What makes a blowjob a good blowjob?

What do men like in a blowjob and what’s a turnoff
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  • Rather than a long "how to", here are some suggestions.
    *Begin with a gentle erotic massage to get him hard and wet. Backs of knees, inside of thighs, ball sack and even teasing his butt hole. Starting from flaccid is too time consuming and may not get good results. Get him ready first.
    *Always build sexual tension; never stopping nor pausing. Either can cause loss of momentum to orgasm.
    *The best BJ is stroking and sucking at the same time. Concentrate your mouth at the glans (head) and stroke the shaft. Going way down on him with your mouth is a waste of motion and we don't feel much below the glans. Your hand is much better.
    *The closer he is to orgasm (thrusting, deep breathing) the faster you bob and stroke.
    *When ejaculation begins, immediately cease all mouth motion and just suck only while you continue stroking vigorously to coax the last squirts out.
    *Some guys (such as me) like anal fingering during oral. Learn how to do that right. When his orgasm starts, stop thrusting your finger but leave it fully inserted while pressing gently upward. You will literally feel him ejaculate.

    • I agree with a lot of this. I certainly don't want her to "stop all mouth motion" when I start ejaculating. And going all the way down is not something I'd ever say "is a waste of motion." If she CAN go all the way down, that puts me in her throat, which feels much more viscous than her mouth, and I can feel the pressure of the sucking on my shaft just fine, not only on the glans. Bottom line: Ask him. That's also going to be really hot. You can ask 50 guys on here to describe the perfect BJ and get 50 different answers. That's the reality of it. I think Dargil's answer is well written and well thought out, but it still doesn't apply to me, through no oversight or fault of his own.

    • @BoopBoopBeep In sex, nothing is absolute.

Most Helpful Guy

  • turn on: unexpected, like im just chilling and my girl just comes and does it, Deep throat, and sounds basically , and eye contact

    turn off: dry mouth, gag reflex ( but some guys might like I don't know), teary eyes, and too much saliva

Most Helpful Girl

  • honestly men enjoy someone who can give a smile who enjoys it and will swallow... the other stuff you don't have to do like deepthroat... too many girls believe you have to do that when you can make a man very happy by sucking his cockhead swirl your tongue up and down the shaft and lick his vein which is behind the head itself... getting him to cum makes a good blowjob... but don't ever fall into the trap where your scared... enjoy his penis enjoy the taste and sucking it... don't be scared or feel your doing a duty just to keep the relationship going... a lot of men have guilt over that... most of the responders on here sounded like perverts but a few were honest and realistic.

    • Thank you! This is what I wanted! Some honest advise because I never know if I’m doing it right and I’m too embarrassed to ask haha 🫰🏻

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Trying to get attention?

    • Sorry, I had an ex that wanted to give exact steps. Do what you love.

  • Suction, stroking, licking, sucking on his balls. The big thing about a BJ is that you want to get a little bit messy with it.

  • She needs to know how to use her hand a little, having a tongue ring helps and its sexy to look at, and being a good girl and SWALLOWING like the little sllut she's meant to be is the best turn-on of all

  • Enthusiasm. If it looks like you're enjoying giving one then he'll enjoy it.

    If it looks like you're doing it just to do it then he probably won't enjoy it as much.

  • A good blow job is one that makes you cum in a short amount of time. I've never had a good blow job. Have yet to find someone that can make me cum just from sucking my dick.

  • Knowing she adores me. Otherwise it is a waste of time.

  • A girl one deep throated me and tickled the top of where my dick and my balls meet with her tounge and proceeded to swallow my load. Best blow job I ever had.

  • I think women know how to give a good one but intentionally do a bad one for guys they don't like, the real question is why are women giving half ass lame blowjobs

  • Depends on the guy. We’re all different

  • tongue piercing

  • Good: throat and vomit. Bad: condom and no swallow

  • The three E’s. Energy, effort, and enthusiasm. That’s where the basis of it all starts… you bring that and it’s already better. There are different techniques you could learn. But over all, if you seem happy to be there, pleasure the dick like you masturbate (with the same energy) and do what he tells you to do. You will give a very good and effective blowjob.

  • Spit and grab my balls

  • When she swallows.