What is your take on sex with ex?

[happyfoetus]

[OlderAndWiser]

Why would you even be in contact with an ex? If you had a relationship and it didn't work, then it won't work the next time, either. The best way to move forward wth your life is to send every ex into your history books and to stop all contact wth them.

(The above comments do NOT apply if you broke up for a reason that was not based on the quality of the relationship, such as both going off to college hundreds of miles apart.)

Sex wth an ex can be intense but it usually brings back too many feelings that will take most of us in th wrong direction, unless you are both capable of simply using each other for sex without experiencing any feelings of affection or attachment.

[Chazmatazz269]

Boy, am i glad you asked!
Ex sex has always been extremely cathartic for me because i used it viscerally; angry, borderline “violent” sex that, at the time i felt i derived more pleasure from than she did.
Turns out that I was wrong and there’s actually a chance that if we’d been fucking that way from the beginning, maybe we’d have found a more meaningful connection sooner! Ell oh ell!

[Labokachulaa]

No, I'd never have sex with any of my ex's. As soon as I breakup with someone, it was done deal. I change my number, block them off social media, etc... I don't look back to the past, I feel there's a reason why things ended.

[KansasX]

had a bad breakup before and ended up going back to my previous boyfriend, only to find out that he was cheating on his girlfriend with me. Long story about that!

[BloodCursedDeviant]

Was the dick good at least? lol

[KansasX]

@BloodCursedDeviant duh, lol!

[BloodCursedDeviant]

We need more details lol

[KansasX]

@BloodCursedDeviant Who's we?

[BloodCursedDeviant]

Me lol I’m curious now~

[KansasX]

@BloodCursedDeviant Not much I can add. My boyfriend at the time cheated on me, I went back to me EX and found out that he was cheating on his new girlfriend.

[BloodCursedDeviant]

It’s missing the juicy bits. lol I’m kidding.

[KansasX]

@BloodCursedDeviant lol his penis was in my vagina. You're welcome.

[BloodCursedDeviant]

Are you being serious? No way?

[KansasX]

@BloodCursedDeviant way

[BloodCursedDeviant]

That’s pretty impressive.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Oh no! Sorry to hear he did that to you @KansasX

[KansasX]

@Wish4UrB00ty thanks. it's all good. that was all from 4 years ago.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Oh gotcha! Well I’m glad you moved on! That can be pretty hard to deal with.

[KansasX]

@Wish4UrB00ty funny enough I became good friends with my ex's girlfriend. We were both cheated on, we dont have any bad feelings towards each other.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Haha! I wonder how many girls meet that way? That is cool though! Just like you know what… Guys are jerks.

[KansasX]

@Wish4UrB00ty girls with many partners will somehow always be cheated on. So yes, guys are jerks!

[Wish4UrB00ty]

@KansasX I completely agree but it also isn’t just guys. There are plenty of girls who do the cheering too. It’s a sad world we live in… but there is always someone cheating somewhere.

[KansasX]

@Wish4UrB00ty I had a friend of mine who cheated on his guy a couple weeks ago, and he still doesn't know. I am staying out of it.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

lol! A guy who is cheating on his guy? Yeah it sounds better to stay out of that one! Lol!

[KansasX]

@Wish4UrB00ty lo my friend is a girl.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

@KansasX 😂😂 my bad. But that is hard. I take it you feel closer to the friend and would rather not intervene since you don’t care as much about the guy?

[KansasX]

@Wish4UrB00ty I have known her since high school, and only known him for 4 months. I stick with her.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

Yeah! That is fair for sure!! Lol!

[Guy13]

I woukd not do it. I believe in a clean and final breakup

[Little_Bumblebee]

Sounds like a bad idea

[ushagomez]

I guess it’s call sexex?

[Berethor]

I think it's fine, as it don't raise girl's body count, therefore not making her more ho.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

I would easily have sex with my ex.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If the sex is good go for it!

[Paul_in_Indy]

It happens and I do not say no. Sex is sex.

[mrmonogamous]

I only ever did that in high school. But I’ve got to say, it really scratched an edge for both of us!

[boggboss]

Tends to be a terrble idea

[Summeroflove]

Not happening

[AviatorTom]

Sex with ex can be very risky... of resuming the relationship. It can also be very exciting if both if you want it. Every situation us different, though overall, sex with ex is generally not a good idea. Maybe just masturbate to your ex's picture or video.

[Dargil]

You broke up for a reason. Never, ever look back.

[Ms_Facesitter]

A big no.

[elizamichale1]

It just happens

[JPresidente]

Might be fun but the issues that caused the breakup would still be there and make it awkward.

[kellytheman]

I have had sex with my exes before but we always knew it just sex nothing more and make sure are past feelings come up and remind each other why we broke up.

[AimeeKyle]

It is alright / pretty darn good….. if you are both on the same page. If you aren’t on the same page / place, it can be disastrous…. especially if one of you still has feelings or expectations. I have had sex with an X (two different) before. In both cases we were in the same place / had the same expectations (non except sex). It was fun / fulfilling in both instances. We eventually went our own ways and we gradually did it less and less until we didn’t anymore.

[Twalli]

My girlfriend and I will only not be together if it's financially detrimental. Until either of us finds someone else, I wouldn't be opposed for us to still have sex.

[Passing_by]

Very risky... Not recommended.

[abc--123]

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