What it feels like to have small breasts for me!

What it feels like to have small breasts for me!

1. The majority of men prefer bigger ones.

Sure, there are some men who prefer smaller ones, but they are in the minority and the chances that I would find such a man and then like him back are very low. "But hey, just because they prefer other type of breasts than yours doesn't mean it's a dealbreaker". Well, yeah, but it still feels awful to know that they don't like the most sensitive part of me and are paying less attention to it than they would if they were different.

2. Consolations told to women with small breasts aren't consolations at all.

"You can make up for them with a pretty face/ nice butt, etc." - so my boobs are something that needs to be maked up for? Thanks, I feel better already.

"If he will love you, he will accept every part of you" - how nobly of him. Let's get one thing straight - women want men to find their boobs attractive, and to caress them because he wants to do it. Not "accept" them like some burden and caress them because he thinks you want it.

3. I get very envy of women with bigger, perky breasts.

Jealousy is something that eats you from the inside and leaves you bitter. It's never a positive feeling and I would rather to never feel it, but that's the thing about jealousy - you can't help it.

4. Surgery is not worth it.

Even if I ever had the money to afford breasts augmentation - there is no point. Surgery wouldn't make them closer to each other and I would lose the sensivity. So even if men would pay attention to them after the surgery - I wouldn't feel much anyway.

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  • Nah, Tbh a lot of men like petite/small looking breasts as they like the look of petite women. I'm one of those guys, I've always liked small boobs but tbh any size is good for me too.

    Girls can't help when size that they're born with, and tbh boobs aren't really all that important as you think when we are seeking for a partner or even for a hookup unless he's just an ignorant/immature guy who's priority is only boobs.

  • It is what it is.

  • I agree that surgery is not worth it. I think making up for small boobs is the wrong word. Personally I prefer bigger boobs but some girls look amazing with small boobs it just fits them very well. It's more about the overall image than focusing on one body part. But I liked your mytake and I get where you're coming from. Accepting the things you can't change is something that everyone has to learn.
    Good Luck.

  • boobs are overrated by women.
    big boobs are a nice addition but sexy body with good waist hip ratio + long legs is much more sexually arousing than just boobs alone.
    I would always pick a girl with sexy body with cup-A, than one with a less attractive body but with cup-D

    I speak for my preferences, maybe other guys disagree.

    • And this comment shows exactly what bothers me. I don't know why guys miss the point of this take, did you read it all? I don't give a shit if a guy finds my legs or my ass attractive - caressing me there gives me as much pleasure as licking my elbow would so none. And this whole comment is the perfect example of everything I've written. Seriously, have you read it?

    • Yes.. it's a short rant. Your point about consolation is the point that bothers me on women when they start to talk about their appearance. Women think too subjective. Yes... most girls aren't able to see their self objectively even if they stand in front of a 2m high mirror. That's why every guy get a stone face when his very attractive girl he loves starts to talk about deficits in her appearance. Oh.. the point of jealousy is interesting in terms of vanity and I believe you. You didn't formulate your take as question. Hence I didn't feel obliged to answer it, I wrote what I think about small boobs. In the objective way I see females appearance and boobs. Do you really think my intention was licking your elbows or caressing of your jealous ego? What makes you so special for me in your opinion? Your special small boobs power?

  • If you hate your boobs so much swap with mine 😂😂 I always wish I had small boobs so that I could run and do other kinds of exercises with no pain and not worry about sagging as I age 😂 trust me big boobs are WAY OVERRATED. WAY TOO MUCH. OVERRATED.

    Also, the function of boobs is to breastfeed anyway and boob size doesn't affect its function. So why even bother 🤷🏽‍♀️ don't let people's words affect you, they are gonna die with their stupidity. Be grateful for what you have, girl! Small boobs, medium boobs, big boobs, all of them come with their own set of pros and cons. Neither is really better than the other.

    • I don't want to ever have any contact with kids, so my boobs purpose is not breastfeeding. I would swap boobs with you any second if I could xd Women with big boobs often complain that their breasts are being oversexualized - but I want my breasts to be sexualized and my problem is that they are not due to their size

    • You can still be sexualized with small boobs. Boobs are just one feature out of so many.

    • Your boobs size will increase with time and with sexual experiences

  • I certainly don't represent the mainstream, but I find a girl's bare chest, which displays softness and vulnerability to evoke deep intimate feelings and (!) a desire to protect her. Any display from flat with nipples through a B-cup does that, with more conventional sexual desire above that. But there is such a thing as too big, which does not evoke those feelings. The're just TITS.

    • She looks lovely.

    • Who?

    • The theme picture for this post.

