some will say i wasn’t raped and that’s fine It was a “bad” way of losing your virginity though. Thank you for the wish part 😊 Sorry for mentioning rape though. It’s not something many women want to talk about or want ever.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm sorry about that. Yes, rape is a sensitive topic and I don't like talking about it.

[Asker]

It’s up to you to decide if i was raped or not. i don’t want to necessarily talk about that experience as you can imagine and expect I felt comfortable to tell you. You definitely deserve a guy who listens to you, respects you and treats you as a princess, queen.😊 Back to my original question it was asked because i know a women here in England, who has two daughters and she had a divorce. So she’s a single mom. i seen and heard the “hate comments” she gets i known her for six years so i genuinely care about her and respect her. i knew her when she was married so it’s been a while 😅 I’m shy in person in real life as i say and you could relate with. So i wouldn’t want to disrespect her ever 😊 I’m working on being a good man as we spoke about. Thank you for listening.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, I understand why you don't want to discuss this. It's ok, I'm not going to ask you anything. Thanks, I hope I can find a man like that too. :) She shouldn't get that treatment, it was unfair. You're welcome. :)

[Asker]

Yea do you think i was raped, sexually assaulted? I’m glad we been able to talk Been good for each other pink anonymous Yea, she is a few years older than you She refer me as her son when i first met her which was sweet and cute You Agree? Bad treatment yes, i will tell her it’s okay to be a single mother. She been single since 2019. i wonder if she wants and misses sex though. As we say it’s normal for any women to want sex and enjoy this. i tell her often as i can i am proud of her which is my genuine feeling towards her 😅💜 i can imagine the divorce and everything such as this has not been easy for her. I do respect women who is in their thirties as you can see and tell Guessing You’re in USA correct? I’m in England You’re a good women, you deserve to be loved Some men hate single mothers, i respect them first and importantly Sorry for saying this as you did say it isn’t something you want to talk about Some women can be a single mother because of rape incident. Which is unfortunate and sad.

[Opinion Owner]

I honestly don't know. No, I don't agree because you're not her son. It's kinda creepy to me. Yes I can see that you respect women and I see that you like this woman. No, I'm not in the US. Thank you. Yes that's true and it's unfortunate.

[Asker]

Okay that’s fine You’re welcome Yea i try to be understanding

[Opinion Owner]

That's good.

[Asker]

Thank you

[Opinion Owner]

You're welcome.

[Asker]

You’re a special women.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Asker]

You’re welcome 😊

[Asker]

Appreciate you

[LazerBean]

I have never heard society say that.