  • The proportion of men who like small breasts is a lot higher than what you seem to imply. It's a minority, but it's a BIG minority. So the odds of finding such a man, especially given such men are MORE likely to approach you is actually fairly good.

    by the way, the reason women with big tits get catcalled more is that their breasts are more visible through clothing, hence draw more attention. Women don't get catcalled because of their vaginas very often, but if you walked down the street with no pants on, not many men would be paying attention to your tits.

  • Thanks for this. To call me small breasted is a compliment:) I think it's one of those things that many people don't think about but I, like you, think about it often. I am fine with myself - I know I'm cute and desirable. But it's still a thing that I have had part of my life since I was young.

  • You can naturally increase your breast size by eating estrogen rich foods.

  • I had surgery to make my boobs smaller I've honestly never been happier, it's about what works for your body nothing else.

    • I had mine reduced in 2006 and I want it again now too

  • 1. If those are your tits in the picture, they look perfectly fine to me! I wouldn't mind if a girl had tits like that, besides, there are way to make them bigger.
    2. No such words as "maked" or "nobly". You mean, "made" and "noble". And, from what I've seen, women go OUT OF THEIR WAY to make their tits INCREDIBLY noticeable and then DEMAND that you pay NO attention to them at all or risk being called a pervert!!! Men DO find tits attractive!! Haven't you ever noticed?/? Have you been living in a cave your whole life? "Accept them like some burden"? What?
    3. No, you get envious. I've never understood what perky tits are!! If someone has a pair, could you send me a picture of them so I know what you're talking about? What's jealousy got to do with tits?
    4. Correct!! So, don't go the surgery route! There are lots of other ways to get bigger tits!! BreastNexuus. com can show you. Just this afternoon, I saw a guy with a set of B cups!! Pretty cool!! And, it had NOTHING to do with his weight! He was a relatively skinny guy!! If HE can grow bigger tits, YOU can, too!!!

    • Oh god, I've written "maked" after 12 years of learning English... I'm ashamed of myself xd Google translate said nobly is an adjective from "noble" so that's where this mistake has come from. And I believe being jealous and being envious is the same thing, those are just synonyms. 2. First of all, no, those women that you're talking about don't have a problem with men staring at their tits. There is just one important thing: those must be handsome men. Being hit on by a guy that isn't physically attractive will always cause that "Ewwww pervert" reaction, no matter what he's doing. "Men DO find tits attractive!! Haven't you ever noticed?" Second thing - men find tits attractive if they actually are attractive. There are some men that like all breasts but they are usually old - around your age - and/or ugly, so they can't be picky anyway. And I'm interested in young (19-30) hot guys. They don't have to accept whatever comes to them, so they have their preferences, and small, far apart breasts don't fall into "hot" category for them. "Have you been living in a cave your whole life? "Accept them like some burden"? What?" Like I and many people on here have said - boobs, even if they don't hit one's preference, aren't a dealbreaker. So a guy can love a certain girl, find her overall attractive, but he isn't particularly attracted to her tits and he just "accepts" them as a part of her, but it's nothing to be excited about. Do you finally get what I mean here?

    • No, jealousy is to do with people and envy is to do with things. Sorry, but a guy can't help how he looks anymore than a woman can help how she looks. You shouldn't judge people on how they look! That's what "Beauty & The Beast" is all about! Darlin', men love nearly ALL tits!! Wait'll you get to my age! You'll find out it's NOT old! Your next 30 years will go in a FLASH and you'll still be going, "I'm in my 50's, but I still feel like I'm in my late 20's!". And when people your age start telling you YOU'RE old because you're in your 50's, you'll be telling them the same thing I just said! Tell ya what you do, get a bunch of your girls friends together with a bunch of guy friends for a wild topless college party and make sure you include some girls with "unattractive" tits and see how many guys go after those girls, too. Oh, yes they do!!! It's not all that easy for even young hot guys to get girls!! I was there! I was even in a locally pretty popular band!! Do you know how many time either of those factors got me a girl? 3!! And the 2nd one didn't really count because she didn't even know what she was doing. The first one didn't exactly count, either because she was just using me to make another guy jealous. A young guy looking to get laid will take just about any willing pussy that comes along regardless of what her tits look like!! Yeah, that's the way most good guys are, but that doesn't explain what the "burden" part is. Burden of what, having tits? Having guys that like tits?

    • "Sorry, but a guy can't help how he looks anymore than a woman can help how she looks. You shouldn't judge people on how they look! That's what "Beauty & The Beast" is all about!" But what does this have to do with what I said? I said that guys who like nearly all tits are not attractive because they can't be picky "Wait'll you get to my age! You'll find out it's NOT old! Your next 30 years will go in a FLASH and you'll still be going, "I'm in my 50's, but I still feel like I'm in my late 20's!". And when people your age start telling you YOU'RE old because you're in your 50's, you'll be telling them the same thing I just said!" Again, this doesn't have to do with anything and it doesn't change the fact that as you get older you get less and less picky. Also old people have low libido And ehmm... I don't know if naked parties are normal where you live, but they aren't here. It's super easy for hot guys to get girls. If women aren't all over you, well, then you must not look like young Johnny Depp. "A young guy looking to get laid will take just about any willing pussy that comes along regardless of what her tits look like!!" Yes. But we aren't talking about just getting land, I've already said that. Just because some guy would have sex with a girl doesn't mean he would caress her tits or even anything at all.

  • Mine aren't very big, never had any complaints though.


  • “ The majority of men prefer bigger ones.” I think there was about a 30% men that are attracted to small ones. Some like the smaller ones more, I know. Some men are smart enough to recognize features that small breast women have that is all part of her package and knows that he is more compatible with her.

    “Sure, there are some men who prefer smaller ones, but they are in the minority and the chances that I would find such a man and then like him back are very low. ” There was a study done that said men that were low earners tend to go for huge boobs because of the lack of self reliance and the correlation of that to nurturing. The study also went further to say that intelligent men that have earning potential are attracted to small breast women.

    “Well, yeah, but it still feels awful to know that they don't like the most sensitive part of me and are paying less attention to it than they would if they were different.” That is soo wrong, those small ones excite some men and me and they will probably get too much attention.

    “Consolations told to women with small breasts aren't consolations at all.” "You can make up for them with a pretty face/ nice butt, etc." again wrong, they are attractive on their own, and I know because I feel that way.

    “ I get very envy of women with bigger, perky breasts.” Well they will attract some unweaned obsessive boob fanatic while you will attract some intelligent educated type. Why would you be jealous?

    “Surgery is not worth it.” You got this one right and they destroy the natural beauty of what you were born with. The fake ones are horrible to look at.

  • 1. The majority of men are usually undecided and base their sexual desires on the woman the breasts are attached too. Teenage guys usually have a thing for big breasts in the same way they do for lingerie usually a preconceived notion of sexual fantasies and porn. If you look at the lists of famous celebrities guys like it's usually chicks like Natalie Portman, emilia clarke, Ellen page, Mila kulnis, Jessica Alba, scarlet Johanson, Anna kendrick, seems gomez, Vanessa Hudgens, Emma Watson, Natalie Dormer, Zendaya, Isabell Moner, Hallie Steinfield, Anya Taylor Joy, Adrianna Grande none of who have giant tits but are exceptionally pretty.
    2. Women with small breasts can attract men because they can get away with showing more cleavage or by not wearing a bra whilst big breasted women just look slutty. I often see small breasted women with them pushed up and out on display.
    3. Women are their own worst enemy, they are always jealous of each other over breast size, but size, weight, height and so on.
    4. Breast augmentation will get you male attention while you are fully clothed but they never look and feel right compared to the real mc coy, then there's the ridiculous looking scars around the nipple or under the breast. Women should only get breast augmentation in my view if their breasts are misshapen.

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  • Small boobs, big boobs, they're all nice ^_^ for me it's more about shape, proportion and pertness anyways, size is just one metric and frankly is kinda overrated. And maybe small boobs are less "flashy" in a way, so they're not just constantly dominating my line of vision, so it's easier to appreciate a girl's overall figure without her boobs just SCREAMING for constant attention lol

  • What it feels like to have small breasts for me!
  • negative attitude

    I love small boobs and large boobs too.

    All of them are sexy

    Believe it or not.

    • Men like big boobs because Bigger boobs means greater surface area. Bigger surface area means you can touch more. It's just a sexual feeling for "touching more". It doesn't mean that smaller boob's don't look great. If you have smaller boob's. Your SO can hold it properly, that's an advantage of having smaller boob's.

  • What if I told you, no one cares as much as you think.
    That a man will love you and feel attracted to you, because you make him feel good and manly, not because you have big breasts or not...

    • Have you read my mytake? I've mentioned the exact same "consolation" in point 2

    • I am not consoling you No one cares that you have small tits, its all in your head.

    • I care. And I want guys to care too, that's the issue - they don't care about them.

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  • Understand completely.

    When I was younger, I was an A cup and was I ever self conscious about it. But, I suppose I just learned to live with virtually nothing there.

    Although, yes of course I was envious and jealous of girls with bigger boobs.

    Surgery isn't the solution, it's only a quick fix!

    I'm a C cup these days.

  • I wish i had too.. i am flat af... i would love something like katy perry's

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